Still a Virgin at Twenty

hello  folks
i am a young man of 20 years old without sex  i mean am still a virgin  well i would like tu know if this will not be of any adverse effect to me because at tymes i think about how i will do it when i eventually decide tu maybe when i get married while i also think it wil be unfair tu me if as avirgin i  end up marrying  a disvirgined lady .what do i  do?

 

me too until i found out last week that i have a four years old son

Gbenga, it is so coincidental that we bear thesame name and also thesame values( to some certain extent) when it comes to sexuality. I am 21 and still a virgin, you're not the only one "zipping up", some people are right there. You've got me and seun (at least). You r better off this way than already disvirgined. ( i expect criticism....lol)

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Gbenga, please stay a virgin till u get a girl you know u wouldn't regret losing it to.

Until today, i swear i thought Soap meant a substance i used for washing things. Now i have to watch my use of the word around guys.

Still a virgin at 20 So what?? what do You want to do?? it aint no big deal if You ask me!! wot bout those who go through life without ever having sex??? wot You going to say bout them too??

trust that to be coming from little sHISHI

God will deliver us from our wrong mentality.
 @drogba what do u mean by man will always womanise. that is the danger of sleep around it get to stage that u can't control yourself again. why should man live like a dog? when man has self control. even dogs controls themselves l don't see dogs mating again as l used to see them.
l so happy with the contribution so far, there is nothing wrong being virgin at 20. l am in my early 20 and l am still virgin by his grace.when it goes to sex l don't think u need experience, there are certain thing u don't need to be taught, and sex is one of it, when is time(marriage) u will do it some well and u will be glad u waited because it is worth waiting for.
There is a lot of danger in doing it before marriage,
1. u will never be satisfy with your parther because u will always compare with your past expriences and u will wish u had married to one of them u did it better with than your wife
2. there will not be trust, because u will beleive that she is double dating even if she is not
3.spiritually, there is a union when u have sex with another. and l man said IF You CAN'T CONTROL UR ERECTION, You CAN'T CONTROL You DIRECTION

the bible say don't u know that when u sleep with a harlot u become one with her.

And always remember u are a temple of the almighty God, u have been bought with a price.

@dominobaby,
  Thanks for your comment l appreciate.

for guys - it is good. At least the lady will trust him because he did not play around like other men did.

lmao, lol

You wish!

easy mami, if a president of USA doesn't know the meaning of sexual relations, hell year i can be pres. of da virgin club, j-girl, u can be my vice!!

Eve going to bemy monica lewinsky