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foumaleka (f)
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Hi all
well i am new here and certainly new in the sex business.
Actually i am dating this guy and i want so much to make love but the
idea of pain scares me and not even him can talk me out of it. so what i
have decided to do is find and way to gently stretch the vagina for like
a month so that it expands without necessarily hurting myself. So i need your help
in telling me what devices i can use for stretching.
By the way i know some of you don't like the idea i , but please i am comfortable
and i want to do it that way so please keep an open mind and no insults ok.
peace.
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Busta (f)
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first, u're not yet in the sex business.
secondly, try using a coke bottle
or try it with a dildo.
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ikamefa (f)
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first, u're not yet in the sex business.
secondly, try using a coke bottle
or try it with a dildo.
coke bottle?  are you kidding me? @ topic lots of lubrication and a dildo like Busta said  |
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TerraCotta (m)
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You should relax Foumaleka--it's not going to be painful if the guy knows what he's doing. It's funny that other women are exercising to get a better 'grip' and you want to loosen up? Just ask him to go slow until you want him to go faster . |
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ikamefa (f)
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You should relax Foumaleka--it's not going to be painful if the guy knows what he's doing. It's funny that other women are exercising to get a better 'grip' and you want to loosen up? . Just ask him to go slow until you want him to go faster . abi oh! most women want a tighter Vajeje and she is hoping to strecth out hers differrent strokes for different folks i guess |
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TerraCotta (m)
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Iya Big Apple--we were all young once  . It's reasonable to have a little fear of the unknown. Let's just be grateful for her that Busta didn't recommend Coke cans  |
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ruescho (m)
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You should relax Foumaleka--it's not going to be painful if the guy knows what he's doing. It's funny that other women are exercising to get a better 'grip' and you want to loosen up? Just ask him to go slow until you want him to go faster . Word!
@ those coke bottle users:U take the oneandhalflitre one??? |
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TerraCotta (m)
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This discussion reminds me of this song. Probably wouldn't play it at work, if I were you. |
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ikamefa (f)
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i just did jack black is crazy! , Tenacious D? hum? 2 talentless baboons! |
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Honey_pot (m)
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Yet another vagina thread!!!!!!!!!! On the streets, TV, park, and now trying to relax on NL, it is vagina all the way
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bluenubian (f)
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OMG please don't try stretching ur vagina,
ur vajeje is prolly not ready to accept that mandingo!
if the vagina is able to expand up to 10cm for child birth then it should be able to take in any d^ck. use a lotta lube too
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naijacutee (f)
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[Oh no, not that overrated 'Black' guy again!!!
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bluenubian (f)
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why? ave u met a sorry one?  |
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desiree (f)
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LMAO Coke bottle???you've got to be kidding me. @topic You are better off letting your boyfriend know that you are in pain, you might want to try out load of foreplay to get you lubricated and get him to use his fingers for the first couple of times before you go for the real deal(use lubes).If you must streatch your pun, let your man do it for you or with you rather. |
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foumaleka (f)
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thanks for the replies guys. The thing is i really want both of us to enjoy sex together. And if
we do it as tight as i am i will definitley put him off. He feels bad but he understands and wants me to be comfortable,
i recently bought a dildo and i couldnt even fit it in at all. Well i guess i will keep trying. what other
stuff do you recommend i use to expand it.
peace.
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bluenubian (f)
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are u sure u were turned on, u can't get wet till ur aroused
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ZuluNation (m)
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Just my two cents just wait till you get married then this whole thing wold not be an issue.
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bluenubian (f)
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that might even be a bigger problem then, cause now she stuck, till death . . u know!
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ZuluNation (m)
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But when they married the husband would be more understanding and can wait till she is more comfortable to have sex, just my two cents
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bluenubian (f)
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can wait Ke?, whats the purpose of marraige then? |
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foumaleka (f)
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thanks Zulunation, i usually do this with my biyfriend. we are all adults here. I wanted to wait
for marriage but i don't think that will help the situation
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ZuluNation (m)
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can wait Ke?, whats the purpose of marraige then? If I love someone enough to marry there ass I'll wait till she's comfortable to have sex. Oh well fonmaleka if you not ready to wait till marriage to have sex, just make use you use a lot of lubricants like the previous posters have said. |
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layi (m)
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The only problem u have is FEAR. Get it off and you're free.
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foumaleka (f)
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Hey all thanks so much for the good advice and words of courage, well so far i believe there has been a slight improvent and i can fit atleast my boyfriends privates head. We are very patient and i know that one day i will let him go all the way.  |
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Larrydee (m)
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well, lets just emphasize what the others said. stick with 'em coke bottles (not cans o!) If u experirnce stormy weather, then try candles (don't let it break inside else your life will be in shambles!!) whats this vajeje slang i'm hearing anyway? na wa 4 naija |
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Larrydee (m)
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well, lets just emphasize what the others said. stick with 'em coke bottles (not cans o!) If u experirnce stormy weather, then try candles (don't let it break inside else your life will be in shambles!!) whats this vajeje slang i'm hearing anyway? na wa 4 naija |
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layi (m)
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vajeje - i was puzzled as well. girls with all their secret codes. Yet they know all our slangs, d^ck, JT, my guy, third leg, sharpshooter, prick, rod, sugarstick etc. Are we safe? |
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Larrydee (m)
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@ layi. You 're a don o! how many slangs do you have for a simple word as p*n*s? jt, my guy, third leg, sharpshooter, prick, rod, sugarstick, etc. Do u mind adding koko, magicstick, rodipipper
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segeonline (m)
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Omoge,you don't have to stress yaself.Just try using a bottle of gulder and all will be well.Just kidding, if you are ready for it,let your guy know, he will give it to you and you will feel it ok?
hello guys this is segun,one of the newest members,you will all get to like me when the time comes, i am a guy forum man, no long thing
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elbeyah (f)
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girl i feel where your coming from,i had the same problem too.
anyway this is what my boyfriend did:
1.we were smoching when i told him i was a virgin and he was really happy & wispered some sweet nothings to me(i was 24, in final year in university).nothing happened that night.
2.he kept the love talk up and i actually started relaxing when he stripps & lies close to me
3.one day in the midst of sweet talks + kissing, he stroked down there.(my God it was unbelive as i had never felt that way before.nothing else happened that night.
4.he kept stroking until one day he put his little finger.
5.which later graduated to his mddle finger.
6.by the time he put his, in there i was very ready,in fact very egar & it wasnt sooo bad.
were still together after 5years & it keeps getting better
in summary first of all get over your fright/fear of that thing& how it will fit. trust the person enough to want to let go of that thing & relax and have fun.you wont have a secind chance to do it again.
to the guys, losing ones virginity is not easy at all , so please give the girl sometime to get used to all of it.
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asoderock (m)
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Consider this alternative, come over here, i happend to be an expert in that angle! |
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