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snazzydawn (f)
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HMMMMMM,I think I have answered this question in page 1.But well,let me add,girls!!!!!if a guy asks you out for lunch or dinner-whatever,carry vex money because.something can happen.Two days ago,a friend of mine took me out for lunch,when it was time to pay the bills,he brought out 1000naira bills and unfortunately,they did not have change at the restaurant.I had to open my bag and pay.I was just gritting my teeth but I smiled through it.Later on that day,he wanted to reimburse the money but I refused to collect it.Yesterday,he showed his gratitude by texting me a recharge card.Before I accepted it,I called him and asked him if it was because I paid the bills,well,he was like..hell,no!!!I just feel like loading your phone.Based on his reply,I accepted the credit.So,the bottomline is,if a guy asks you out for lunch or anything,carry vex money.Vex money is money you hold in case of incasity.  |
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fancidiva (f)
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outkast,
there's nothing like miss independent!!!. she didn't ask to go out with the guy in the first instant so i believe he should pay since it was his idea. besides he is the one taking her out so he needs to do things the right way.... if you know what i mean. i wonder why she even offered him her credit card . THE GUY SHOULD PAY FOR THE DINNER.....
And i think the case is vice versa.....if a girl decides or offers to take a guy out to dinner then she should consider paying..
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vinna (f)
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***a round of applause*** ocho, chillin, snazzy. u gals are really making me proud in here.  |
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vinna (f)
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 ****rolling up sleeves*** kay don't u dare start wt my gal ok! or you'll have me to reckon with
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kaylala (m)
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Vinna,i neva meant to step on anybodys toes.  It only means person wey chop and no wan pay,aight? Hope dat settles it? |
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Esooluwa (f)
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The initiator of the date should pay. In Nigeria here, it is the man who normally ask a girls out first.
The man should pay for the first date, subsequent once, the bills can be shared between the two based on their understanding.
Left to me, the man should be sure that he is man enough before asking a girl out.
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Esooluwa (f)
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The initiator of the date should pay. In Nigeria here, it is the man who normally ask a girls out first.
The man should pay for the first date, subsequent once, the bills can be shared between the two based on their understanding.
Left to me, the man should be sure that he is man enough before asking a girl out.
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JP (m)
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Well, I personally think it depends on the man.Men mostly initiate
this taking one out of a thing.For me I pay the bill whenever I ask a girl out.
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kaylala (m)
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Guys,
Don't you think that the world is really changing?
It all depends on who is inviting who and how free and comfortable you are with one another to make you declare the conditions and situations of your pocket.
Also,it seems we have been programmed to have this belief that male/guys/man should always foot da bill.Its not like this in all parts of the country.
But i think some nice gals are now thinking out of the box to reciprocate this gestures. Big up chicks dat this issue doesn't bother.
Regards.
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Geez (m)
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Hey guys! Let not be too hard on the men here, okay! It appears date is tied to having money. How about asking a girl out to where no spending is involved. Don't the poor date? A girl had asked me out and wanted me to pay and I refused to be intimidated into paying bills like that. Guess what: my response was NO.  Let us not forget that there are gold and grave diggers among the girls - rip-offs. Be careful not to be exploited in the name of date. I guess we all know that dating is checking things out. If a girl gulp too much food and wine, she should share in the bill. Before you all slaughter me, I am just a messenger that represents the minds of many, it may even be what you stand for, deep inside. |
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goodguy (m)
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Geez, I feel u jo! |
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kewe (f)
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Hey guys! Let not be too hard on the men here, okay! It appears date is tied to having money. How about asking a girl out to where no spending is involved. Don't the poor date? A girl had asked me out and wanted me to pay and I refused to be intimidated into paying bills like that. Guess what: my response was NO. Let us not forget that there are gold and grave diggers among the girls - rip-offs. Be careful not to be exploited in the name of date. I guess we all know that dating is checking things out. If a girl gulp too much food and wine, she should share in the bill. Before you all slaughter me, I am just a messenger that represents the minds of many, it may even be what you stand for, deep inside. lolllllllllll |
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Geez (m)
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Kewe, what is lollllllllll?
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hot-angel (f)
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Whoever asks. You better be ready to pay if u ask me on a restaurant date. Infact if you r just taking me to the store or asking me to walk u to the store.. u better be ready to pay for my $1 soda.  |
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chillin (f)
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SNAZZZZZZZ damn!! datz d girl talkin rite turr!! hey snazz u know how it goes rite!! vex money no sheit! cozz we ain't relyin on sum guy tellin us d story of his lyfe when it getz 2 pickin up d bill!!
n' vinna thxs girl!! thez guyz r in 4 it!! when it comez to payin!
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ocho (f)
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***a round of applause*** ocho, chillin, snazzy. u gals are really making me proud in here. @ vivian: A Nigerian lady to the core , na im i be and na we know watin dey we're together my sister. Nothing dey happen  and thanks for keeping Fod and kay off my back. @ FOD & kaylala, why are u calling ocho? watin i do una? |
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FOD (m)
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@Ocho... No vex o...na sing i dey song ...sorry, na song I dey sing... Don't tell me you've not heard Dr. Fresh's "Ochofree".
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Geez (m)
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All, help me out here. The nija english is too think to read!  |
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2_die_4
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Guys, better be ready to pay when you go out with a girl...just because it is the millenium is not an excuse.....
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FOD (m)
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Oya make we go...why I no go pay? no forget to hold u own money sha! |
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ocho (f)
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SNAZZZZZZZ damn!! datz d girl talkin rite turr!! hey snazz u know how it goes rite!! vex money no sheit! cozz we ain't relyin on sum guy tellin us d story of his lyfe when it getz pickin up d bill!!
n' vinna thxs girl!! thez guyz r in 4 it!! when it comez to payin!
true and well said!!! @ Fod: ok! you too talk. oya make we go na |
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conscience (m)
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WHO PAYS?  It is not something that should be contested. The Bible says '' a man who cannot take care of his family [woman] is worst than an infidel'' Why do you want her to pay, when you know that nothing goes for nothing............and still expect her to pay in kind ......... We are not Oyinbos and must strive to take our rightful places before the table in the presence of our women. Except we are ready to accept the saying '' Gone are the days when Men were men, and women were won by those who deserve them'' The hand and body that gives must always be on top, or abi you want her on top..........? Me, I be African man original. |
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ocho (f)
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and as an African man, you'll pay the bills right? that's what i am talking about right there |
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conscience (m)
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and as an African man, you'll pay the bills right? that's what i am talking about right there OCHO tell them, all the times we have been out, have I ever asked you to pay/contribute to the bill? I foot it always and will always do, as long as you remain my ............ |
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chillin (f)
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ocho immaa help u out rite hurr no forget to hold u own money sha! meanss d guy ain't droppin them papers e no get money ooo |
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