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redhot (f)
Who Do I Choose
« on: February 03, 2007, 10:17 PM »

hi,  my name is mandy, am in my early  twenties . i met my boyfriend online and we have been dating for a year and a half now, but i hardly see him  we leave in different towns   and he  comes to see me like once in three or four months.but we   speak on  phone  everyday and we chat almost everyday.i love him and am  sure he loves me too,but the problem i have now is the distance  i get lonely  most times and  i wish  he was arround . troble started when i met   another guy  , he was always there , i mean always arround me  and he was really  good in bed i got so use to him or the sex rather ,that i miss him  so much if i don't see him for like four days.he claimes he loves  me , but i know he keeps other girls although he told me he has changed since he met me.right now i am so confused i want him so much and i want my boyfriend as well and i know its not right to keep both of them, he  knows about my boyfriend    but he still wants me, please tell me what to do.
cute-ass (f)
Re: Who Do I Choose
« #1 on: February 03, 2007, 10:40 PM »

Galfriend follow your heart, but as the saying goes look before you leap. Don't jump into conclussions for the wrong reasons. If you're sure this other guy keeps other girls, why would you want to play with your risk a heartbreak and if you don't love your boyfriend enough to love just him then maybe he's not the right guy for you either. This is a sole decision that has to be made by you and you alone. Sit down and think, which of them would you say yes to if he were to propose to you right this minute ?? Huh The right guy for you will be there for you 24/7 and still satisfy every of your emotional(sexual) needs. Out of sight dosen't necessarily mean out of mind, your boyfriend can still be there for you even though you guys don't see each other on daily basis, my advice is for you to take your time. Best of luck in making the right decision Wink

p.s: remember, all that glitters is not gold.
Radiant (f)
Re: Who Do I Choose
« #2 on: February 03, 2007, 11:07 PM »

Didn't you know he was far from you when you met him online? You should have known it won't be easy dating someone who wouldn't be around you all the time.

The situation is a bit complicated. I can't really advise you on what to do.You have to make your choice betwen these two guys. You know them two better.
phoenixman
Re: Who Do I Choose
« #3 on: February 04, 2007, 05:50 AM »

is she saying that she has a boyfriend but he is not around often so she cheated on him? Undecided
fellow (m)
Re: Who Do I Choose
« #4 on: February 04, 2007, 08:32 AM »

Quote from: phoenixman on February 04, 2007, 05:50 AM
is she saying that she has a boyfriend but he is not around often so she cheated on him? Undecided

Abi oh. Thats all i can bring up about her post. I wonder what the world is turning into

i think its time i start keeping watch on my girlfriend oh, make she no be like this
iice (f)
Re: Who Do I Choose
« #5 on: February 04, 2007, 12:12 PM »

Quote from: Radiant on February 03, 2007, 11:07 PM
Didn't you know he was far from you when you met him online? You should have known it won't be easy dating someone who wouldn't be around you all the time.

Abi oooo.  All i have to say right now is don't draw this out or your online-far-away boyfriend will find out and things might get nasty.
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