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madam (f)
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@ Solo2 wetin u they talk, i no just understand, na english abi na wetin
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Rhodalyn (f)
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men do that simply bec they're men
they can't keep their tins in their shorts
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lowo (m)
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rhoda, who told you men can't control their tin, na you women who entice men
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habumaks (m)
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This place is for married men and women. I'm still searching, so i have to experience it before commenting. But it's an interesting topic sha.
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kellorah (f)
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i believe, one way or the other, everyone flirts!
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Oracle (m)
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no way girl, that is a compound fallacy
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mukina2 (f)
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mariied men their eyes will never be married their whole body says i do but not the roving eyes  |
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Wumine (f)
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I thought its a man's world. Men can cheat but woe betibe the woman that is caught doing same.Rubbish! Men will always be men! |
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biyibabe (f)
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Most men are simply greedy,
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waffistyle (m)
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THERE ARE MANY REASONS FOR THIS.
Men like challenges, chasing a woman, before she is gotten is a challenge, the man wants to conquer, once he has conquered, he is looking for the next!!!!this is the psyc, and also even if the man wnats to change after marriage, it becomes a problem because he is already addicted to this lifestyle, Women that also were invoved in multiple relationships also would have the same problem of being totally faithful, at best they would demand for so much attention, or seek some attention somewhere else, that might first start with her cheating emotionally, before physically
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Wazirri (m)
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It is simply lack of self-control!
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mazaje (m)
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the bitter truth is this, men are naturally polygamous, thats just the bitter truth u can do what ever u want to do to your man but he will still play around . its the mans nature he was created like that, through out history men used to have so many wives its just now that things have changed due to religion and civilization. the fact that a married man sleeps with another woman doesnt mean he loves his wife less , never, he is just doing his natural duty as a man. i have friends that are married and we all follow girls together but that doesnt mean they love their wives less, as far as they don't know about it its nothing to them its just part of the show of being a man.
I have seen men with the most beautiful women sleep around, its every where, My neigbhour has one of the best woman i have ever seen as a wife but he still goes to the strip clubs to have fun. when halle berry was out on magazine pages and covers as one of the most beautiful woman on earth her husband eric berneth was seen hanging out with whores in haiti, its not about good looks and the women taking care of them selves, its inbuilt men are just like that. prince charles had princes diana one of the most famous and admirable woman on earth as a wife but he still was having extra marital affiars and a lot like him are doing the same. every man does it even pastors,imams and priest do it too.presidents,governors,ministers, respectable people in the society all do it because they are men and have to satisfy that nature of being a man. women just have to live with the awful fact and know that if your man sleeps around doesnt mean he loves u less. i know men that love their women dearly but still sleep around, men just can't help it and the truth must be told.
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twinstaiye (m)
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Well said mazaje, well said, I couldnt have put it better myself the way you just analyse that. The truth is, married men will always cheat at a slightest opportunity, and I hasten to add that it is one of those vices that humanity knows it is not good, but were generally count as a normal occurence. Shakespeare once said that, "Nothing is good or bad, thinking makes it so." It depends on our thinking, our orientation and our upbringing. As for me, whether I do flirt with women outside my marriage?, mail me if you don't believe I don't, I may tell you in confidence.
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mazaje (m)
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@twinstaiye  u gat me laughing out loudly here. |
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BillGatesFan (m)
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@SEUN: if you talking about RITA Dominic, she came from Abia State, GOd's Own State. Do you want to meet her? Just curious
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omogenaija (f)
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my furture husband will not be stupid enough to try that shit with me |
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sisimose (f)
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my furture husband will not be stupid enough to try that shit with me hehehe i like the way girls our mouths just go 100mph when we are single, you wait till you are married and tell me if you can control everything your husband does. i don't see any harm in flirting as long as it does not go beyond that and it is not done if it upsets your husband or wife, especially in their presence. I am naturally a flirt so i guess i am biased. |
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egetz (m)
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most married men will flirt only with young and singles girls. they like to continue disvirgining young girls around. by the way, THE technical definition of a virgin is any girl that you have not laid personally is a virgin. so you see the virgin hunt can be a lifetime job.
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omogenaija (f)
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hehehe i like the way girls our mouths just go 100mph when we are single, you wait till you are married and tell me if you can control everything your husband does.
i don't see any harm in flirting as long as it does not go beyond that and it is not done if it upsets your husband or wife, especially in their presence. I am naturally a flirt so i guess i am biased.
true talk  i'm as long as i'm single i will run my mouth , but still as a jealous person my husband will understand that i can't deal with flirting before he ask my crzy a$$ to be his wife |
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omogenaija (f)
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lol sisimose , he probably wont marry me once he sees how jealous i am
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sisimose (f)
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this is serious, lmao. the picture of glenn close in fatal attraction keeps coming to my mind, i wonder why   |
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omogenaija (f)
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now i have to watch the movie so i can the picture as well
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sisimose (f)
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please do , it will scare you into shape lmao joking  |
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Zandra1 (f)
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I think that what Waziru and Seun said is right. Cheating is not born in men its just a lack of self control and being deceitful. Its women that some of them cheat with u know so that means that those women also lack self control. If u do love your partner u can never cheat on that person. Saying that sleevless wears etc attracts a man that he can't hold himself means that married women should also go after their husbands friends or men more handsome than their husbands. How can a man cheat on his wife cause shes fat while that man is probably rocking a pot belly and yam legs with bad breath. People should stop saying that cheating is in men. Its a lie. Anyone both man or woman can easily cheat if they lack self control. Sex is human instinct. You just have to ask God to help u control yourself and then love your partner like Christ loved the church by the special grace of God. Theres just no reason to cheat. Men and women should stop blaming each other for not making their marriages to work therefore giving them the reason to cheat. It takes two to tango so both should make their marriage what they want it to be.I think divorcing the cheater is the best option because AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases are real and they don't show on the face. Better for one to be single and happy than live in heart ache due to a cheating partner. There are actually men that don't cheat. Not all men and women are cheaters. Always remember the saying that a wise man avoids troubles (temptations) while a smart man wriggles out of it.
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diyobdw (f)
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@sisimose  nice @topic- men can't help it simple! but they should at least repect their marriage and keep it undercover. the she wont mind- not like she wont know anyway.  |
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sisimose (f)
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@biyobdw thanks oh  |
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spoilt (f)
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@sisimose nice @topic- men can't help it simple! but they should at least repect their marriage and keep it undercover. the she wont mind- not like she wont know anyway. why do women keep short changing themselves by believing that men can't help themselves? are they wild beasts that lack control? hate when men are potrayed that way. |
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Tobiegal (f)
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Wot is al this rubbish talk about? y should d guys get a pass-mark 4 cheating on dir wives al because 'he's a guy' Sha, i don't buy that, wot is good 4 d goose is good 4 da ganda. period! Bt for filrting, wel, as far as it does go pass that nuthin rong. |
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sisimose (f)
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nothing wrong with a little bit of flirting
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LondonCool (m)
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*shrugs shoulders*
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sisimose (f)
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the topic is FLIRTING not sleeping around. |
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