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emeka88 (m)
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is it normal to have any feelings of tension when a guy wants approach a babe for toasting? please reply
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choongtin (f)
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what do you mean by "toastin" r u a canibal
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okwanuzo3 (f)
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what do you mean by "toastin" r u a canibal
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Busta (f)
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funny.
toast a babe!
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hot-angel (f)
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I'm sure you all know what he meant by "toasting".
And even if you don't know what toasting is, i think, from the way he asked the question, you have pretty much a very good idea what he's asking.
Anyways, to answer your question emeka.
I think it's very normal for you to feel tension, or as i would like to call it, get 'nervous' when approaching a lady. So if you want to approach a girl, and u are nervous, don't think it's because you are not man enough to talk to a girl. Just calm yourself down and go ahead and say what you want to say to her.
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fellow (m)
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I think it's very normal for you to feel tension, or as i would like to call it, get 'nervous' when approaching a lady.
I do not think it is normal, that tension is an act of been scared of what she would say or do "The Fear of rejection". For someone like me i just go ahead without thinking of what the end result would be. If she's down with me well and good, if she is not then she's at the losing end.
So if you want to approach a girl, and u are nervous, don't think it's because you are not man enough to talk to a girl. Just calm yourself down and go ahead and say what you want to say to her.
Just like i said above, ya know. Just go ahead and do it. Don't give a hoot who she is, what she's wearing and how stunning she looks. She might be a little afraid inside
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davidylan (m)
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kai fellow! You dey here dey lie abi! Was it not you who used to chicken out infront of those tiny little twins? If i remember clearly almost all those girls were not down with you, the one thing i don't remember though is anyone of them being worse of! Infact they all seemed to do pretty fine without you! awwwwwwwwwwwww and that reminds me of Bisoye! How is she?  |
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fellow (m)
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I take it that i do not know the twins you are talking about!! 
As for the other word you said, well time has changed lol i guess i am a bit well placed now with the skills i lacked then and would you mention the names of this so called girls you keep asking me about??
Bisoye's okay oh. Though been long i heard from her.
I take it you were hoping to spoil my day he he he
Remember don't let me talk oh. I know you inside out!!!
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tommyonih (f)
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Well @Fellows i feel you the confidence wey you no get before u don get am now. good.
I agree with your view
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fellow (m)
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Well @Fellows i feel you the confidence wey you no get before u don get am now. good.
I agree with your view
Well don't mind david jare. He left skul 1 year before i did. I guess that was enough to make me polish my skills better. I know he would admit it with me if i say our skul then do dull people. He's a living witness abi na prosecutor. |
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kimba (m)
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its like we might soon be having a row of words btwn davidylan and fellow.
i hereby volunteer to be a referee
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fellow (m)
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No way  David would tell you we were brodas right back in skul and thats how it has been. Its just that we get a little over excited lol
@David
I still dey wait oh!!! You know say i go talk my own
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davidylan (m)
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 What? You learnt new "skills" within 1 yr that i left you alone? Na wa o. OOOOOOO wait, those twins were Bisoye's friends right? I'm forgetting things now o! Ok Bisoye was one, a product of ineffective toasting! You used to have a lot of those tiny girls you followed around? where are they now?
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choongtin (f)
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@ topic poster oh u mean chatting up a girl
well some boys do feel tensed why some dnt all has to do with confidence
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