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snowsdream (f)
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Every Guy I Know Wants Me For a Wife
What's up people. I am a lady and not ready for marriage but everytime i get to know someone or a guy ask me for friendship and i agree the next thing i will hear is that they love me and will want me for a wife and they will all appear very serious meanwhile they are like 19 to like 28 years of age.
There was this guy I met and he said he just likes me and will want me for a friend i agreed but later the story changed that he has fallen in love with me and will want me to be his future wife, and many other numerous guys even the ones i meet online or chat room still end up fallen in love. I think it is gettin too much.
Though I don't have a current boyfriend and not even intending to have any now but the way they tell me about marriage is gettin out of hand. Help me because i don't even have a clue of what to do because this guys don't even want to accept no. I am still a student.
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Seun (m)
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Think of it this way: what do you have to offer that would make a man want to put the effort of maintaining friendship with you with no strings attached? Nothing? I thought so! Why should they spend all that energy trying to please you if they are not going to get anything in return? Why should a young man be made to labour so hard to keep you interested in him if at the end of the day there's nothing in it for them?  |
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snowsdream (f)
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Like i said before they ask me for just friendship.
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prettyH (f)
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My dear good for u abi, so u can spread ur tentacles far and wide and pick the best. Or what do u feel?
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prettyH (f)
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Sorry df, bout what? |
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Oracle (m)
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well girl this is not a joking matter
marriage is a life time experience so if u make
a mistake itz a lifetime mistake
i don't know what to say but girl BE WISE
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Hotstepper (f)
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GURL, WHEN I READ UR THREAD, I THOUGHT I WAS DA ONE WRITING IT. WHAT IS HAPPENING TO YOU IS DA SAME THING HAPPENING TO ME..NO COMMA OR FULL STOP REMOVED. I MASELF IS GETTING TIRED OF IT. EVEN WHEN U ENTER A 9ERIAN PARTY PER SE, EVEN DA WOMEN KEEP ASKING ME that THEY HAVE A NEPHEW IN LONDON, US, SONS ETC FOR ME AND AM LIKE. IS IT WRITTEN ANYWHERE that AM LOOKING 4 A HUBBY..4 CRYING OUT LOUD, AM A STUDENT LAWDDDDD..GURL, BE STRONG, 99.9 PERCENT OF them R FAKE. U KNOW Nigeria, SAYING "I LOVE U" 2 people AIN'T NUTHING 2 ME..BE CAREFUL because ALL OF them GAT A MISSION.
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Seun (m)
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All you have to do is keep pushing them away and by the time you are 30 you will discover that nobody will want to marry you! Hopefully this will make you really happy! I have never heard a man complaining that too many girls want to marry him.
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IAH (f)
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I have never heard a man complaining that too many girls want to marry him.
Neither have I heard a girl complaining! Lol  |
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IAH (f)
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Ok, let me correct myself. Actually, hot girls don’t complain because they are already used to being admired and are even so addicted to it that if a single day passes and nobody makes at least a pass at them, they’ll be like "what’s wrong with me today?" We in the other category might however see it as a problem and thus complain about it because emm...  |
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Hotstepper (f)
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ahhaha, itz not bad sha atleast i know i have 4rom plenty of them to chose 4rom but am dating someone now datz why people..lol..enough said
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sexydoll (f)
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male friends proposing marriage to you is really not a bad thing you know, i think the reason why they all end up proposing to you is because they saw something in you that makes them feel you would be a good wife and that you are matured enough to be one. so you need to get used to it and stop been worried about it. be wise and remember is not just anything you are talking here but marriage so you really need to think about it. |
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yemstrad (m)
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May be God has predestined u or giving u the talent to be an excellent wife on earth. Wise men must have seen this whenever they approach u and who will not want to go for good thing esspecially when there is no danger associated.
Talk to baba God to change reduce the degree of such talent.
My sister no vex for me o, i be original omo oko (bush boy)
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nuellabond (f)
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My dear snowdream, plz wake up.don't alwayz believe any one who says marriage really means it.Men culd go to any level just to get u in bed.So concentrate more on ur studies girl.
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hibans (f)
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Seun, i think u'r right. let her keep pushing them by time she reach 30 she'll be happy then  |
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scondy (f)
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my opinion is that they all say ~marriage~ because they know that will get ur attention and make u think they r serious. and really they guessed right. it`s a normal thing for a girl to get proposals from guys.if u don't get it,then there`s a problem. so i really wonder why u r overwhelmed by it all. but please don't be, they might not be for real.
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MP007 (m)
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u lucky to have guys asking u to marriage em', many ladies out there are dying the opportunity u have.U better make up ur mind before the table turns.U don't want to be the one chasing guys, i have seen it happen.
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Topsido
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Snowdream the answer is this:
You are beautiful, lovable but not sexy,that's y, i think
Ask ur friends and tell me if am wrong.
Holla me after your findings and i shed morelight on it.
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