Why Do Singles In the US/UK Still Prefers To Go And Marry From Naija

You may be right.  But it is ma belief that the ones in Nigeria are better a say. If you have relatives in Nigeria who are trapped--you will understand what a mean.  Who wants to come over to UK or America to come and do "ashewo" for God's sake?--when you have people to feed in the villages?   When you can go downtown and get better services from transvestites in any rural city in America--not to talk of major cities.  Does it give a decent income?  There is no way the most sophisticated Nigerian prostitute can come over and  compete with a local ashi in America---even the dirtiest ones--with what?-----to service who?---fellow broke behind Nigerians?--They will just use them over here to make x-rated movies with their pets.   Abeg leave all that Italian talk ok? Na play them dey play for there.  America na #1 and the best in many things--the good, the bad and the ugly--you name it.

I went school with some call girls here with "clientele Rolodex" and I am talking of serious escort services oh, they need to get a baccalaureate degree to enrol in--not that kinds you pack in molue buses to go service Abacha them--with smelling armpits, nylon bags for overnight stays and cheap 4-strand weaves. That was how they were paying their fees.  If you see these girls? If they told you they were ashis--you will say ooooooooooooooooh noooooooooo!  I say fine oyinbo girls. Not hungry at all--for sheer living dangerously.  Na when a enter one motor see all the tools of work for her back seat I realize where a dey. ------Hey it was just a ride home from school ok? With all the drugs and violence involved over here?  A typical Nigerian can never survive that I say.  They cannot even perfect their most basic 419 skills without getting busted. Like most things with Nigerians generally around the world--they neither have the "discipline, stamina nor the liver" for such tasks. Na only mouth them sabi make. An America will look you straight in the eye and tell you to go to hell without shame. Just carry on with their business.  If you bother them too much--they shoot you to death. Gosh! I love them for that!

All you need to do is to take those boys and girls away from that environment--to have choices to empower themselves and you will see that it is not of their choice in most cases-poverty. 
Take most of those Nigerians out of that poverty stricken money for hand-back for ground socio-politico-enonomic environment and if they choose to keep the real "African values",  they would never degenerate to the ones we have here--which is "ashewo" by education and choice--not poverty. That is the difference.

Because awon Omo oraisa obinrin full abroad.

See who wants to teach his cloned fowls about true love?   My friend go get out your rusty snow eaten sledgehammer and your dry cow-hide or horse whip like your behind, and a sure await you with an "oozie"--to explode in any orifice exposed to fit the nuzzle!--I have ma pick already!

Since you are so bright,  please share your fantastic reasons why many go to Nigeria to get a spouse--since according to you it in not for your 'bad shag" histories over there.  According to you there are now "MANY REASONS"---not just a "disgraceful shag history. Who cares what they are as long as the ultimate goal is to go to Nigeria and get a spouse--which I am in support of if you missed it. Please if you have a problem with the hypothesis--take it up with the original poster who started the thread ok?

Look kiddy, --your arguments here only further demonstrate the reason why people except your kind should to home and get a "homely" spouse.  You definitely lack the basic home schooling.  I find it hard to follow the vagabonian trend of your discussions here. The milk man has been paying for your education over there a think! You need a dose of reality, since you express yourself like your head has been buried in some that "london fog/smut" over there.

You are so wired wrong! ---I can't believe a actually feel sorry enongh for you to shed a tear or two for your pitiful approach to this topic.  It is serious enough for you to stay focused.  I think you have lost it.  I can only hope you can find your way home someday!

Goodluck little bro!

Reading one of ma ol' time favority poems:

A Little Boy Lost---William Blake

As usual, what do you expect?


He he he he he he!  Don't be deceived.  Your environment can definitely change you.  Yes, it is simpler in Nigeria but why?--These people have no hope. I repeat--if you take them out of that environment--you will be surprised what they can turn into. You have already experience that with an "ex". You are young and there is more to come. Look around you, most people will rather go to Nigeria to get a spouse--that is a fact.  And according to "Professor Higgins Charcal"---there are "many reasons" which a do not really care about as long as the ultimate goal is to go home and get a spouse.  Ma preference anyday--if anyone is unhappy about it--a sure do have a cocktail laced with cyanide for a speedy departure.  No questions asked!

I repeat--any person not married withing 5 years being abroad becomes damaged good.--Including students. Married people are more focused abroad. The single ones just roam around like possessed souls looking for a final restin' place.

Yup!  When you find him, please send him over here so we can interview him ok?


Thank you Mohadana-dimka-harvest-okoroamadi-pilas-kelon!

Please contribute to the topic at least before you play referee!

At least some diseases are not contagious or terminal like the ones you carry around Nairaland--after visitin' your favorite joints in Ijawland!

Illiterate MUMU!

Yet another ENDLESS STREAM OF PRETENTIOUS BULLSHIT!!!!!!!!!!!!

Blimey. . . . . do u have any thinking faculty at all?
Excuse me. . . . You don't make sense with your Epistle to the Romans kind of comments.
How can u write so much and make no sense? 35 lines of crap. . . i will be interested to see your grades in school!!!!!!!!!

People go to Naija to marry and reh reh reh. . . . Did they actually tell u they couldn't find a spouse because they are damaged goods?
Why are u misleading the public with your animal rants and acting like a deranged hippo?
Keep your lousy opinion to yourself and stop making postulations that u cannot really support apart from your derailed uncles.

Blimey. . . . . . You need to dig your head out of your stinking ass and learn from others.
This isn't about me age but ma intelligence. I have met oldies like u with little or no intelligence.
Home schooling? You don't even know what that means if its forced down your throat because u are a classic idiot savant.
Your views are so warped u sound like a broken record already.

I have lost the appetite to continue this debate.
Whats the point in arguing with someone with the brain power of a mutt.
Maybe u should get an ice-pack and lie down.
Your case is closer to dementia than delusion.

What a minger!!!!!!!!!!!!!

so where do u stay in uk?

You need to get out ASAP.
Her parents won't budge concerning the inter-tribal schitzo.
She's being prepared for another suitor as we speak . . . Igbo peops are into this arranged marriage thingy.

On her traditional wedding day. . .  Many suitors(3-12) will be lining up and she has to pour palm-wine for her chosen one.
How would u feel if she doesn't choose you on the appointed day?
The shock might set your heart racing. . . . . 

@ Ifyalways,

That was what ma Ibo friends told me.

People line up under a shed and the bride is supposed to pour the chosen groom some wine.
Are u in any way suggesting this aint true or what are u on about?
Ask around.

@ Olorogu - run before you waste further time. If you guys were together - i would say work on her family but the pressure that will be mounted on her back home will be too strong to bear. She will leave you especially if her love is not as strong as yours.

see wahala ooooo,we are gently diverting from the topic. 
shakara simply means she is not expected to take the drink straight to the groom.shes suppossed to walk around with the drink and make the groom  little bit tensed up before she presents the drink to him afterall good things don't come so easily.
yes,am an igbo girl.
the bride parnets organize the T.wedding yes,but the groom supposedly foots the bill. _{you know am not yet married so i can't say that for sure,don't want my folks around to come pounce on me} 
the most important thing and that am sure of is this there is just ONE groom for the bride on the Traditional marriage day!

chacal who said so? 
am sure it was not me !

well,the igbo guys are not complaining so 
at least in my place,am sure of this,the bride price of every girl ranges from N36.OOK TO N56.00K at most so what are you not saying 
20,000.00 pounds  even Bill Gates wudnt pay that much.infact,what was the topic again . . . . 

you got it wrong dear,i saidjust thirty six naira 
yes so with just one hundred naira you've got for yourself three pretty brides.
welcome on board,we are expecting you ! 
its a town in ABIA state.see you soon 

no,that is it for real .
56 naira for graduates only 

Abia state dangerous for visitors 
where is safe for visitors then? 
tell me,when are you coming down?one more thing,the list before the bride price is like 10 pages A3 typing sheet  are you still game?

thats the spirit.i say thats the spirit of Abia queens suitors 
oliver is outdated now.he can't stand the force of flying rolls/wraps/bundles of  pounds any longer.
we would be needing like 3 to 4 stands for musicians,young breeds i mean,those are the only ones that can fly to grab your pounds when it comes flying nah.so for the musicians,we should be talking of :
Morrocco maduka;his renting fee is 100k for an hr
Warrior bros:renting fee 200k per hr
Orental brothers: 300k per hr

so where are we ? 

you said you are a student? Are you a non-academic student union(NASU) member

@ faketan,

Chacal? A student?
It's either you're dyslexic or hyperopic . . . .
NASU? try NASA.

@ Ifalways,

Why don't u get an office and run an agency as a wedding planner.
20k pounds for mobility? Are u shitting me?
Get serious. . . . . .Whats the exact value of marrying an Abia chic?
Surely, it cannot be more than 20k.