Are Virgins Still Respected?

yeah, good for you, just make sure you work on your English grammar first ok? 

i will respect expecially if she is an adult, that is not coaxed to be a virgin, it indicates high level discipline,

Hi ya'l,
i strongly believe that virgins r still respected.

@scjb612
i feel u girl, its not easy 2 talk about ur virginity status, especially when d people around u are not.they see u as being old fashioned, but its best to keep it since u've waited this long, and talk less bout it.
men don't like 2 admit it,but to them, being d only man that has touched u is d greatest gift u've given.
 

Ofcourse they are, I wish i had one, At this time i would not be suffering from the demon i just left.

There was a girl I tried to disvirgin, that was some years back in Nigeria. Guys, the game was very tough. My magic stick nearly broke into two and the girl was in pain and struggled to push me off. I finally gave up and told her we should try the game another day. But from that day I made up my mind that I will never try such a thing again. I love chicks very much, but virgin is not my thing. I am not interested to marry or befriend any.

God,  first off, do you think the so called Virgil thing still exist and if yes, do you think I can withstand dating a girl without touching her, matter of fact, most of us guy can't. Reason being, we have seen on this same planet where a whore, slut, slave (BDSM), hawker and even those ones wey them don do p***y plastic surgery  for dey pretend like sey them still be virgil and on the night of honey-moon (sour-venus  ) everything thing turn to yam pepper scatter scatter. I'm sure that might have happened to somebody here. So with that kind of experience how do you want ME to believe any gurl telling me some V-Boot stories? Between, shit happens, you na mean?  . If you don't know what i mean, go to the beach one day and see exactly what i mean. (I no dey talk about Kuramo o,  ) Go to beach where you go see gurl in thongs, Bikinis and G-G-G-G- (Unot) strings.

my people, i respect virgins who want to wait until the wedding night to do it with a man who don almost tire for sex. but does being a virgin guaranty a successful marriage? does it really mean that the lady in question is a wonderful person? do we not have people who have had sex during courtship and still end up marrying each other and be blessed immensely by God. according to VOLTAIRE, " it is a common human error to assume that virginity is a sign of chastity". there are wicked women who are still virgins? why is virginity used as a yardstick for determining a good woman? what about honesty, integrity e.t.c?

let us think on this lines,

I would respect any man or woman who is still a virgin because I believe it's the most precious gift you can present to your spouse on you wedding night.

Before you start to call me old fashioned and shout me down please hear me out, being a virgin at marriage is not a guarantee that you marriage will be trouble free so don't use it as a yardstick, but it will show you partner that you have not been "doing the rounds".

Here are some excuses people give for loosing their virginity

1. people will think I am prude !
2. Everyone else is doing it (having sex)
3. I want to prove to my boyfriend/girlfriend that I love him/her
4. I want to have fun before I get married
5. I want to  test drive before I buy,

plus lots more, it's all rubbish, to me it just shows the person is not strong willed, possibly promiscuous as well as being prone to succumbing to peer pressure.


Most men who have been around secretly want to marry a lady who's managed to keep her legs crossed because nobody wants to end up with a "hospital blanket" so to say, so ladies watch out.

And to those who say they would rather marry someone who's already got sexual experience rather than a virgin, my question to you is  - would you rather marry an alley cat/dog that has done the rounds ?. 

A word of advice, I have come across a number of people who wasted their youth  jumping in and out of bed with anyone who so much as looks at them then when they suddenly realize that  everyone they know is married and settled they desperately start looking for mates sometimes settling for marriages of convenience.
I know a couple of ladies who have ended marrying old divorced men just because no one wants them.

So to the Ladies on the forum who have managed to remain intact I say Well done to you ! .

@Damsal, if you've ever been to Laguna or Venice beach you would know i'm not just talking about what those gurls wear at the beach but what goes down under 'em wears , but now you wouldn't understand, ya feel?

one man's meat is another's poison
if U dnt 'respect' them, there are other people who would!

of course they are respected,but, it is very rare to find one in our society now.

No introdution is really needed,No need for stories "are they respected" Yes or No,my anwser "yes" they are  shekana!

Hi scjb,

This is message is specifically for you.  if you are still a virging,you are very lucky .but please wait till you get married before you chop the forbidden fruit, when u re married its no longer forbidden.i assure you that u re going to ear respect from your husband and u will also get his trust,if he can equally wait for u then both of u have built a realtionship based on trust and respect for each other.


He who has ear let him hear.

Hi,

Yes virgins are still respected. For U all do ur best to always be ur best . remeber the top places in life is not always for the majority.

. Move on , move up.