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omogenaija (f)
Re: Would You Date A Man Who Smokes And Drinks?
« #32 on: May 10, 2007, 02:33 AM »

hell no ,  olorun ma je
omogenaija (f)
Re: Would You Date A Man Who Smokes And Drinks?
« #33 on: May 10, 2007, 03:31 AM »

lovemoney

its just something that irritates me
adconline (m)
Re: Would You Date A Man Who Smokes And Drinks?
« #34 on: May 10, 2007, 05:36 AM »

smoking no no no.  As per drinking, unless that person is a dipsomaniac. I am an occasional drinker. I wonder how many guys  who don't drink, but it depends on the frequency
iice (f)
Re: Would You Date A Man Who Smokes And Drinks?
« #35 on: May 10, 2007, 06:51 AM »

One man's meatand so on.

Quote from: lovemoney on May 10, 2007, 02:00 AM
Yes i will date someone that drink because i do that also and smoke tree Cheesy Cheesy

Grin Grin
smile4kenn (m)
Re: Would You Date A Man Who Smokes And Drinks?
« #36 on: May 10, 2007, 07:41 AM »

There is nothing bad with smokers or drinkers. Every resposible man that smokes and drink have a reason for doing that. Most weekends i go to the bar to drink and maybe puff out some cigarette. I see nothing bad there. Drinking is good for the health but smoking cigarette can just be a fashion.
adconline (m)
Re: Would You Date A Man Who Smokes And Drinks?
« #37 on: May 10, 2007, 08:19 AM »

smile4ken.

Bro, there is no single reason for smoking, but  this not an indictment on smokers ok
ayefele200 (m)
Re: Would You Date A Man Who Smokes And Drinks?
« #38 on: May 10, 2007, 08:24 AM »

The Federal ministy of health warns that smoker are liable to die young, but the FEDERAL BREWERY OF HEALTH warns that drinker are liable to live long, why jeopadise the lives of the unborn kid. by marrying a SMOKER, to me how rather date a DRINKER than a  SMOKER, because am too young to be a widow
ayefele200 (m)
Re: Would You Date A Man Who Smokes And Drinks?
« #39 on: May 10, 2007, 08:28 AM »

Quote from: lovemoney on May 10, 2007, 08:26 AM
I don't support cigarette smoking because it causes lungs cancer Wink but smoking some herb(weed or trees) once in a while  is good for the body Cheesy Cheesy
fool, God knows what shape your LUNG has, WEED kills, CRACK HEAD
ayefele200 (m)
Re: Would You Date A Man Who Smokes And Drinks?
« #40 on: May 10, 2007, 08:31 AM »

Quote from: lovemoney on May 10, 2007, 08:29 AM
hummm i guess you were calling yourself a crack head since you are STAR01 Wink
hey why u INvadin my privacy, please dude, oh my goodness for devil sake, get off my back, OR ELSE
ne4real (f)
Re: Would You Date A Man Who Smokes And Drinks?
« #41 on: May 10, 2007, 09:09 AM »

i can't stand guys that drink and smoke so i can't date them 4 any serious relationship. 
trendy (f)
Re: Would You Date A Man Who Smokes And Drinks?
« #42 on: May 10, 2007, 09:49 AM »

Drink : Yes, to an extent though ,
Smoke: forget about me Angry
darkbeaut
Re: Would You Date A Man Who Smokes And Drinks?
« #43 on: May 10, 2007, 09:59 AM »

as at the age of 21 i started living with people that smokes and drinks, infact i ve a cousin who smokes and drinks and he is extremely nice person i ve ever seen. If not that he was my cousin we would have been dating.

All am driving out here is from the thread some people condemn smokers as if they are God forsaken. don't be suprised if any of you marrys an ex-smoker, God help you after marriage he decides to resume back i wonder if you will divorce him or move out the house because of that.

Its just my opinion and experience.

cheers
onyeka_ng (f)
Re: Would You Date A Man Who Smokes And Drinks?
« #44 on: May 10, 2007, 10:01 AM »

@ poster

    hell noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
br222
Re: Would You Date A Man Who Smokes And Drinks?
« #45 on: May 10, 2007, 10:05 AM »

So ladies, Which would you prefer, a man that smokes and drinks but has a shower and freshen up before he's to come and see you and when he gets violent he blames it on work pressures, you know no better because you do not know he drinks,

,  or a man that smokes drinks, is kind / trustworthy tells you he smokes and drinks with friends / controlled and never violent because he is responsible, never smokes in the presence of none smokers or at home but only when out with friends recreationally, but yes he drinks good champagne and smokes good cigars, 
omokenny (m)
Re: Would You Date A Man Who Smokes And Drinks?
« #46 on: May 10, 2007, 10:24 AM »

Hi, let me tell you ladies your guy may be smoking or doing more worst than smoking without know or you aware of it. I can asure you that 40% of guy are smoker.

But just pray to God to give you your own husband.
don jazzie (m)
Re: Would You Date A Man Who Smokes And Drinks?
« #47 on: May 10, 2007, 10:41 AM »

@ Emad.

Word.must say you have a real matured opinion. Wink
tasiana
Re: Would You Date A Man Who Smokes And Drinks?
« #48 on: May 10, 2007, 10:53 AM »

No,not drinkin and smoking @ the same time.
if its just one habit,then maybe because come to think of it, we all got one habit or the other Lips sealed
its all about doing stuff in moderation and tolerance.
afrikangal (f)
Re: Would You Date A Man Who Smokes And Drinks?
« #49 on: May 10, 2007, 10:56 AM »

there is no big deal dating someone who smokes or drinks as long it is a social one not day-to-day one so his up to him.i can change him if i do love him Smiley Smiley Smiley Smiley Smiley Smiley
Gheorghe (m)
Re: Would You Date A Man Who Smokes And Drinks?
« #50 on: May 10, 2007, 11:12 AM »

i drink and smoke and it has never stopped any girl i approached or dated from liking me less.it all depends on your control of both.i once dated a girl who helped me stop (then she taught i had stopped but because i loved her i chose the odd hours to smoke and for a year plus,she never knew) until i actually stepped-aside (for another 2 years).

i don't believe most girls on these trend saying never,a guy will always make the first impression count at least till their is stable rappour before u really know his other habits,by then most girls can't let go.

and talking about cancer and dying young,more non-smokers have died of cancer and what ever will happen will happen,smoke or no smoke
pisces20
Re: Would You Date A Man Who Smokes And Drinks?
« #51 on: May 10, 2007, 11:41 AM »

okay guys how about a girl that smokes and/or drinks?
biby (f)
Re: Would You Date A Man Who Smokes And Drinks?
« #52 on: May 10, 2007, 11:42 AM »

 der is this guy too i so much love, but with d influence of friends he smoke and drinks. but i can't leave him 4 now as much as i love him.

u can help wot possible thing can i do 4 him 2 stop.
smile4kenn (m)
Re: Would You Date A Man Who Smokes And Drinks?
« #53 on: May 10, 2007, 11:59 AM »

Weed is ok, its medicinal and its a good apetizer.

some people do smoke, but they do hide that fact. you may be avioding smokers and u will end up loosing the best. there are so many Bankers, managers, lawyers, teachers that smoke. One advice is that u can smoke, but don't smoke in public.
don jazzie (m)
Re: Would You Date A Man Who Smokes And Drinks?
« #54 on: May 10, 2007, 12:12 PM »

like someone said there are alot of topshots that smoke.
Yardua.President elect smokes.
and all that shows is everybody has a nasty side.
i found out that most of the chics that always complain about smokin & drinkn
eventually date guys that smoke and drink one way or the other and they leave with it

That's just the funny part.
ayefele200 (m)
Re: Would You Date A Man Who Smokes And Drinks?
« #55 on: May 10, 2007, 12:57 PM »

Quote from: ne4real on May 10, 2007, 09:09 AM
i can't stand guys that drink and smoke so i can't date them 4 any serious relationship.
yea right, keep rubbim ur yarnsh with feather
Quote from: pisces20 on May 10, 2007, 11:41 AM
okay guys how about a girl that smokes and/or drinks?
i like it when GIRLS go WILD,
babadee (m)
Re: Would You Date A Man Who Smokes And Drinks?
« #56 on: May 10, 2007, 05:51 PM »

girls always love the bad guys!!!
hbrednic
Re: Would You Date A Man Who Smokes And Drinks?
« #57 on: May 10, 2007, 06:29 PM »

people has been smoking and drinking for millions of years.
do u think that jesus made a mistake by turning water into wine?
life is short,so live the best out of it.
cancer or no cancer something must kill a man.
br222
Re: Would You Date A Man Who Smokes And Drinks?
« #58 on: May 10, 2007, 09:04 PM »

Biby,

don't know if you are in the UK, but in the UK there will be a smoking ban in public places from July and if you reside here then I'll advice that you start socialising more with your man because he'll now be more so in the company of non-smokers than smokers.

Also try to agree some basic rules, such as no smoking in the house etc, if this works and you have the charm to keep him at home then it starts to work.

It's a balance thing, the more the influences that stimulate smoking can be removed the more he likely to indulge. It's however very difficult as the effects of smoking are long term and every Niger man feels they are invincible! We are sort of sha Cool
adeboo (f)
Re: Would You Date A Man Who Smokes And Drinks?
« #59 on: May 10, 2007, 09:07 PM »

I used to be really particular but these days it doesnt really bother me as much.

But within reason sha.
busygirl (f)
Re: Would You Date A Man Who Smokes And Drinks?
« #60 on: May 10, 2007, 09:11 PM »

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[quote author=br222 link=topic=3891.msg1106523#msg1106523 date=but in the UK there will be a smoking ban in public places from July
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that's better! The people here smoke too much. . It affects the lifes on non-smkers. I mean passive smokers those that inhale the smoke
don bomb (m)
Re: Would You Date A Man Who Smokes And Drinks?
« #61 on: May 10, 2007, 09:38 PM »

i used to be a heavy drinker and chain smoker when i was in the university. i quit before graduation and later
resumed though occassionally . its just a habit to smoke. just like women chew gum
dinner m (f)
Re: Would You Date A Man Who Smokes And Drinks?
« #62 on: May 10, 2007, 09:47 PM »

can't stand any guy who drinks or smokes especially smokers,i look at them as inresponsible creatures.don't wish to have a friend like that let alone to date the guy.
cheekybabe
Re: Would You Date A Man Who Smokes And Drinks?
« #63 on: May 10, 2007, 09:55 PM »

I agree with mind2

Second hand smoking causes lung and throat cancer. I love myself more than a man who wants to place himself at risk for cancer. That's his choice. As for drinking, if he is a social drinker then that is fine. However, being with a heavy drinker (alcoholic) places me at risk for being abuse or killed. Once again I love myself more than to to succumb to this.
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