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jb-baby (f)
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-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- because they're freaking idiots? @ TOH, i dnt think they re idiot, dey just didnt read all d replies to d post, probably just read d 1st one. @ topic, i av read all d post in here n dis is what i av 2 say 2 u. when i was going 2 get married i also submitted names 2 my parents bt i guess d prayer warrior in my case didnt pick, he only said d advantages n disadvantages of all of them. bt within me i already knew i was going 2 marry my husband, he even knew abt d list, so d list u dropped isnt bad cos its always d case if your parents wnt 2 pray. looking at d relationship btw d guy picked n your parents even if u didnt put his name dey wuld put it themselves. pls introduce your BF 2 your parents n let him start all d in-law runs as in calling dem occasionally n if he has peeps in 9ja let them get 2 know your parents. let d relationship tin extend 2 your parents n let them know u re really in love. parents are usually understanding, wt time they wuld like him n things would fall in place. bt pls be sure he is really d rite guy. All d best girl  |
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chinenye B (f)
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Hmmmhhhh.Girl, Ifeel for you but come to think of it,have you taken time out to to pray about it yourself.
Why dont you pray about it so that you confirm from Baba God yourself whether your mummy is right or not.Maybe you will prove her wrong, Also if you are ready to go ahead just be ready to face the consequences.Sure you are ready to carry the cross if you love your guy dearly.But all the same PRAY ABOUT IT,GOD KNOWS HOW MUCH YOU CAN BEAR.
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tng (f)
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well put benjibabs. marriage goes way beyond a long courtship and being in love.
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agnesoseka
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girl, wat century do u live in?? after dating a guy 4 3 yrs, u jst wnt to let it go,cos of some dumb story, u shd be certain who u wnt to spend d rest of your life wit,besides,in 3yrs,u shd knw your BF enough to tell if u can actually marry him or not,u dont nid no consultations.anyways,its your call,
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cutiee_xx (f)
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it's your call girl
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TV01 (m)
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Have you considered changing prayer warriors? He who pays the piper calls the tune  |
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wisdome
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Well all that I know is that God doesnt enforce anything on man b'cos we can choose.
Now I should liked it that you reveal somethings better to get more light and for you to get better counsel.
From your mail it seems Dad and Mom Knew this guy the prayer warrior choose for you, maybe he is from your country or town, maybe he wanted you badly and decided to come through your parents, and as a matter of fact I guess this is not the fisrt time your parents will bring some aids (advice, counsels, etc) from this prayer warriors I guess! and they dont see any reason(s) why you should not belive them.
My submission will be that you check previous advice(s) they brought via these prayer warriors if they were all okay then, i think you should rethink on this, moreso there is always a strong little still voice in us all that tells us what you are doing is wrong or someday might go wrong.
I wish and pray that you will not miss your better half in life.
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diyobdw (f)
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@ topic Abeg O! Since when did GOd stop talking to everyone or when did "HE" delegated the contract of "husband selction" to some set of warriors?  Anyway-I don't believe in prayer warriors check'g the future of your union. ( is that what they are meant to do to do?) They should be busy warding off evil and from the union but may be you are to blame. 1. For asking them to choose and 2. from 3 guys - Obviously they would choose one "who might have been an influenced decision" Now you are not happy. All am saying is that People should understand that somethings we do cripple our strenght spiritually and emotionally. Guess that is the problem. Choose who you want and stop fooling around the 3. All Men are can be Mr right- Mr right is your defination! Choose and get down to making it work! God never stop listen to you why should you! |
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allonym
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wow, those are some strong prayer warriors, lol. So, what were the reasons the prayer warriors gave for one guy over another. Seeing as you don't know anything about these people, what is it about them that makes you decide to listen to what they counsel?
There is so much info missing here. Do you already know these prayer warriors? Do they know you? Do they know the three men on the list? Who did they train under? What is their track record? What reasons did they give for one person over the other? Do these reasons make sense given your experience with the three guys? How is it that one of the guys asked your parents for your hand in marriage without consulting you first?
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SHOLA5
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Do not worry 'cause this is what life is about, CONTROL. You are the best judge of the situation. Who do you like? Stay with your gut's feeling and you can't go wrong.
Shola
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kassim2 (m)
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Hey girl, if u think that the guy is real urs from the heart,just tell your mum that your own prayer warriors said that,that is your man, cos u ve your own life to leave.mum won't be there.Good luck.
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osegwu (m)
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You guys should stop lamblasting these prayer worriors after all man must wack
Still me
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kaylala (m)
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I pity your situation my dear  |
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temmisan
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Hmmm!! This is a difficult one. After 3 years well I think you left it a bit too late to find out if he is the one or not. Please do not throw away what the prayer warriors have told you. Maybe it's for the future and not for now.
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Nella (f)
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LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL srry i just can't help laughing!!!
prayer warriors?? jus one question pls, " wat r they fighting???"" looool
hey gurl don't belive in that stuff, all fake 9ja peeps dat r looking 4 chup money!!
if it works out wid u n your Guy, then go 4 it! 4get all dose fake peeps, your heart is your own warrior! follow it!
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diyobdw (f)
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@ Nelly i wonder too O! Guess we dont need to be told somethings.  |
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davidylan (m)
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how much does it cost to rent prayer warriors these days? |
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4 Play (m)
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@Topic
Your boyfriend should dump you for lending any credence to prayer warriors.
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McDoe (m)
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It is obvious that pursuing two animals at a time will live you with none. Your situation should serve as a guide to babes who do not keep to one guy at a time. Meet these payers with some 'dough' and reverse will be the case.
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MP007 (m)
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Go before the lord, He is the only one that can reverse the irreversible, you need to talk to God one on one, guess u lost the divine connection , u need to reconnect ,
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PHBABE (f)
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update
the so called destined husband of mine just got married. hmm. . . . i wonder wat this means. . . . .
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Aproko (f)
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update
the so called destined husband of mine just got married. hmm. . . . i wonder what this means. . . . .
lol it simply means prayer warriors tell you what you want to hear most of the time. so be your own prayer warrior, end of story. |
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TV01 (m)
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lol it simply means prayer warriors tell you what you want to hear most of the time. so be your own prayer warrior, end of story. Yes 0! |
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PHBABE (f)
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men, i tell u. the best way is to just pray. I was not happy with my mum. I asked her if since she was so convinced that the guy was my soulmate, why is she now saying i have not missed my hubby. Anyway, still with my babe. Thoght they(parents) still saying one thing or the other. oh the age gP IS NOT ENUF, OH HE IS NOT CATHOLIC OR NOT FROM SAME VILLAGE, MEN, WAHALA. aLL I CAN SAY IS THAT ONLY GOD CAN TELL ME WHO IS MEANT 4 ME!
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it will b obvious that she's lying. anyways, i suggest that you tel them d real deal, u lov the guy n it's him u want to marry 
