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Aniomaman (m)
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A nice tradtional wedding tops it anyday but then we got to add in the civil wedding just to make am official,  |
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laudate
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If you go outside of Nigeria with just traditional done, how exactly do you intend to show PROOF that you two are married? Perhaps you intent to show everyone a picture of a calabash or kolanut as proof that you two are married in the eyes of the law?
Oh mi gosh! I can't stop laughing!! Una no go kill person with laughter for here.  |
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luxoire (f)
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''Money talks bullsh*t walks''
If i have my way and money, i will have BOTH plus the Registry one too, and heck i want the whole works,, from the lavish white dress, and guy in tuxedo, in a catherdral (if i can), with good music, heck i am roman catholic and i want it B I G, WETTIN, NA ONE TIME I GO MARRY OH (if i am to re-marry-God forbid- for any other reason, then i will do it small scale)
the traditional one, i want d matching traditional wear, food for a viallage and drinks in abundance, live music from cultural groups, see me, see wahala, hmm make i get d kind money i want, my wedding will be one in town, d type little kids would be wishing for,
(Let no one kill my dreams, aim for the sky and if u land lower, it wont be so bad)
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frankiriri (m)
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''Money talks bullsh*t walks''
If i have my way and money, i will have BOTH plus the Registry one too, and heck i want the whole works,, from the lavish white dress, and guy in tuxedo, in a catherdral (if i can), with good music, heck i am roman catholic and i want it B I G, WETTIN, NA ONE TIME I GO MARRY OH (if i am to re-marry-God forbid- for any other reason, then i will do it small scale)
the traditional one, i want d matching traditional wear, food for a viallage and drinks in abundance, live music from cultural groups, see me, see wahala, hmm make i get d kind money i want, my wedding will be one in town, d type little kids would be wishing for,
(Let no one kill my dreams, aim for the sky and if u land lower, it wont be so bad)
No problem as long as you can afford it dream on |
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aumefa
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I do not agree with those who think church wedding means God's blessings. God's blessings go into a wedding at the point the two agree in truth and also at the spot the parents consent. Quite a number of very successful marriages were held outside any religious inclination.
How many of the "white weddings" are really white. In 99% of the cases, the man had already 'known' the lady. "And he knew her."
In the days of old, our fore-fathers lived long and happily with our "fore-mothers".
Traditional marriage is it.
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dezi (f)
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i think both are important.
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kike001 (f)
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i will say none i want a normall blue weddin
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ferdimako1
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Both people getting a nut tied: One should take on one
to fund. If not sometimes, anything to keep the
marriage going smoothly. Or the woman mainly will
discover her new husband has turn to a rogue as those
who help in spending all the resources left them with
rubber gifts.Since all has gone into holding the two
ceremonies, quarrels and bikerings set in. I always ask
why spending so much to make weddings hot while
marriage gets cold? People don't think well any more or
it's all confusing in there?
Well there is a good way to even avoid any fellas, just
'pad' the woman and the parents will be begging for
you to come and do a thing. Just a thing!
This double-headed ceremonies keep men away from
popping and the ladies turning to old spinsters. Is that
good people?
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luxoire (f)
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No problem as long as you can afford it dream on
I had already said that in my posting!!  |
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finemocha (f)
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i notice mostly men are screaming traditional marriage. lol is it because a white wedding costs three times more than the average traditional wedding.
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Red_Lips (f)
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They are against it because they are not restricted by law to stay in a traditional marriage and also the fact that church wedding is against adultery or bringing in another wife.
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frankiriri (m)
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i notice mostly men are screaming traditional marriage. lol is it because a white wedding costs three times more than the average traditional wedding.
White weddings don't necessarily always cost more. Some trads are more expensive |
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YOUNGDICE$ (m)
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traditional marriage.
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frankiriri (m)
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They are against it because they are not restricted by law to stay in a traditional marriage and also the fact that church wedding is against adultery or bringing in another wife. [/quote :oWhat century are you living in. That is very far from the truth. I don't think anyone in this generation would think like that. People who wed in churches commit adultery too |
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Red_Lips (f)
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It's at least against the church law to commit adultery against your wife as opposed to traditional weddings where it's more favorable to the man.
and learn how to quote.
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frankiriri (m)
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It's at least against the church law to commit adultery against your wife as opposed to traditional weddings where it's more favorable to the man.
and learn how to quote.
learn how to talk |
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Red_Lips (f)
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speak and write better than you, kid. Pele.
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frankiriri (m)
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In your dreams
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Damabel
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What is even the need to have two weedings is only in Nigeria we have two weddings.
Let us learn how to stop this funny way of life. Some issues are to be remembered.
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synderella
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Court wedding, white wedding and traditional wedding, i say do them all!!!
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Fileki (f)
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if the question is ''Traditional Marriage or ''white wedding'' , then d poster is asking me to make a choice, so i chooe; Traditinal weddind
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nalijah07 (f)
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Please forgive my ignorance, but why opt for a traditional wedding, when there are no legal documents that solidify it? Wouldn't you want the security of knowing that you have official paperwork in case you go elsewhere in the world and need to prove your status?
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ifyalways (f)
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In my part of the world traditional marriages rock ! i love traditional weddings.the corals,the beads,the ures,the local dances,the setting,the up wine and food,even the guests too,oh my !the rich cultural display  i can't MISS it,no,not for even d church wedding. |
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top_kin (m)
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Both.
Traditional because I believe in tradition
White because I strongly believe that "If the Lord does't not watch, in vain do we keep vigil"
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