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imaobong80 (f)
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hello everyone. i just signed in. i got a question for u all. am in love with an older guy, he's 2 times my age. we're talking marriage  . i love him so much that i don't want to be without him. do u think i should go for it? |
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Coco29 (f)
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SAY WHAT two times yr age, how old are you?
well it is all up to you, however i am 30 i do not see myself hooking up with a man who is 60.
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dmuchawiec (f)
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it can work, but you have to agree about some rules: you have to understand, that your husband may need something else then you. means will have other friends other hobbys etc. and your husband has to understand, your needs. if this one is discussed: than why not?
my husband is 17 years older than me.
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edmondo (m)
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nawaoooooooooo.  |
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kiki (f)
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wel dating an older guy is not bad but dating one twice ur age is kind of 2 old for me but it depends how much u know him sweetie marriage is not somthin u run into and run out of like that u got to ax yourself some questions not questions like do i love him and stuff i'm talking about deep deep deep questions like do u see yourself living with this dude for the rest of ur life because marriage is a commitment is not a game or somthin u just go for
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Macgreat (m)
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Serious somethinnn
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iice (f)
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kiki summed it up pretty much.
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kingkams (m)
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Damn girl, you have to be really realistic in this situation you find yourself. Do you think the both of you have enough time left together? Because i mean if you were to be say 30 years as coco29 pointed out, he should possibly be 60. At 60 he should be very close to gioig to the grave. don't get me wrong I'm just being realistic. don't make yourself an early widow.
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desiree (f)
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I guess he must be 52  Don't do it gurl, you can do better than that!!! |
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Orikinla (m)
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Caroline Ekanem's hubby is twice her age and she is very very much in love and happy with him.
I have a girlfriend who will be 19 in June and I have been very patient.
Her parents even respect me for not taking advantage of her.
If both of you are adults, then there is nothing wrong.
You need maturity.
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Coco29 (f)
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Caroline Ekanem's hubby is twice her age and she is very very much in love and happy with him.
I have a girlfriend who will be 19 in June and I have been very patient.
Her parents even respect me for not taking advantage of her.
If both of you are adults, then there is nothing wrong.
You need maturity.
and how old are? talking about you are waiting  |
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Coco29 (f)
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i know you are having me on!!!!! roflmao  |
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Orikinla (m)
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If you were 19 and Richard Mofe Damijo (RMD) asked you to marry him, would you?
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Coco29 (f)
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NO!! i will be 30 in march i do not want a man over 40 or below 30 as my life long partner.
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Coco29 (f)
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ps at 19 i should be enjoying ma youth not going out with my grandad.
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Orikinla (m)
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ps at 19 i should be enjoying ma youth not going out with my grandad.
Or grand-uncle  But why do younger babes go out with older men? |
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Coco29 (f)
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well from my training it has to do with their relationship with their father. i have a very lovely relationship with my daddy and do not need to replace him with another. |
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desiree (f)
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well from my training it has to do with their relationship with their father. i have a very lovely relationship with my daddy and do not need to replace him with another. that is true coco But for naija girls, add love of money and greed. |
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Coco29 (f)
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can you imagine fking a 60 yr old man s h i t, do you know how many times we would have to stop so he can catch his breath, that would piss me off.
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Orikinla (m)
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can you imagine fking a 60 yr old man s h i t, do you know how many times we would have to stop so he can catch his breath, that would piss me off.
I wonder how Chief Chukwuemeka Ojukwu could do it to Bianca? |
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Busta (f)
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from ur profile, u're just 26
hooking up with someone twice ur age
ain't right, if u ask me.
but then again, there are different
kinds of love. U never know. .
could be real and could be sth else.
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4 Play (m)
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The flip side is that such young girls come and meet young men like us when daddy can't hit the G-Spot in bed
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venusmaze
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Ima
If you two love each other and the age gap has not been an issue in your relationship, or you get on really well, go for it. Do not listen to what others say around you, as long as you are both making each other happy, you are comfortable with him, he respects you and does not put you down then all the very best. No one can tell you what to do, you are the one in the relationship.
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mamaput (f)
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Ima
If you two love each other and the age gap has not been an issue in your relationship, or you get on really well, go for it. Do not listen to what others say around you, as long as you are both making each other happy, you are comfortable with him, he respects you and does not put you down then all the very best. No one can tell you what to do, you are the one in the relationship.
so she should not even listen to her mother |
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venusmaze
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would you rather tell her what to do? nobody knows the facts
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mamaput (f)
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Better to say nothing in this case.
Do not advise people what you will not follow up.
Go and read your posts the fairytale you have made up and give her your fairytale Barbara cartland advise.
Are you married to an old man.
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venusmaze
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this is serious so you are now following me round the forum lol oh my God
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