Are Virgins Still Respected?

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kissyspark (f)
Are Virgins Still Respected?
« on: January 26, 2007, 02:14 PM »

do virgins find true love this days? is any guy ready to get married to a virgin?
iice (f)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #1 on: January 26, 2007, 05:40 PM »

No they cannot find true love, since they are not humans and thus incapable of emotions
kellorah (f)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #2 on: January 27, 2007, 07:04 PM »

lol iice!!!
so sarcastic!!  Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
iice (f)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #3 on: January 27, 2007, 07:21 PM »

kellorah i just tire for some questions oooo Grin Grin
kellorah (f)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #4 on: January 27, 2007, 07:24 PM »

na them dey give me the headache ooo  Cheesy
their own don tire me!  Undecided
Free (f)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #5 on: January 27, 2007, 09:55 PM »

lol

i know whot yall mean Grin Grin
whitelexi (m)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #6 on: January 30, 2007, 09:34 AM »

To be perfectly honest. . .  I think they're at a huge disadvantage in the present time.  Luckily all guys aint like me sha Cool
ThoniaSlim (f)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #7 on: January 30, 2007, 09:40 AM »

hhhhhmmmmmmm,intresting  Lips sealed
whitelexi (m)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #8 on: January 30, 2007, 09:48 AM »

Quote from: ThoniaSlim on January 30, 2007, 09:40 AM
hhhhhmmmmmmm,intresting Lips sealed

LOL Grin so u're here sef? Whats up now?
My reason is simple, nowadays u hardly see men who will marry a woman without doing anything sexual with her during their courting and for those who want to remain virgins, they usually end up splitting because they are not prepared to lose it.
ThoniaSlim (f)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #9 on: January 30, 2007, 10:57 AM »

****clears throat****
I SEE  Lips sealed
whitelexi (m)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #10 on: January 30, 2007, 11:49 AM »

Why the throat clearing Grin
ThoniaSlim (f)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #11 on: January 31, 2007, 02:54 AM »

nothing

                    ******straight face******
Man-eater (f)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #12 on: January 31, 2007, 11:58 AM »

of course they are still respected.

i definately respect virgins and i'm infact jealous of them.

Undecided wish i was still one.

Theres something special about them because they are al,most extinct in this new society we live in.

For the vigin haters, its not their fault u are a slut. Tongue
MyPeace (f)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #13 on: January 31, 2007, 12:32 PM »

 Shocked Shocked
njoanita
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #14 on: January 31, 2007, 12:35 PM »

yes  i respect them for it's our culture to remain virgins untill marriage.
cynthia (f)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #15 on: January 31, 2007, 12:57 PM »

Nna nawa o, i don't even know whaat to say, funy but serious topic i most comend, if i am ask, my respons is yes they are respected and can find true love very well because true love has nothing to do with the heart and not mere sex or romance, let me just be an independent observer so as to see other peoples point of view, [/b]give it up for  the virgins in the house and for the virgines please don't slack[b]
donnymikky (m)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #16 on: January 31, 2007, 01:07 PM »

I wonder why when topics relating to virginity are discussed we all tend to look Wink at ther direction of any available girl around. Don't men keep or loose their virginity too??
LadyT (f)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #17 on: January 31, 2007, 01:29 PM »

I'm going to divert the topic slighlty.

I agree that most guys will do something sexual with a girl before marrying her they want to test drive.  I have also noticed that a lot of people getting married nowadays are already pregnant!  What happened to having sex for the first time on your wedding night?  It seems now our nigerian men want to make sure that, not only can he have sex with a girl but that she can also get pregnant before they marry her.

uchetobi (f)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #18 on: January 31, 2007, 02:19 PM »

of course they are still respected
1forall (m)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #19 on: January 31, 2007, 03:36 PM »

Well I personally regard virginity as ideal, Gods word is explicit enough and its underscored by the values with which majority of parents bring up their kids this side of the world. Therefore I do respect virgins, especially as these virtually moral-free times make it apparently less attractive to stay off sex.

As for true love, generally, virginity is no determinant whatsoever. Shout out to the vigins in the house!!

Razorr (f)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #20 on: January 31, 2007, 03:55 PM »

@1forall  I'm a virgin. let's hook up.  Grin   Grin
jordan 2 (f)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #21 on: January 31, 2007, 04:39 PM »

of course they are respected. in our society now it is very rare to find a virgin.
mr rich (m)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #22 on: January 31, 2007, 05:48 PM »

see, i love virgins and i will forever love them. it,s not easy to remain chaste amidst all these free-for-all sexualities that fill the air around us. there is no direction you turn that you don't find sex being displayed blatantly, gleefully, shamelessly and happily. Is it in our campus, in the media or even the way our girls provocatively dress. you can imagine what our girls are now doing on shows and musicals, they have perfected the act of pornography even more than their American counterparts. i have great love and respect for our virgins and i want to  tell them to take pride in their virginity. virginity is still greatly valued by people like us and virgins are secretely envied by their peers eventhough they like to taunt them and say that virginity is out of fashion. virgins shouldn't see themselves strange or think something is wrong with them. they must lift their heads high, chin up, chest out and walk with springs in their steps because they are the hope of morality. three 'GBOSA' to all the virgins in the house, GBOSA, GBOSA, GBOSA, Love you all Smiley 
raya2j (f)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #23 on: January 31, 2007, 05:53 PM »

hi all,
i am very proud of my self and still a virgin !!! nothing as real as looking forward to your wedding night o. in my late 20's and i am getting married this year . thank God for His grace sha o ( i mean for keeping myself till now). Smiley
raya2j (f)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #24 on: January 31, 2007, 05:57 PM »

yea mr rich, its not easy; but its worth it. 3 Gbosa to uuuu. thanks
mekoyo (m)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #25 on: January 31, 2007, 05:59 PM »

Yes they are. And i respect them a lot.

There is nothing like keeping your virginity till your wedding night.

Balthier (m)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #26 on: January 31, 2007, 06:09 PM »

I'm a virgin and I'm proud to be one.  I think its worth the wait.  this may suprise some people but some women do actually like that.  Sadly in society when people think virgin, they automatically think no experience.  My question is as there is black and white there are also grey areas.  When u guys mean virgin do u mean, he or she hasnt done anything?  because a girl i was seeing told me she considers it anything except penetration.
debosky (m)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #27 on: January 31, 2007, 06:09 PM »

I think they are respected, but in my own opinion, its overrated,

there are far more important things in life apart from the fact that you've never had intercourse

and virginity at marriage is no guarantee of success or fidelity afterwards.

if you can do it, kudos to you, but if not? like i said there are many more important issues
Macgreat (m)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #28 on: January 31, 2007, 06:24 PM »

>Tears<  sniff  Cry
oyinboaja
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #29 on: January 31, 2007, 06:27 PM »

na wa oh
Macgreat (m)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #30 on: January 31, 2007, 09:02 PM »

Virgins are called 'Baby' because they are unhatch/you did the hatching "you know what am sayin" Wink Grin  Non-virgin are called "babe" or "babillon drifter" not good :')
scjb612
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #31 on: January 31, 2007, 09:55 PM »

well after reading all this mail, i don't know what to say. i'm on my 20's and still a virgin, i don't like talking about it as it's out of fashion, i just find my self stock in it. i can't waite to have sex but want to get married first.
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