I Lost My Dad

hi guys,i lost my dad bout a week ago,he was sick,i just want to know for anybody that has had that experience,is it true that the pain goes away with time,i've started feeling a bit better now,but something just comes pops up again like i'll never see him again,i can't describe it,like hes gone,it's just,

Take heart girl
I lost my grand dad lst year and he was buried on 23rd December
Untill his death we were very close
We often ate together and I attended his school. Guess you imagine
what that means.
Time heals all wounds

My sympathies. May God give you the strength to bear this loss, in Jesus Name, Amen

Sorry about your loss,
No one can tell u what it feels like unless they are in your shoes.

Neva lost anyone sooo close to me but
I pray God gives u the strenght to bear the loss.

Thank you all so much for the words of encouragement,its really helping,

  now u just reminded me of ma older bruva that died
i kno whow u feel its like u get that feeling that you're not going to see them again and all the good days u had just comes to your memroy and u just cry and its like u feel like u lost a part of u still everything wuld be good and all trust me just feel he is watching over u from a better place and all wuld be good

thanks all,i guess knowing that they r in a better place helps,because no matter what i do ,i can't reverse time ,so i have to accept it,thanks for even taking the time to offer the words,

sorry to hear that.
it's very diffcult i must tell u because i lost my mother recently at a time i least expected.
now u get to see a lot of things diffrently.
i empathise
nothing anyone says can comfort u, people can only say sweet things to u at a time like this. there will be times u are alone and need someone to talk to badly or u just find out the tears can't stop rolling down.
talk to God he has wonderful promises for people that are hurt. he was my strenght at that time and i still enjoy his company till now.
try to get a copy of the purpose driven life. your life will never be the samw again once u've read that book
May God Almighty hold u in his arms and wisper his sweet and conforting words in your ears. Especially at night when all visitors are gone and u have this wide space left by the deaced.
things also get a lot better after the burial, it is then the realisation dawns on u. then u know it's not a dream. pull yourself together and make sure u are able to think and most importantly see through your tears. it's ok to cry it make u fell better.
I pray God will see u through this time.
do accept my sincere sympathy

i know how it feels like to lose a loved one. i lost a very close friend about 5 years ago and i couldnt sleep for days.
death is inevitable and we always pray it dosent take our loved ones. but if does, we can only pray god gives us the fortitude to bear the loss. i pray one day we can understand the things we can't contol
sexxxy, my heart goes out to you.

sorry to hear that,i also lost my dad when i was 12 .although i felt bad and i still do bt the pain will surely go with time.

@ Sexxxy   Sorry to hear that.    May God give You all the strenght u need to carry through

@ Damsol    your Father is in heaven looking down on You. So no need to worry

@ sexxxy
 my sincere sympathy to u
 i was a victim of this circumstance, i lost my dad 6yrs ago running to 7yrs now and i must tell u there is still some thing that still flashes in my memory, the way he scold just for u to be a responsible man in life, the love, the care,    but there is nothing u can do He is gone HE is gone, one have to move on with his or her life. He used to be a source of encourage to me and of which i still hold on to some.
  u know what some might say, we will be with you all along but i will tell u, its all lies.
  whenever u miss him or u feel grieve go to your room look up to that man up there and ask HIM to give u the grace to  bear it all.
  Life might be hard at times but we just have to accept it the way it is.
   Think about it but don't think about it too much because its hurts.

take good care of your self.
peace out.
 

@cute, accept my sympathy on the loss of your brother. He was so young, at 3 years old? May his soul rest in peace, Amen. I lost a younger brother when he was 24 years old. I miss him very much. When you have a younger sibling, who looks to you as a mentor, and he surely did, it is only God that can sail you through. My brother and I were very close. He was so fond of me, as a baby, that at times, he would lie on my chest and fall asleep.

 

Cutie, cute bro indeed.

Thank you all so much for all the words,You don't know how much it has helped me,i'm getting better, I know i'll be fine by the grace of God,theres nothing i can do than to just look up to God and trust him

Thank you