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pearldrops (f)
Re: What's Wrong in Being a Lesbian?
« #64 on: January 07, 2006, 06:09 PM »

IB u sure sound ok but the beautiful ones are not yet born
so are the lesbians. Gosh l love this world
beautifull (f)
Re: What's Wrong in Being a Lesbian?
« #65 on: January 07, 2006, 06:54 PM »

IB thanks but i need to take my picture off the screen.
I.B. (f)
Re: What's Wrong in Being a Lesbian?
« #66 on: January 08, 2006, 03:35 AM »

pearldrops, I don't get it....

I.B.
pearldrops (f)
Re: What's Wrong in Being a Lesbian?
« #67 on: January 09, 2006, 11:10 PM »


l mean the pronounced lesbians r not yet born
I.B. (f)
Re: What's Wrong in Being a Lesbian?
« #68 on: January 10, 2006, 01:14 AM »

Still didn't get it but thatz cool.

I.B.
loriann (f)
Re: What's Wrong in Being a Lesbian?
« #69 on: January 20, 2006, 11:08 AM »

GOD KNOWS BEST
Lilith24 (f)
Re: What's Wrong in Being a Lesbian?
« #70 on: January 21, 2006, 04:53 AM »

Okay: It's 3:42 in the morning, I'm too scared to sleep because I foolishly watched The Descent and it scared the crap out of me.  I'm a lesbian and have been for a while now.  I have to say with honesty that I find it dissapointing to see so many negative, stereotypical and pragmatic opinions here.  In the times when we chaleneg everything that the foundations of our world is bilt upon, when we break new boundaries and discover new secrets, people are still angry at people for being gay. 

Well here's some therapy for ye all. 

We're not going anywhere. 

Cope. 

What you people would think of as a modern made disease, is some people's way of life.  I live my life loving girls, finding a mutual attraction, relationship (sexual and spiritual) and have managed to find some happiness and peace in my life. 

Who are we as humans to say what is right and what isn't? Our arrogance as the top beings is astounding.  Do you think you know it all and that God came down to write ten rules? The God? Of Everything? Wrote ten rules?

And why (I promise I'm not getting in to a religious debate here) is it Eve who betray Adam? She brings him shame just Like Lilith ( the lesser known first wife).  MEN WROTE THE BIBLE.  *gasps!* Yeah, that's right.  And by saying that homosexuality is banned (thud proving it's existance at the time and is therefore not a recent thing) is just another way of making the world better for men.  (I don't hate men, just these particular bastards who thought it up).  N.B - I do not intend any harm toward the beleifs of those who follow any religion I have mentioned. I respect everyone's beleifs and would never try to convert, change or break those beleifs.  Only chanllenge them in certain areas -

The first time I knew I way gay was the first time I kissed a girl.  It was like a door had opened up for me and I relaised what kissing was supposed to be like.  This is no phase and if only the people who are so quick to decry it, could experience the reality of it, then here would be less adversity. 

People thought the world was flat.  Peple would have bet their lives and their children's lives to say that the world i flat.  They could see it was flat.  They persecuted people who disgreed.  It upset them. 

Sometimes to see things more clearly you have to take a step back and then you can know. 

And anywho, who are you people to lay judgment  on lesbians? Prejudice is no one's friend.  And stereotypes are damaging. 

Just my two Pence (I'm British), hey is this an american site? Are you all american? Am i the only brit?


P.S - 'Too pretty to be gay?'  Retain some dignity dude. 
Jakumo (m)
Re: What's Wrong in Being a Lesbian?
« #71 on: January 21, 2006, 07:18 AM »

Lilith 24, your write-up is a breath of fresh air in a discussion that really was getting bogged down with a shade too much self-righteousness and indignant finger-pointing.  I particularly agree with your observation about religion being the ready excuse for some of the most narrow-minded and bigoted views and actions on planet earth.  As a black person who has often tasted the sharp end of the racism sword in the US where I've spent a substantial part of my life, I have little patience for segregationist mindsets of any flavor, and homophobia certainly comes to mind as one of the more prevalent forms of irrational hatred.

There is a lot of truth in the old saying that the loudest critics of any particular practice are often those who labor under subconscious desires to engage in the activity they so haughtily condemn, so I would take with a large pinch of salt most of the biblical invocations of God's wrath that have appeared in this discussion thread.  With no offence intended, I must confess that I find the idea of two nude women making out intensely erotic, though I know in reality that I wouldn't stand a snowball's chance in hell of ever being  being invited to watch or participate in such a wet-dream encounter.  A bisexual female friend of mine once related to me how amazing it was to experience the softness and gentle curves of another woman for the first time, and all I can say is I wish I had been present to watch that passionate awakening occur.

This website is in fact run by Nigerians and not Americans, and this may explain why there seem to be a few more people whose views are comparatively intolerant on this particular subject.  There are more churches and mosques per square mile in Nigeria than just about any other country I can think of, and yet Transparency International has consistently ranked Nigeria as the most corrupt nation on earth, if I may digress.

Interestingly enough, male homosexuality is very widespread in the northern part of Nigeria where fundamentalist ideology keeps the sexes apart until the moment of marriage, though the locals there are predictably the most frenzied in describing same-sex unions as a sin against "God".       
Lotuken (m)
Re: What's Wrong in Being a Lesbian?
« #72 on: January 21, 2006, 03:56 PM »

Sup! Pearldrop.I don't think being a lesbian is a crime.infact I've been looking for one in lagos to be in friendship with.Though i'm a guy but these people are straightforward.Pearl good thinking.I don't know.Nigeria ain't developed in the area of sexuality.   
goodguy (m)
Re: What's Wrong in Being a Lesbian?
« #73 on: January 22, 2006, 06:04 PM »

Quote from: Lilith24 on January 21, 2006, 04:53 AM
In the times when we chaleneg everything that the foundations of our world is bilt upon, when we break new boundaries and discover new secrets, people are still angry at people for being gay.
What are the "new boundaries and secrets" discovered in being gay? Huh

Quote from: Lilith24 on January 21, 2006, 04:53 AM
Who are we as humans to say what is right and what isn't? Our arrogance as the top beings is astounding. Do you think you know it all and that God came down to write ten rules? The God? Of Everything? Wrote ten rules?
Humans didn't just decide to say it is wrong. God doesn't support it so who are we humans to make it right? Remember God destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah because of this illicit act.

Quote from: Lilith24 on January 21, 2006, 04:53 AM
And why (I promise I'm not getting in to a religious debate here) is it Eve who betray Adam? She brings him shame just Like Lilith ( the lesser known first wife). MEN WROTE THE BIBLE. *gasps!* Yeah, that's right.
Men who wrote the Bible were inspired by God. (2 Timothy 3:16)

Quote from: Lilith24 on January 21, 2006, 04:53 AM
And by saying that homosexuality is banned (thud proving it's existance at the time and is therefore not a recent thing) is just another way of making the world better for men.
There are also countless men who are gay, so what's your point here? Huh

Quote from: Lilith24 on January 21, 2006, 04:53 AM
People thought the world was flat. Peple would have bet their lives and their children's lives to say that the world i flat. They could see it was flat. They persecuted people who disgreed. It upset them.

Sometimes to see things more clearly you have to take a step back and then you can know.
What does this have to do with being gay?

Quote from: Lilith24 on January 21, 2006, 04:53 AM
And anywho, who are you people to lay judgment on lesbians? Prejudice is no one's friend. And stereotypes are damaging.
No one is judging lesbians, they are humans afterall. It's only the act of homosexuality that is being condemned.

Quote from: Lilith24 on January 21, 2006, 04:53 AM
Just my two Pence (I'm British), hey is this an american site? Are you all american? Am i the only brit?
This is a Nigerian site, which hosts a community of friendly Nigerians and friends of Nigeria. Cool



Quote from: Lotuken on January 21, 2006, 03:56 PM
Nigeria ain't developed in the area of sexuality.
Because we don't condone homosexuality, that means we aren't developed in the area of sexuality? I'm sure if america was against homosexuality, you people wouldn't be saying stuffs like this. Why are we Nigerians so quick at making Nigeria look like one retarded country? Huh
Lilith24 (f)
Re: What's Wrong in Being a Lesbian?
« #74 on: January 22, 2006, 07:11 PM »

Dear GoodGuy, Understand that while I am nt in the habbit of challenging specific people's beleifs because that's no what I do, I think it important to get what you said in reply to my post, straight.  

Quote from: Lilith24 on Yesterday at 04:53:47 AM
"In the times when we chalenge everything that the foundations of our world is built upon, when we break new boundaries and discover new secrets, people are still angry at people for being gay. "
What are the "new boundaries and secrets" discovered in being gay?

Answer - New boundaries: - Medical discovery, uncovering scientific secrets about things like light refraction, chaos theories, things that people thought were true but we are no finding out are not true.  Sharks are not cold blooded, dinosaurs were not slow moving dim witted monsters.  You, Goodguy, did not read that properly in your haste to contradict me.  


Quote from: Lilith24 on Yesterday at 04:53:47 AM
"Who are we as humans to say what is right and what isn't? Our arrogance as the top beings is astounding. Do you think you know it all and that God came down to write ten rules? The God? Of Everything? Wrote ten rules?"
Humans didn't just decide to say it was wrong. God doesn't support it so who are we humans to make it right? Remember God destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah because of this illicit act.

Answer - Your entire argument there is based upon heresay.  There is no actual evidence that what you said happened and is purely reliant upon religious beleifs.  How do you know this? Is King Arthur true as well? It was documented to about the same level as the time of christ.  Was King Arthur real? If in King Arthur you had found comfort and peace from his rulings over men, would you say it was real and follow that all your life? What do YOU think? What are your opinions? If here was no God, it was on television tommorow and proven that everything was a hoax, would you still think it's wrong?


Quote from: Lilith24 on Yesterday at 04:53:47 AM
"And why (I promise I'm not getting in to a religious debate here) is it Eve who betray Adam? She brings him shame just Like Lilith ( the lesser known first wife). MEN WROTE THE BIBLE. *gasps!* Yeah, that's right. "
Men who wrote the Bible were inspired by God. (2 Timothy 3:16)

Answer - Right.  According to the men who were inspired by God.  How can you possibly swallow that? Two thousand years on and the religion is only now beggining to show cracks in it's so far flawlessness.  What do you think God is? I really want to know what you think God is.  With everything in the world, all the pain, sadness, joy, wonderfulness, love and magic, how is one Person who told all men that women are inferior to them and that we should live out our lives according to laws at that time responsible for EVERYTHING in the world.  I don't recall God saying anything about racial equality at the time, maybe I'm wrong.  Honour thy father and thy mother.  Tell that to my cousin who was raped by her father over and over again while her mother ignored and it simply went upstairs.  Tell that to the two little sisters who were drugged by their mother so their father could rape them.  I won't even go in to the contradictory sense of the bible itself.  


Quote from: Lilith24 on Yesterday at 04:53:47 AM
"And by saying that homosexuality is banned (thus proving it's existance at the time and is therefore not a recent thing) is just another way of making the world better for men. "
There are also countless men who are gay, so what's your point here?

Answer - Fair point, it was 2;45 in the morning and I forgot about the guys there for a moment.  However, my point is that marriage was a nice conveniant way of keeping the peace for men.  Why would they want anything messed up there.  Might I also point ou that throughout history, Male Homosexuality has been perfectly acceptable up until about the sixteen hundreds, Men in medieval times were given a boy to rape when they turned 21, men did it to show off and nothing was thought about that.  


Quote from: Lilith24 on Yesterday at 04:53:47 AM
"People thought the world was flat. Peple would have bet their lives and their children's lives to say that the world i flat. They could see it was flat. They persecuted people who disgreed. It upset them.
Sometimes to see things more clearly you have to take a step back and then you can know. "
What does this have to do with being gay?

Answer - I rather thought that was obvious, maybe not.  It's debating the principles of uncertainty.  You think you know something, but sometimes you don't.  People need to acknowledge that they are not always right and there is room for interpratation.  It is the world progressing.  Progression must take place of we will stagnate and lose the evolution we need to survive.  Clinging on to conveniant and comforting pieces of the Bible and whatever other religion you may believe is not the way to deal with people who are different.  The world is not flat.  Women are not inferior to men. Not all men are brutish thugs, only good for physical labour.  Look around, the world is changing.  People are changing.  Take a step back and see the big picture, like people in space can do and then you will see that the earth is acually round and that people are all different and that there is NOTHING wrong with that.  


Quote from: Lilith24 on Yesterday at 04:53:47 AM
"And anywho, who are you people to lay judgment on lesbians? Prejudice is no one's friend. And stereotypes are damaging."
No one is judging lesbians, they are humans afterall. It's only the act of homosexuality that is being condemned.

Answer - What the hell? Actions generally tend to define us pal, what a way to weasel out of what you're saying.  If you judge the act of homosexuals then F.Y.I you are judging homosexuals.  Revelation? I should hope so.  If you seriously think you are right in all that you have said then that is fine.  Everyone is entitled to their own opinions (thankfully) and your is just as valid as the next persons.  However, you are on this website attacking me and everyone else out there who is not just like you and who doesn't have beleifs just like you so I defend myself and other gays and lesbians.  All I shall say further is that to have a valid opinion in this area you need to observe the spectrum, look around and take in other views, even if you disagree with them which is what you must do to have a made a full argument.  

All the best,


goodguy (m)
Re: What's Wrong in Being a Lesbian?
« #75 on: January 22, 2006, 07:57 PM »

Quote from: Lilith24 on January 22, 2006, 07:11 PM
Answer - New boundaries: - Medical discovery, uncovering scientific secrets about things like light refraction, chaos theories, things that people thought were true but we are no finding out are not true.  Sharks are not cold blooded, dinosaurs were not slow moving dim witted monsters.  You, Goodguy, did not read that properly in your haste to contradict me. 
I still don't get this. Undecided What does this have to do with being gay? Huh

Quote from: Lilith24 on January 22, 2006, 07:11 PM
Answer - Your entire argument there is based upon heresay.  There is no actual evidence that what you said happened and is purely reliant upon religious beleifs.  How do you know this? Is King Arthur true as well? It was documented to about the same level as the time of christ.  Was King Arthur real? If in King Arthur you had found comfort and peace from his rulings over men, would you say it was real and follow that all your life? What do YOU think? What are your opinions? If here was no God, it was on television tommorow and proven that everything was a hoax, would you still think it's wrong?
Concerning the veracity of the Bible, I don't think I need to show any evidence on whether it's true or not. I read the Bible. It has helped me in so many aspects of my life. The Bible has helped save many lives. What more could one ask for? If you feel the stories in the Bible are mere myths, that's your personal opinion which has no proof/evidence to back it up. The Bible is more than the printed letters on it. Those who believe in it know what they gain. Millions of people can't be so dumb!

Quote from: Lilith24 on January 22, 2006, 07:11 PM
Answer - Right.  According to the men who were inspired by God.  How can you possibly swallow that? Two thousand years on and the religion is only now beggining to show cracks in it's so far flawlessness.  What do you think God is? I really want to know what you think God is.  With everything in the world, all the pain, sadness, joy, wonderfulness, love and magic, how is one Person who told all men that women are inferior to them and that we should live out our lives according to laws at that time responsible for EVERYTHING in the world.  I don't recall God saying anything about racial equality at the time, maybe I'm wrong.  Honour thy father and thy mother.  Tell that to my cousin who was raped by her father over and over again while her mother ignored and it simply went upstairs.  Tell that to the two little sisters who were drugged by their mother so their father could rape them.  I won't even go in to the contradictory sense of the bible itself. 
Where do you stand? Do you believe in the Bible? Do you believe in God?

Quote from: Lilith24 on January 22, 2006, 07:11 PM
Answer - Fair point, it was 2;45 in the morning and I forgot about the guys there for a moment.  However, my point is that marriage was a nice conveniant way of keeping the peace for men.  Why would they want anything messed up there.  Might I also point ou that throughout history, Male Homosexuality has been perfectly acceptable up until about the sixteen hundreds, Men in medieval times were given a boy to rape when they turned 21, men did it to show off and nothing was thought about that. 
If stealing is accepted, that doesn't still make it right. The fact that it was accepted doesn't mean it is/was right.

Quote from: Lilith24 on January 22, 2006, 07:11 PM
Answer - I rather thought that was obvious, maybe not.  It's debating the principles of uncertainty.  You think you know something, but sometimes you don't.  People need to acknowledge that they are not always right and there is room for interpratation.  It is the world progressing.  Progression must take place of we will stagnate and lose the evolution we need to survive.  Clinging on to conveniant and comforting pieces of the Bible and whatever other religion you may believe is not the way to deal with people who are different.  The world is not flat.  Women are not inferior to men. Not all men are brutish thugs, only good for physical labour.  Look around, the world is changing.  People are changing.  Take a step back and see the big picture, like people in space can do and then you will see that the earth is acually round and that people are all different and that there is NOTHING wrong with that. 
You make some sense here, but I still don't see what makes homosexuality right.

Quote from: Lilith24 on January 22, 2006, 07:11 PM
Answer - What the hell? Actions generally tend to define us pal, what a way to weasel out of what you're saying.  If you judge the act of homosexuals then F.Y.I you are judging homosexuals.  Revelation? I should hope so.  If you seriously think you are right in all that you have said then that is fine.  Everyone is entitled to their own opinions (thankfully) and your is just as valid as the next persons.  However, you are on this website attacking me and everyone else out there who is not just like you and who doesn't have beleifs just like you so I defend myself and other gays and lesbians.  All I shall say further is that to have a valid opinion in this area you need to observe the spectrum, look around and take in other views, even if you disagree with them which is what you must do to have a made a full argument. 
I am not attacking you. I'm only commenting on your post. I have no cause to attack you. You're far more sensible than the other lesbian we have on this forum and I love the way you present your points. It's only when we debate peacefully that we can see the sense in our different opinions. You're right about people's comments being their opinions. Everyone is entitled to their opinions. But atimes, we need to make certain things clear, as the other person's opinion might be from a wrong perspective.

Personally, the only thing that will make me believe homosexuality is right is when God himself says so. But till then, ... Wink

By the way, welcome to Nairaland! Cheesy
pearldrops (f)
Re: What's Wrong in Being a Lesbian?
« #76 on: January 22, 2006, 09:23 PM »

lilith 24

If people do not talk about you,who will they talk about?
it's our world and we know our benefits and our happiness.
lets rule the earth.
Lilith24 (f)
Re: What's Wrong in Being a Lesbian?
« #77 on: January 22, 2006, 10:12 PM »

Dear Goodguy, against my better judgement I'm actually beggining to like you and the way you debate.  Therefore, this will be a friendly debate. 

Quote from: Lilith24 on Today at 07:11:40 PM
"Answer - New boundaries: - Medical discovery, uncovering scientific secrets about things like light refraction, chaos theories, things that people thought were true but we are no finding out are not true.  Sharks are not cold blooded, dinosaurs were not slow moving dim witted monsters.  You, Goodguy, did not read that properly in your haste to contradict me."
I still don't get this.  What does this have to do with being gay?

It's about things changing.  Old beleifs being shown to be false, old ideas being validated or nulled. 


Quote from: Lilith24 on Today at 07:11:40 PM
"Answer - Your entire argument there is based upon heresay.  There is no actual evidence that what you said happened and is purely reliant upon religious beleifs.  How do you know this? Is King Arthur true as well? It was documented to about the same level as the time of christ.  Was King Arthur real? If in King Arthur you had found comfort and peace from his rulings over men, would you say it was real and follow that all your life? What do YOU think? What are your opinions? If here was no God, it was on television tommorow and proven that everything was a hoax, would you still think it's wrong?"
Concerning the veracity of the Bible, I don't think I need to show any evidence on whether it's true or not. I read the Bible. It has helped me in so many aspects of my life. The Bible has helped save many lives. What more could one ask for? If you feel the stories in the Bible are mere myths, that's your personal opinion which has no proof/evidence to back it up. The Bible is more than the printed letters on it. Those who believe in it know what they gain. Millions of people can't be so dumb!

Whoa! Yes they can! There are over a Billion Chinese people with a totally different religion to yours, are they right because there is a billion of them? And like I mentioned earlier, everyone in the world thought the world was flat.  Millions of people were pretty dumb? Well no, but they didn't know any better.  Still didn't stop them being wrong. 


Quote from: Lilith24 on Today at 07:11:40 PM
"Answer - Right.  According to the men who were inspired by God.  How can you possibly swallow that? Two thousand years on and the religion is only now beggining to show cracks in it's so far flawlessness.  What do you think God is? I really want to know what you think God is.  With everything in the world, all the pain, sadness, joy, wonderfulness, love and magic, how is one Person who told all men that women are inferior to them and that we should live out our lives according to laws at that time responsible for EVERYTHING in the world.  I don't recall God saying anything about racial equality at the time, maybe I'm wrong.  Honour thy father and thy mother.  Tell that to my cousin who was raped by her father over and over again while her mother ignored and it simply went upstairs.  Tell that to the two little sisters who were drugged by their mother so their father could rape them.  I won't even go in to the contradictory sense of the bible itself." 
Where do you stand? Do you believe in the Bible? Do you believe in God?

I do not believe in the bible, I do beleive that we are not alone.  I'm a pagan I suppose if I have to be catagorised (which I dislike).  My beleifs are natural and spiritual. 


Quote from: Lilith24 on Today at 07:11:40 PM
"Answer - Fair point, it was 2;45 in the morning and I forgot about the guys there for a moment.  However, my point is that marriage was a nice conveniant way of keeping the peace for men.  Why would they want anything messed up there.  Might I also point ou that throughout history, Male Homosexuality has been perfectly acceptable up until about the sixteen hundreds, Men in medieval times were given a boy to rape when they turned 21, men did it to show off and nothing was thought about that."
If stealing is accepted, that doesn't still make it right. The fact that it was accepted doesn't mean it is/was right.

All things in nature steal, animals, creatures.  It depends on what level of stealing you refer to.  There are many hundred of things in life that feel wrong but are acceptible.  Who decides what is right? God? What if you don't beleive in God, who decides then? You saying that Lesbianism and homosexuality are wrong is only your point of view because the bible says so. That's not your opinion.  That's what you are taught to believe.  Does it repulse you? Turn your stomach? If the bible was all for it, what would be your stance then? Everything is relative

Quote from: Lilith24 on Today at 07:11:40 PM
Answer - I rather thought that was obvious, maybe not.  It's debating the principles of uncertainty.  You think you know something, but sometimes you don't.  People need to acknowledge that they are not always right and there is room for interpratation.  It is the world progressing.  Progression must take place of we will stagnate and lose the evolution we need to survive.  Clinging on to conveniant and comforting pieces of the Bible and whatever other religion you may believe is not the way to deal with people who are different.  The world is not flat.  Women are not inferior to men. Not all men are brutish thugs, only good for physical labour.  Look around, the world is changing.  People are changing.  Take a step back and see the big picture, like people in space can do and then you will see that the earth is acually round and that people are all different and that there is NOTHING wrong with that. 

You make some sense here, but I still don't see what makes homosexuality right.

People are entitled nowadays to be whomever they want to be.  We deserve it, we worked for the right to get the vote, and we have earned the right to love whomever we want to love without fear of reprisal.  That world will not exist for a lon time yet, but it should.  We are no different than you and we do not hurt people anymore than you.  If you prick us, do we not bleed, if you tickle us do we not laugh and if you poisen us shall we not die?  I do not want this to turn in to a religious debate I really do not, because I hate dissing religions knowing how much comfort, hope and joy they give to people all around the world. 

But take into account that not everyone has religion.  Some of us just have who we are and who we are occassionally comprises of being gay.  In that we find OUR comfort, joy and hope.  Surely a god wo loves us all as children would not begrudge us our happiness? Our chance in this world to find solcace and love when without it we could not? Is there such wrath in your God that when I die I shall go to the second level of hell for my troubles?

Accepting who we are, that no we're not perfect, but that we are content with who we are and that is what makes us whole, is the first sep to ending this cruel debate which makes us all out to be sinners or children going through a phase. 

Regards and Best wishes, little. 
goodguy (m)
Re: What's Wrong in Being a Lesbian?
« #78 on: January 22, 2006, 11:03 PM »

I'm really impressed by your write up. However, I'm only going to comment on one part of your post.

Quote from: Lilith24 on January 22, 2006, 10:12 PM
You saying that Lesbianism and homosexuality are wrong is only your point of view because the bible says so. That's not your opinion. That's what you are taught to believe. Does it repulse you? Turn your stomach? If the bible was all for it, what would be your stance then? Everything is relative.

I was taught to believe in the Bible when I was very much younger. But the stand I take today is not as a result of what I was taught when I was young, but because of what I saw as I was growing. Believe me, I very well, used to doubt the existence of God until I started seeing and experiencing some things which cannot be explained in anyway by anybody.

My point is this: At a certain point in one's life, you sit and think. I don't believe in God today because my parents or my church made me to. I believe in God because of what I know. If others cannot see what I see, and cannot know what I know, then it isn't my fault in anyway. I use what I believe in to defend myself. I do not know what the chinese worship and I don't care to know. God is real. He's the creator of heaven and earth and all its inhabitants. I just know it, though it's very hard to convince a non-believer.

I hope I made sense. Undecided
4real (m)
Re: What's Wrong in Being a Lesbian?
« #79 on: January 24, 2006, 01:25 PM »

look Lilith24 i really could not read all the stories that you wrote but i have to come into this, look you said alot of things about the bible that i just feel sorry for you about, you can say so cause it was said that it was written by men, but am sure the story will not be the same if it were women,the thing is you have to come to Nigeria to see the word (from the bible ) come to life, am one person with to many testimony to share, forget what the bible says about the old times, forget if there were true or not, lets even say there were not true, for the ones that happened to me, you can't tell me stories about that, the blind begger that was cured by Jesus at the pool said he does not know not know if Jesus was the Christ but one thing he knows he was blind but can know see,
If developing to accepting gay people is what you call advancement in life then we don't want it in Nigeria,
the thing is if your parents were gay would you be in this world, OK if you get married to a gay, you would want a child, where do you get it from, you talk about pleasure from a girl, am sorry but am sure one visit to Nigeria to spend the night with a Nigeria guy you would change your mind about being gay Grin
pearldrops (f)
Re: What's Wrong in Being a Lesbian?
« #80 on: January 25, 2006, 12:54 PM »

ORDER!!!  l am calling the court to order
I.B. (f)
Re: What's Wrong in Being a Lesbian?
« #81 on: January 25, 2006, 05:49 PM »

oh boy.
pearldrops (f)
Re: What's Wrong in Being a Lesbian?
« #82 on: January 26, 2006, 02:52 PM »

 Huh Huh Shocked Shocked
kenflavor (m)
Re: What's Wrong in Being a Lesbian?
« #83 on: January 26, 2006, 05:49 PM »

carry on GG. Mo n gbadun e.

I wonder what a lady achieves in touching another lady's breast or sucking other lady's cunt.
Ol girl change ways.

ADVICE
snazzydawn (f)
Re: What's Wrong in Being a Lesbian?
« #84 on: January 26, 2006, 06:01 PM »

yuck!!!!!
4real (m)
Re: What's Wrong in Being a Lesbian?
« #85 on: January 26, 2006, 06:09 PM »

well i really don't know what they enjoy in it maybe there are not good with the oppsite sex or just maybe how did they put it, yes they are developed and we are not. Shocked
pearldrops (f)
Re: What's Wrong in Being a Lesbian?
« #86 on: January 30, 2006, 06:09 PM »

what is what?
lowo (m)
Re: What's Wrong in Being a Lesbian?
« #87 on: February 24, 2006, 09:22 AM »

White men madness!,  Lesbianism ke? don't let your mama know this
Eddy Tells (m)
Re: What's Wrong in Being a Lesbian?
« #88 on: February 24, 2006, 02:08 PM »

i don't understand this world any more  Undecided Undecided
Jakumo (m)
Re: What's Wrong in Being a Lesbian?
« #89 on: February 24, 2006, 03:09 PM »

As a homework assignment for Lowo and Eddy Tells, I ask that you both go and rent copies of the timeless video classic  "Swedish Lesbo Nymphettes In Heat" , and then repair to a private and secluded air-conditioned screening room to scrutinize the on-screen grappling with an unbiased eye.   I remain confident that you will both willingly repent your prudish ways when you finally see the light during this exercise.
whitesoftx (m)
Re: What's Wrong in Being a Lesbian?
« #90 on: February 24, 2006, 03:23 PM »

Lebi - gini ?

Ok, I'm all hear!!!  Angry


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babwilms (m)
Re: What's Wrong in Being a Lesbian?
« #91 on: February 24, 2006, 07:41 PM »

What is these world turning into. What a disgusting habit to practice, sooner or later every one will turn gay and lesbian and the human race will be wiped out. What is wrong with this world, am i in the wrong world? I'm sure everyone on here has a religion they practice and i'm sure non of the religions supports the act. Why can't we leave things the way its meant to be (been straight). From my little knowledge of the bible, it does nt supports the act. Their are ways that have been outlined for us to leaveby, by each of our holy books why can't we just follow it, it all for our benefits. From not following the bible or simple facts from each of our holy books, it always result to something terrible things which i've lost count off (HIV AMONG others)
Hope i dint offend anyone
Queenzy (f)
Re: What's Wrong in Being a Lesbian?
« #92 on: February 24, 2006, 08:24 PM »

*shakes head at this thread*
babwilms (m)
Re: What's Wrong in Being a Lesbian?
« #93 on: February 24, 2006, 09:12 PM »

we would like to know who u calling shakes head?  bunch of weirdooooooooooooooooooooos on this thread. I still got love for u all but, how can someone in his or her own correct state of mind say their is no God? or say he or she desires to sleep with the same sex as him or her? The thing too sweet from the oposite sex
.I beg come try me, u go change ur mind in the silly habit. People are losing their mind, well i aint too suprised all sort of nonsense is happening in the world today, it has all been pridicted by my holy book (bible) the book inspired by God. I mean are my the only one with common sense here and others that rejects the act of lesbian? if our four fathers were gay and grand parent were lesbians i'm sure me and u will not be here today
4real (m)
Re: What's Wrong in Being a Lesbian?
« #94 on: February 25, 2006, 04:32 AM »

well like you said my guy one try with an african iron rod and there would be no going back.like they said once you go black there is no going back
dacosta (m)
Re: What's Wrong in Being a Lesbian?
« #95 on: February 27, 2006, 05:55 AM »

how i laughed. you guys r funny. between the pervs(and am one of them) who wish to join the lesbians in their girl on girl action as an independent observer or an eager participant and the rabid bible bashing fundamentalists with their narrow minded ranting, this discussion is just pure jokes. Starting with the bible bashers. People remember that the same way you zealots use the bible to justify your homophobia is the same way whites used the bible to justify slavery in the past. Also what does the bible say about love and understanding. I know my God loves and understands all his creations no matter their race, gender or sexuality. Equally as black people, how can we demand equality in the wider world while trying to deny another minority a voice let alone a right to exist. Its complete hypocrisy. Everyone should be able to live their life as they want to as long as they are not hurting others. This is particularly important in a world where true happiness and love is so hard to find.people that find it no matter their sexuality should be applauded and encouraged. To all the lesbians out there, don't get offended when we guys say we want to watch you have sex with other women. We are not belittling your sexuality, its just that its a male sexual fantasy that's built in most of us. like lesbians or gay people its a nature not nurture thing and we can't help it. ps to all the people who don't think that people are born gay or lesbian think about this. if you had a choice between being straight and being accepted into the mainstream world or being gay and facing discrimination, alienation, physical, verbal, psychological  abuse and condemned to hell by church leaders, family members, neighbours, etc, would you really choose to be gay or lesbian, let alone a black, Nigerian gay or lesbian. A minority within a minority, within a minority
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