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floxy4xy
What Should A Woman Do If Her Husband Flirts Around
« on: February 01, 2007, 02:44 PM »

What should a wife do if her husbands womanises and spends his little salary on girls outside only to live on the woman's salary? Divorce? Separation or Have a boyfriend?
solo2 (m)
Re: What Should A Woman Do If Her Husband Flirts Around
« #1 on: February 01, 2007, 05:36 PM »

In the first place, why should you continue to leave with some body who have no love for you?. if he love you he will not go after other ladies, he will not spend all his money outside only to come and depend on your salary. Divource is the option.
2Legit
Re: What Should A Woman Do If Her Husband Flirts Around
« #2 on: February 01, 2007, 05:43 PM »

why the woman sef marry yeye man? na yeye woman dey meet yeye man
Free (f)
Re: What Should A Woman Do If Her Husband Flirts Around
« #3 on: February 09, 2007, 05:16 AM »

if he cnt stop or help it


i suggst u leave  Grin Grin Grin
Omo Eko (f)
Re: What Should A Woman Do If Her Husband Flirts Around
« #4 on: February 09, 2007, 05:19 AM »

@ FREE
SHE CAN'T LEAVE HER HUSBAND LIKE THAT FOR ANOTHER WOMAN TO COME AND FILL IN, WORK IT OUT WITH HIM. COMMUNICATE. THAT WHAT MARRIAGE IS ALL ABOUT
Free (f)
Re: What Should A Woman Do If Her Husband Flirts Around
« #5 on: February 09, 2007, 05:30 AM »

well he needs 2 get his act togother or she cn leave


she shoud be da only woman he flirts with
JosBoy4Lif (m)
Re: What Should A Woman Do If Her Husband Flirts Around
« #6 on: February 09, 2007, 05:32 AM »

She should stat flirting too  Tongue, An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind
Omo Eko (f)
Re: What Should A Woman Do If Her Husband Flirts Around
« #7 on: February 09, 2007, 05:34 AM »

Quote from: JosBoy4Lif on February 09, 2007, 05:32 AM
She should stat flirting too Tongue, An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind
2 wrongs does NOT make it right, so is that how you handle your relationship NA WA
JosBoy4Lif (m)
Re: What Should A Woman Do If Her Husband Flirts Around
« #8 on: February 09, 2007, 05:34 AM »

No, that is just the bad advice that I'm dolling out
Omo Eko (f)
Re: What Should A Woman Do If Her Husband Flirts Around
« #9 on: February 09, 2007, 05:41 AM »

ok o if u say so  Grin Grin Grin Grin
flylove
Re: What Should A Woman Do If Her Husband Flirts Around
« #10 on: February 16, 2007, 02:31 PM »

i have a friend whose husband is a known flirt to her and to both families (husband's and wife's). The wife has tried all she could to talk it out with the man and things are not working. not too long ago my friend found a guy she likes and someone who cares about her love life, in short they fell in love and have been seeing each other secretly. according to my friend, they kiss and romance but have not done the main thing and this seems to give my friend happiness because now she bothers not whether her husband goes to girls and comes. The problem now is that the man's tradition forbids it and my friend is worried what will happen next and the husband is unrepentant, so what should she do?
jb-baby (f)
Re: What Should A Woman Do If Her Husband Flirts Around
« #11 on: February 16, 2007, 06:58 PM »

@ Topic, u know ur hubby more anyone here, ther should be a way out as in just try 2 work it out some how(pray, discuss, wake him up in d middle of d night wt ur cry letting him know how he hurt u) do everytin it takes 2 keep ur home bt dnt divorce because its nt d solution.

always pray 4 him n dnt spend ur salary on him again, its suppose 2 be d other way round. of course u dnt do that like u re trying 2 punish him (NO) just do that with style wt time he would get d gist n start dropin money @ home.

n please dnt have a boyfriend o, stay n pray 4 ur marriage 2 work & it would.
true face (f)
Re: What Should A Woman Do If Her Husband Flirts Around
« #12 on: February 19, 2007, 10:24 PM »

There are lots of reasons why men cheat on their wives though am not in support of it. Maybe the lady has changed in shape nd size and the husband does not like it or her attitude towards him has changed( maybe in terms of sexuality). Meanwhile, some men are born flirts though every man has a tendency to flirt. how u handle them goes a long way in curbing it. the best thing the woman can do is to first check her self both physically and in terms of behaviour. most importantly, PRAY FOR HIM because a cheating partner is as bad as a hired assasine. Good luck.
Nite Angel (m)
Re: What Should A Woman Do If Her Husband Flirts Around
« #13 on: February 21, 2007, 11:18 PM »

It upsets me to hear stuff like maybe the woman has changed in size, who caused it? Sex and pregnancy does make some people add weight but the couple can work at checking this at the very early stage. Never forget that your woman can become better than that woman you admire with more benefit to you.

If he flirts,  join him (or pretend to) if you can, men don't want their wives with someone else so let him know that what is good for the geese is good for the gander! If you can't, leave him. Don't remain under his roof while he brings in his adulterous scents and ask you to join the party as he orders you into bed. While you are away; if you love his soul, pray for him 'cause at the very end they'll kill him, ruin him or mar him with their deposit both physical and spiritual.

Love in marriage should be reciprocal, there's no use if you're simply tolerated in return.

Echidime (m)
Re: What Should A Woman Do If Her Husband Flirts Around
« #14 on: March 02, 2007, 02:08 PM »



GO A WATCH THAT NIGERIAN FILRM CALLED :WOMEN OF FAITH 1/2
Busta (f)
Re: What Should A Woman Do If Her Husband Flirts Around
« #15 on: March 02, 2007, 11:46 PM »

don't want to think bout it but i don't think i can handle it if ma man messes around.

will leave himand then, he can have as much fun as he wants.
not just because of the shame or emotions involved but also, because of u never know with the all the kinds of diseases flying around these days.
bunmii (f)
Re: What Should A Woman Do If Her Husband Flirts Around
« #16 on: March 03, 2007, 10:32 AM »

talk to him, if he doesn't stop & u cn't cope live him alone
aisha12 (f)
Re: What Should A Woman Do If Her Husband Flirts Around
« #17 on: June 13, 2008, 03:21 PM »

i just know that some men are so smart that they can easily deny having anything to do with it i browsed through my husbands phone once nad some messages he sent through phone chatting, i did not even bother to ask him i don't know if what i did is right though he was asking the girl for her address and giving her his own . what do you think about that housemates
Leilah (f)
Re: What Should A Woman Do If Her Husband Flirts Around
« #18 on: June 13, 2008, 03:37 PM »

aisha, why would a man be asking for a womans address comon for heavens sake. just pray and go to bed and all will sort itself out. prayer wont sort these men out.
emmaction
Re: What Should A Woman Do If Her Husband Flirts Around
« #19 on: June 13, 2008, 04:29 PM »

anytime a man is doing such a thing that is not morally accepted or against the vowed marriage system,i believe it is not ordary makings,some distracting spirit must be responsible,i will advice the victim to call his husband back,sit him down and try to discuss with,may if he is the changing type he will reason with Ubut if he do not accpted your make up,i believ you call it a quit.
skyone (m)
Re: What Should A Woman Do If Her Husband Flirts Around
« #20 on: June 13, 2008, 05:58 PM »

padlock his privates every morning with agadadogo before heading to work. Angry
Outstrip (f)
Re: What Should A Woman Do If Her Husband Flirts Around
« #21 on: June 13, 2008, 06:22 PM »

The woman should get a brain. That's what she needs to do. So he spends all his money and then she lets him spend her's. How stupid. She has already set the pace for the relationship.
olanajim (m)
Re: What Should A Woman Do If Her Husband Flirts Around
« #22 on: June 13, 2008, 07:18 PM »

Hmmm
fellybabe (f)
Re: What Should A Woman Do If Her Husband Flirts Around
« #23 on: June 13, 2008, 08:37 PM »

pray to God because there is nothing God cannot do
Godalone (m)
Re: What Should A Woman Do If Her Husband Flirts Around
« #24 on: June 14, 2008, 08:11 AM »

Quote from: skyone on June 13, 2008, 05:58 PM
padlock his privates every morning with agadadogo before heading to work. Angry

I can't laugh jare.
nezerst (f)
Re: What Should A Woman Do If Her Husband Flirts Around
« #25 on: June 16, 2008, 10:57 AM »

don't give yourself headache over any man ,they r simply not worth it.
Keep taking care of him and look for other ways to make yourself happy (even if it means cheating).
But don't get caught sha.
And please start saving for the future that is if u've not started already.
because anything can happen
SENATOR JD (m)
Re: What Should A Woman Do If Her Husband Flirts Around
« #26 on: June 16, 2008, 11:08 AM »

easy dear,
flush his car key(s), ATM card(s), wrist watch,chain,glasses(if he wears one) and everything flushable down the toilet.
give him a strong bonning Angry look after that and tell him his balls are next. Undecided
trust me he's going to stop
myomy (f)
Re: What Should A Woman Do If Her Husband Flirts Around
« #27 on: June 16, 2008, 12:14 PM »

my dear

There is nothing on earth you can do to a cheating husband except pray for him. I'm talking from experience. The best you can do for him is to totally ignore him and be praying that he doesnt bring hiv home for you. You must be praying for yourself too because you don't know the kind of women he goes out there to meet so that they don't start hoping you will die so that they can enter. If you don't ignore him you will end up having hypertention and if you develop health challenge the man wont be there to take care of you so you must be strong for yourself and children.  A man that sleeps around is nothing but a killer so don't allow him to kill you be prayerful and always tell God that he should allow what will make him to sit up happen to him until then no amount of talks, tears and quarrel will change him, ta ja ba fori komi a mo ona ile olowo e. Lastly, do everything and i said everything that will make you happy even if it means having a male friend but don't commit adultery! Did i hear you say he leaves on you? baby gilr how can you be so gualble? don't you know that such men are not to be trusted and rely on? They are simply igi da eye fo. You'D better start saving all you can for the raining season for the sake of your children if you have any yet. Take care of yourself and kids they are your reward. don't divorce him because he can still change but you must be firm. A word is sufficent for the wise
weebee (f)
Re: What Should A Woman Do If Her Husband Flirts Around
« #28 on: June 16, 2008, 12:19 PM »

A husband that flirts around? I wont say much just leave him to God to deal with infact by the time God is through with his life you will be sorry for him. There is nothing you can do that will change him just divert the love you have for him elsewhere.
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