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AlphaDuo
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I've been dating her for about 10 months. Being the first birthday in our relationship I eagerly waited for her birthday message or surprise.
I did get a text message from her early on the day but it wasn't the message I was expecting, she was asking me to buy something for her.
I was very upset (I've gotten over it already though), but I just want to know what you would have done, guys?,
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ima1 (f)
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lol deal with it, its just the first time and u guys have been dating for 10 months, but i doubt i would forget someone's bday if i actually cared about them.
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Radiant (f)
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Yet another victim on the way  |
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Free (f)
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lol it happnds in every relationship  |
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bluenubian (f)
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yeah it happens, jus tell her and see how she reacts, she should at least try to make it up to u
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fellow (m)
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hmmmm i would advice you to watch out. It doesn't get worse than that
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Man-eater (f)
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get over it, you guys do it all the time.  |
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Busta (f)
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why make such a big deal bout that, y'all ben dating only 10months.
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justkunmi (m)
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u call 10 months only? thats a year!!  she forgot your birthday.  it doesnt get worse than that, dude. tell her how mad u are and see her reaction. . if she really forgot, then she'll av to make it up to u |
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1k001 (m)
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dude you should realize that with women its all about them. She's allowed to forget your birthday and your not to mind because your a man, but you dare not do the same. The world as far as women are concerned revolves around them. In the words of Chris Rock; whenever you wake up in the morning, look in the mirror and say %@&$ you, %@&$ you, %@&$ you, because today like everyother day is all about her. That's the one thing loads of guys never learn. Know this and your sorted in the woman department for life, So the next time she forgets your birthday smile and bottle it up because nobody gives a damn how you feel.
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tenik (f)
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pele! forget hers too ok, but remember we are human and no one,s perfect, it might not be intentional, and has it deducted anything from your age,
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Free (f)
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pele! forget hers too ok, that would be intentional , am sure she didnt intentionaly forget his b-day |
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1k001 (m)
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Thanks for being honest free, so u see dude, it's usual, get over it and get on with in. |
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LadyT (f)
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Just make sure she knows you were upset. If you ever forget anything and shes goes mad you can always throw this in her face to shut her up. |
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Omo Eko (f)
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since she forgot your bday, u too do the same by telling her you forgot tomm is/was vday. 50/50
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davidylan (m)
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Leave her alone. Protect whatever is left of your dignity and take the long hard road back to a single existence. A woman who "forgets" your birthday after 10 weeks of dating her is not worth 2 pence of your time.
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1one (m)
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many of you girls were like, move on , forget about it, she's a human being, am i getting something wrong or what, i thought the initial stages of a relationship are supposed to be very, you know ' oh i can't sleep without you sort of feeling, just ten months?, isnt the love still supposed to be spicy, fresh, hot and all that shit, 10months into the relationship and she can't remember his birthday, many of you girls talking, if your boyfriend were to do it to you i can imagine you getting all hysterical and crazy and now the guy is in the hot seat and you're posting all kinds of selfminded bullshit, girls, get real, for the guy sha, my advice is that talk to her and tell her 2 tell you if she's really into the relationship and if you matter to her.
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twinkledew (f)
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join the club. my BF forgot my Birthday as well. i was angry  but what can i do. he said sorry but hey i can only forget but not forgive.  |
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Everbright (f)
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I was once a victim,and i told my friend about it,she asked him and he screamed that he forgot,but when i brought up the issue later, he denied that he forgot,but that, it was due to the problem we were having at the moment. |
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Nite Angel (m)
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I'm sure you were so busy playing the man instead of reminding at the early ours of the day. So what advise are you expecting?, Dump her if her memory lapse affects the love you have for her!
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sylvao2000 (m)
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na that one be your problem now so if your girlfriend forgot your birthday if you none fit forget l have l better solution for you go to do you know 3rd mainland bridge go to the middle jump into the sea l think that will help.
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sammyjl (f)
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Y didnt u remind her, next year, forget her birthday.
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dreadeyez (m)
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to what i know about relationship, if someone is fully committed to the other person, there is no way he or she can forget what u call birthday after sharing information’s about your self. i will advice u deal with it and watch properly if she is really with u:o
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benit (f)
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Some people are not just good with dates. No big deal about that if she is ok in other aspects
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crazykid (m)
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When her birthday comes, Ignore her so she would know what it feels like to be ignored.
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lummy2enny
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My guy,forget her cause she has forgorten u
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tobaaro (m)
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Me too!! Same thing hapnd 2 me. She said she thot it was d next day! What can lovestruck idiots like me do about somthng like that?? I 4gave her anyway!! |
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$$Rhino
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i beg go and hang yourself, or wait for a train to run u over.
A grown ass man crying over spilled milk, can u hear yourself, my girlfriend forgot my b'day, so freaking what, please, you are a yeye man, at least she sent you a text, and who told u to expect, havent u heard of, when u expect, you get disappointed? i beg move on and talk other stuff, people dey die for delta and you talking of b'day, na wa oh
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