Are Virgins Still Respected?

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afrikangal (f)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #64 on: February 02, 2007, 01:35 PM »

of course they are still well respected Smiley Smiley :)and they find the koko love
yahoo! (m)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #65 on: February 02, 2007, 05:08 PM »

Virgins are simply rare to come by these days Sad
Balthier (m)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #66 on: February 02, 2007, 08:16 PM »

Thats not necessarily true more often that not people assume that it is that way, i actually no alot of people who are virgins.
segedoo (m)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #67 on: February 02, 2007, 08:18 PM »

YES they are and i pray that i marry one.

it means a lot to me regardless of what  any one may say.

to all virgins in NL, i say keep it up,  u're appreciated
fe_mi (m)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #68 on: February 02, 2007, 08:22 PM »

    Huh hope I'm going to find one to marry
Lg3 (m)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #69 on: February 02, 2007, 11:19 PM »

virgins are still respected though ,
but can u buy a car without test driving it? Undecided
toksdara (m)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #70 on: February 03, 2007, 11:18 AM »


Virgins are still well respected, though few in town. Glad am still one. Do you agree that virgins have a higher probability of remaining faithful to their spouses since they were able to wait till their wedding night?
aleroaruya (f)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #71 on: February 03, 2007, 12:36 PM »

what kind of virgins are you talking about? there are bloody ones and non-bloody ones u know?  Undecided
chycin (f)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #72 on: February 03, 2007, 04:27 PM »

yes, virgins are respected, any person that doesnt respect a virgin is not responsible. Smiley
ell77 (f)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #73 on: February 03, 2007, 08:04 PM »

I guess virgins are respected - and I'm glad. It takes a lot of committment and discipline. But in the end it does not affect you whether someone is a virgin or not as it is of benefit only to themselves and perhaps their partner - so those of u who love to hate and say virgins are freaky etc etc get a life. Worry about whether or not you are a freak no group can categorically be classed as the same. There will be virgins who are not nice, untrustworthy and weak the same with non-virgins. Sex should not be so important to your wanting to be with someone - it is only a small part of a relationship afterall if sex was the most important thing to you, no need to pressurise a virgin to have sex before marriage just go and get a hooker, or get a bed friend, why pretend to want a girl/boyfrined then make it seem as if sex is the only thing that will make or break the relationship?

Not to say sex is not important but I just get annoyed personally when people make sex the MOST important thing. Anyone can probably be taught to be good at sex so no try before you buy nonsense. Equally you may have lots of sex before you marry then suddenly your partner turns of sex (or off sex with you). Instantly problems will arise if that is the most important thing for you. To me if a man can wait for marriage before he has sex with me it shows he loved me enough and found he had all he NEEDED not to care about all the things he WANTED.

I respect virgins and non-virgins who are responsible. FINISH.
Ayenfe (f)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #74 on: February 03, 2007, 09:57 PM »

2 be sincere VIRGINS  are worth given kudos to, infact they are to be proud of in Nigeria especially in the Yoruba cultures. Mehn we just have to respect the very few ones in town. Kiss Kiss Kiss
luzgarb (m)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #75 on: February 04, 2007, 05:45 PM »

i admire any lady that is still a virgin , virgin are still being respected even by there peers, so hold on and be a pride for boosting from god,
zigbo (f)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #76 on: February 04, 2007, 10:02 PM »

keepin your virginity is mosdef wats up.your husband (future) will give you your props for ever, for those of you/us who are still virgins keep it up.IT IS WORTH IT
zigbo (f)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #77 on: February 04, 2007, 10:05 PM »

I forget to say virgins are respected, at least i respect them a lot
Free (f)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #78 on: February 05, 2007, 04:34 AM »

good for you

yawns


next!!
Omo Eko (f)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #79 on: February 05, 2007, 04:48 AM »

anyway i will like to sleep with a virgin guy  Wink
iice (f)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #80 on: February 05, 2007, 04:54 AM »

Quote from: Omo Eko on February 05, 2007, 04:48 AM
anyway i will like to sleep with a virgin guy  Wink

Shocked Shocked loli'D pass on that! Grin Grin
jjuummaaii (f)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #81 on: February 05, 2007, 04:43 PM »

Of course virgins are still well respected. i must say that it really pays to be one and marry as one. it can never be old fashion even in the next century because the word of God is never old fashioned. I married as virgin and it has really paid off. My hubby trusts me silly and he values me so much and holds me in such high esteem. I used to have loads of male frends before i got marrried and most of them are my hubbys frends now and making all of us family frends, thhis could only hav happened as a ressult of trust he had for me.
I  think it really pays and if ther are any one in the house who are virgins I beg of you please keep it till the end and u'll never regret it. its not easy though and don't look at me as a super wman but I can assure u, u can never regret it.

I can assure you that the only thing that would be absent from ur life is;

-the fear of aids
- the fear of unwanted pregnancies
-the feeling of guilt
- looking older than ur age
-the fear of being dumped after being used
-the result of ur past catching up with u
-the fear of loosing ur womb due to series of abortions and pills
-the shame of u jaming one of ur husbands cousins/friends that u have slept with in the past

I could go on and on because the advantages are numerous. so please to all virgins in the house pleeeeeeeeeeeeeease keep it up because it will always pay u at the end of the day.
pomile (f)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #82 on: February 05, 2007, 05:18 PM »

i don't know what to say any how sha i'm a vigin and i know guys respect ladies who are vigins
spikyn
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #83 on: February 05, 2007, 06:51 PM »

Virgins have choices, that seems to be the beef people who aren't have with them.They can choose to remain virgins or let go of it.

I think it may be overrated as a benchmark to define a person but it is definitely the single greatest gift one human being can give another in terms of sexuality. Is it a standard? Nope, it just is something that is giveable only once and some people have it to give and others don't.

So I hail the still virgins, the re-virgins and even the celibate ones out there. It's your choice, you get to use it only once.

Much love & Peace!
Saymamy (f)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #84 on: February 06, 2007, 03:29 AM »

when i saw ur question kissy,i was very hapi.Do u know why?because girlz nowadayz take girlz hu r virgins 2 be stupid; but 2 tel u d truth kissy,Girlz stil wit their virginity r most respected nd at d end,wil b hapi that dey kept dier viginity until dey get married. Cool
dakmanzero (m)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #85 on: February 06, 2007, 06:30 PM »

Its obvious, virgins are respected. No question there.

However the same guys that claim to respect virgins will refuse to marry a girl they have not 'tested' first.

so.

you expect every girl to remain chaste until YOU come along, and you STILL want the freedom to bail if it turns out her keyhole doesn't fit your key.


Dudes. we can't eat our cake and have it. Whats good for the goose is good for the gander. If YOU (dude) are a virgin (and for guys that means NO ejaculation in the presence of live woman, whether by mouthcombat or assisted wankeration  or backdoor plumbing) then you can claim to prefer virgins and NOT be a hypocrite. For everyone else, stop talking crap. We aren't living in the dark ages.


As for my opinion, its simple. Sex simply isn't the singular determinant of marriage. Your wife is your partner for life and will raise your children. Her personality is completely separate from whether or not her congo has been plumbed. Assuming that a woman is weak or lacking in character just because she has been doing what YOU have been doing and boasting about for years is so unfair it isn't funny. I completely respect any woman's right to get the best out of life for herself and not get stuck with some dude who can't satisfy her sexually because she was too afraid to test-drive him b4hand (yes, punks. SHE test-drives YOU! suck it down!!!)
Free (f)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #86 on: February 07, 2007, 04:33 AM »

nonsense


 Grin
deor03 (m)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #87 on: February 07, 2007, 09:45 AM »

well i am not too sure if i respect  virgins that much but one thing for sure is that i can't date them, you spend some much time to achieve little(, ). visit hi5 and see that there are more than enough oranges to be peeled,  then immagine the whahala of ( *****nooo it's won't be painful***);(*****noo it's not too big****), blood  etc



no way
Long One (m)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #88 on: February 07, 2007, 10:27 AM »

Well, its kind of difficult to find virgins nowadays but if u are one thumbs up.
  Just know that u may lose it before marriage because nowadays just like cars people like to test run their engines & know whether it purrs or roars.
zigbo (f)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #89 on: February 07, 2007, 11:01 PM »

yo @free i guess its to late to cry over spilt milk you can yawn all you want,but u definately wish.there might be a next world aite so jst chill
Free (f)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #90 on: February 08, 2007, 02:23 AM »

 Huh Huh Huh

am confused
funmise (f)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #91 on: February 08, 2007, 02:32 AM »

@TOPIC]

 
NOWADAYS, DERE R DIFF TYPES OF VIRGINS, SOM SO CALLED VIRGINS VE DONE EVERY SEXUAL ACT EXCEPT D REAL THING, DO WE CALL this GALS VIRGS AS WELL ?
Omo Eko (f)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #92 on: February 08, 2007, 02:40 AM »

Quote from: funmise on February 08, 2007, 02:32 AM
@TOPIC]

 
NOWADAYS, DERE R DIFF TYPES OF VIRGINS, SOM SO CALLED VIRGINS VE DONE EVERY SEXUAL ACT EXCEPT D REAL THING, DO WE CALL this GALS VIRGS AS WELL ?


yea they are still virgins because there wasn't any pentration  Grin Grin Grin
funmise (f)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #93 on: February 08, 2007, 02:49 AM »

EVEN THOUGH DEY  HAD ORGASM
Omo Eko (f)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #94 on: February 08, 2007, 02:56 AM »

Quote from: funmise on February 08, 2007, 02:49 AM
EVEN THOUGH DEY HAD ORGASM
yeap, y all this question, hummmm just curious
funmise (f)
Re: Are Virgins Still Respected?
« #95 on: February 08, 2007, 03:10 AM »

JUS DISCOVERED that MOST VIRGIN GALS GO 4 that NOW, I WAS JUS WONDERING REALLY because IT DOESNT MAKE ANY DIFF 2 ME. d PURPOSE OF SEX IS D PLEASURE IN IT ACCORDING 2 people, ONCE U EXPERIENCE D PLEASURE WITHOUT A PENETRATION (B IT BY D TOUCHIN OF AN OPPOSITE SEX) THEN U NO MORE A VIRGIN
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