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@ tRroOE, You don't hang around Nigerians and u know they are lazy, wear ROC-A-WEAR gear and are homeless. I wonder what u will know if u hang around them.  Majority of the Nigerian men abroad are not dependent on anyone. If u don't believe me. . . . ask WESTERN UNION and other money transfers. Nigerians send money home on constant basis doing one project at home or another. The age group 21-27 u are talking about are a different breed. They belong to the DADDY IS BOUYANT category. Their Dads don't even want them to work so they can concentrate in school. These lads do not choose to be jobless. . . Their parents don't subscribe to their wards working to make loose change.  You cannot blame a brother for that, can u? @ Naja Haje, A full-blooded Nigerian loves the cheaper option. Considering the bills he pays in a month, he must improvise to maximise his income. Would u let your brother marry a South London chic?  Blimey . . . These girls are hood rats. Have u forgotten how Charlie Richardson disgraced South London in the last Big Brother Show? Dayyyyyyyyyum. . . . . .You gotta admit she is a classic definition of a slapper. |
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doyin13 (m)
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Chacal Come on sharrap thereNo dey diss South London you hear. . . And make you no dey lie for everybodyI know where you live and there was a time i couldn't head there without a knife in my back pocket |
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Chacal (m)
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@ Doyin13, I am not dissing South. Where do i live? Say now before ma desert eagle puts a red dot on your head like a Hindu. You need more than a knife to go to the South . . . . .Niggaz stay strapped going there. Thats about the only place in UK where u have armed robbers like the ones u see in Nollywood movies. |
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No mind Chacal. . . . .im don relocate his residence to was it NWest?  You need a vest(stab proof vests are the best selling items in that area)to walk round his area.Greater London's Compton! Seriously though,anybody who ever lived in Nigeria can't consider any part of the UK as dangerous .This place is uber-safe. |
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doyin13 (m)
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HeheeheheSouth is gritty, as is everywhere in London bruv You are forgetting East. . . North Londoners are just pretentiouslike butter don't melt in their mouth and i take South London gyal anydayno messing about na real do me i do yougod no go vex |
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toshmann (m)
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london o'boy the kind story wey de comot from that city eeh, e be like say no be de same UK i dey o and mostly from south london that side na die. but east don follow de rough o. and on new yr day i was in north london with my cousins and them kill somebody that day before daylight sef for edmonton. north london o for me, the whole london na die followed by liverpool, manchester, birmingham, leeds etc. why i love cardiff sometimes. crime is low , babes are cool, only say poverty wey dey wales pass england own |
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4 Play (m)
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@toshmann You are talking tosh London is safe,unless you are a dumb teenager in one of those gangs. . . . . . .why do people care about those kids anyway?  I heard there is a part of Manchester where life expectancy for males is 21 The worst place in the UK though is Belfast,great property market but even greater crime @Doyin13 This one you dey talk S.London gals,are you talking of marriageable quality(in relation to this topic) or what my friend once called "all those small small girls wey I dey phock?" |
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doyin13 (m)
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@Doyin13
This one you dey talk S.London gals,are you talking of marriageable quality(in relation to this topic) or what my friend once called "all those small small girls wey I dey phock?"
my guy . . . .all join |
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debosky (m)
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bad boys I fit come una side next weekend, abeg I need protection from randy London gals |
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Chacal (m)
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@ Doyin13, I shake me head for u. Damn, i can't believe u chase all those young hearts. . . .What are u? A pedo? @ Debosky, You want to come to London? Buy ruff ryder condoms if you're hoping to stay in the South. You can be jumped by female gangs, raped and bruised. P.S. Most of em are HIV+. . . . . . .  |
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almondjoy (f)
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Chacal (m)
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Re: Why Do Singles In the US/UK Still Prefers To Go And Marry From Naija
« #39 on: Today at 10:43:56 AM »
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@ Almondjoy,
You seem to be missing something here.
The born and bred here are relaxed because they have got everything going well with them. Most of em became graduates at the age of 20.
Started working on their own by 21 and making good money. There's social security, loans, credit cards and whatever to cushion the effects of hardship.
You cannot compare that to an average Nigerian with a students visa/work permit that came into the country with a Nigerian University degree that is barely recognised. He/she cannot claim any benefits, he probably graduated at the age of 27 in Nigeria so he is a tad more matured than the born n bred contemporaries. Ma point is. . . .If u have got everything, u don't hustle much. This must not be taken as laziness. The born n bred have nuthing to worry about. . . . .they are not thinking about expired visas/accomodation/joblessness. All they have to do is turn up in a job centre and get a job.
@ tRoOE,
What kind of Nigerian guys do u meet? Shopping, clubbing and sex?
Name me any country where people don't club, shop and shag. Nigeria is not an exception. You find these things everywhere.
It's a bit unfair to have generalised that Nigerians abroad are idiots and useless.Nigerian guys here ain't useless. . . . they are only looking out for themselves.
No one wants to get caught in the plague
I think you are missing something here oooooooooooooooh! You can never, I repeat NEVER compare the work ethic of most 1st generation Nigerians to that of born and bred Nigerian broad. I read your posts and you said you got over there at 19. You are not one of those! The topic is which would you prefer? If it came to marriage. I repeat--DO NOT LEAVE HOME WITHOUT IT! For very obvious reasons. The educational drive and work ethic simple! The fact that things are made easier for second generation Nigerians make them more complacent and trifling. I would prefer a typical Nigerian dude from Nigeria for marriage before I settle for one that has been here for like 10 years. In cases like yours,--transitionists like you are susceptible to some serious culture shock that in the future--you feel displaced. Being neither here nor there--people in the same situation, tend to in about like 5 or 10 years depending on how old you are--have a difficult time settling down because you cannot readily make up your minds where you want to be. The typical Nigerian girl will definitely be too "bush", and the typical-Brit is too stiff! Just ma opinion. I have observed it over and over again over here in the US. I don't know what type of wiz kids over there that graduate at 20 and own their companies at 21. I have relatives over there that have their kids as born and bred--most are still at home--just refused to go to school or work! Many Nigerian families like that! Over here the same thing. So I do not really know what you are referring to in this case! It is definitely not the norm! |
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doyin13 (m)
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Debono mind am all the girls are safe. the ones you should watch out for are those ones that ask you to buy credit for them. Those Jamo types. In fact ask Islander she knows all about it. Hehehehehehehe No mind Jackal jaredey pretend say im be gentleman His girls have names like Lamuzinda, Shanikwa, Shantay. . . . |
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@ Doyin13,
You are crazy.
I don't date tramps o. . . . .You know how i grind!!!!!!!!!!!
Those types are your CAT . . . .I want travelcards, oyster card, phone credits and sometimes sanitary pads.
Shaniqwa, Chantelle, Tattiana?? Are u high on reefers.
What about Bola, Adaeze, Lolade and Tope?
@ Almondjoy,
Why are u quoting me?
Any problem? Ooops, now u have figured out how to use the quote tabs. . . .
I also realise u need to go specsavers(They are doing BUY ONE GET ONE FREE).
Blimey. . . . I never said i was 19. . . . .I said NINE.
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Islander (f)
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Debono mind am all the girls are safe. the ones you should watch out for are those ones that ask you to buy credit for them. Those Jamo types. In fact ask Islander she knows all about it. Hehehehehehehe No mind Jackal jaredey pretend say im be gentleman His girls have names like Lamuzinda, Shanikwa, Shantay. . . . haba, you had to post here and mention Islander, eh? Come let me stuff more cotton in your mouth, Islander is NOT a yardie, yo hear? Now go back to your "teachers" and let them give you some valid and accurate information about me, for once, it won't hurt, abeg!!!!!  @Jackal , No mind Doyin, reliable sources told me he was seen hustling around SOHO Square looking for some "suckie" Suckie from those Chinese pros |
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almondjoy (f)
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Re: Why Do Singles In the US/UK Still Prefers To Go And Marry From Naija
« #52 on: Today at 05:03:31 PM »
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Quote from: Chacal on Today at 10:43:56 AM
@ tRoOE,
What kind of Nigerian guys do u meet? Shopping, clubbing and sex?
Name me any country where people don't club, shop and shag. Nigeria is not an exception. You find these things everywhere.
It's a bit unfair to have generalised that Nigerians abroad are idiots and useless.
Nigerian guys here ain't useless. . . . they are only looking out for themselves.
No one wants to get caught in the plague.
Who said something about meeting them, omo I have more class than that but its just something I witness daily from this so called Nigerians aboard
Most Nigerians abroad still leaves with their parents, all they have to show is their cars and those called ghettos designers clothing like roca wear and co.
There are limits to clubbing e.t.c especially when you are planning to be responsible man and have a great future for yourself and whom u are getting married to
Most of them work get pay and blast it on shopping, partying, clothing and not think about saving.
Some of them don't even have a saving acct
They live day by day and not think about tomm
I think I agree with you. I have a lot cousins in that London and US here too. Let me tell you--what a see is not funny at all! Maybe like only 10% are somewhat brilliant. The rest---pieces! One in particular in that same London---an only son, will just sit down at home---sleep all day and escape to God knows where at night! Pimpin', drugging, hustling old ladies--only God knows. This handsome dude--sat at home for 10+ years waiting to join "arsenal" and those rubbish they do there like here in the US--waitin' for some bullshit scholarship! Arsenal never came calling of course. His father and mother tried everything--for where! He comes home with gold chain, money, clothes and all what not. When his parents asks him--his only reply is "did you see police in your house"? His sisters nko? No one is married--all over 30! 2 manage to graduate. The others say they are not interested--following oyinbo boys to pub and thrash. Now tell me who will marry these ones? |
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Chacal (m)
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@Jackal , No mind Doyin, reliable sources told me he was seen hustling around SOHO Square looking for some "suckey suckey" from those Chinsese pros . . . . .You are killing ma ribs, babes. SOHO? You have just killed Doyin13. That is his exact favourite spot in London . . . . always on the look out for cheap chinese whores that will fellate on him. @ Almondjoy, Why should i opt for a girl in Nigeria? |
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@ Doyin13,
You are crazy.
I don't date tramps o. . . . .You know how i grind!!!!!!!!!!!
Those types are your CAT . . . .I want travelcards, oyster card, phone credits and sometimes sanitary pads.
Shaniqwa, Chantelle, Tattiana?? Are u high on reefers.
What about Bola, Adaeze, Lolade and Tope?
@ Almondjoy,
Why are u quoting me?
Any problem? Ooops, now u have figured out how to use the quote tabs. . . .
I also realise u need to go specsavers(They are doing BUY ONE GET ONE FREE).
Blimey. . . . I never said i was 19. . . . .I said NINE. NINE--------infact make a dey go. No hope then! Goodluck oh! Sorry I ever quoted you! No ves abeg! Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm!  Islander--abeg over to you!  This is your turf! Peace out! |
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doyin13 (m)
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@Islander and Chacal HEHEHEHEHEuna never hear say sukie sukie dey very malleable ehthe angles they can contort to is worth the admission fee alone Oh Jackal betweenno be you i see emerge from the room of that notorious Brazilian transvestite. . . I like me some Samba ass but damn. . . |
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Islander (f)
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Doyin, man you took a whole hour to come back? , was just to hit the sack, So it's true, eh? SOHO is your favourite hangout spot? hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm. I love going to SOHO too, unfortunately for you, but fortunately for me, SOHO( south of Houston st) is one of the high end neighbourhoods with great boutiques and lovely lofts in NYC, always lucky to glimpse a Hollywood goat there, So Doyin your SOHO nah My SOHO ooo. @almond, weting? Yo garn, come baq nah, ah mis yo, bad bad |
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Chacal (m)
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@ Naja Haje, Blasted? Whatever that means. As u can see, em guys wont go to South London without knives and kevlar bullet-proofs. Its still the DIRTY SOUTH. |
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You guys no dey think am say woman wey waka leave her family and friends for naija come travel go far away land na different kind woman? Me I sabi say any woman wey dey so bold as to leave her family and home behind to go and make money abroad has to be too wise for my liking.
Sometimes I no dey blame the girls for abroad for wey dey service guys. As them don go abroad alone, them must find man to warm them up for winter. Me i no fit marry them sha because many men don warm them up tire
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This was meant to be an interesting topic but posts like this (amongst others) smacks of pure stupidity. Unfortunately, there are only a few intelligent comments on this thread. @tro-ode, How many Naija boys have u met in the UK and US that warrants the sweeping generalization? I'm not holding briefs for anyone but hanging around riff rats and wannabe "Fiddys" (which is not exclusive to only Nigerian boys based "abroad") with no ambition doesnt mean every Nigerian dude based abroad is like that. Anyone can make similar generalizing comments with regards the Nigerian ladies, but I know there are very ambitious ones (and I've met a few of them). Assuming u are right, what about the Naija boys (yeah, young chaps) based abroad I meet (and hear about) on a daily, monthly or yearly that are constantly making headway with regards their professions, the surgeons, lawyers, engineers, accountants, etc; Are they from Mali? My advice to u is change your neighbourhood or your circle of friends (or riff rats) or perhaps u are just a riff rat like them guys (last time i heard, brids of a feather flock together). As for my Etsako lady, na Uselu get u.
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Re: Why Do Singles In the US/UK Still Prefers To Go And Marry From Naija
« #52 on: Yesterday at 05:03:31 PM »
Who said something about meeting them, omo I have more class than that but its just something I witness daily from this so called Nigerians aboard
Most Nigerians abroad still leaves with their parents, all they have to show is their cars and those called ghettos designers clothing like roca wear and co.
There are limits to clubbing e.t.c especially when you are planning to be responsible man and have a great future for yourself and whom u are getting married to
Most of them work get pay and blast it on shopping, partying, clothing and not think about saving.
Some of them don't even have a saving acct
They live day by day and not think about tomm
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This was meant to be an interesting topic but posts like this (amongst others) smacks of pure stupidity. Unfortunately, there are only a few intelligent comments on this thread.
@tro-ode,
How many Naija boys have u met in the UK and US that warrants the sweeping generalization? I'm not holding briefs for anyone but hanging around riff rats and wannabe "Fiddys" (which is not exclusive to only Nigerian boys based "abroad") with no ambition doesnt mean every Nigerian dude based abroad is like that. Anyone can make similar generalizing comments with regards the Nigerian ladies, but I know there are very ambitious ones (and I've met a few of them). Assuming u are right, what about the Naija boys (yeah, young chaps) based abroad I meet (and hear about) on a daily, monthly or yearly that are constantly making headway with regards their professions, the surgeons, lawyers, engineers, accountants, etc; Are they from Mali? My advice to u is change your neighbourhood or your circle of friends (or riff rats) or perhaps u are just a riff rat like them guys (last time i heard, brids of a feather flock together).
Riff rats? Me church mind says its riff raff. . . . Now, who is the riff raff? Anyways, all i am trying to say is don't slate anyone on a forum . . . . .Its her opinion, she has a right to express em. |
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Delta007 (m)
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Charcoal, Riff Rats are subordinate Riff Raffs |
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@ Dolt-007, Why don't u just accept u goofed instead of trying to cover your shit up? I am not here to single out your mistakes but u shouldn't have slated the other poster the way u did. Charcoal? You don't want to go that lane with me. . . . . I will mail your limbs and heart to your parents.  |
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@ Dolt-007, Why don't u just accept u goofed instead of trying to cover your shit up? I am not here to single out your mistakes but u shouldn't have slated the other poster the way u did. Charcoal? You don't want to go that lane with me. . . . . I will mail your limbs and heart to your parents. Mr Charcoal, Ha. . . u aint my match; let's just leave it at that. BTW, i didnt slate anyone; definitely wasnt my intention. I just pointed out her witless premise in her sweeping generalization in this thread. Give yourself a cookie and knock yourself out! |
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tRoOE (f)
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This was meant to be an interesting topic but posts like this (amongst others) smacks of pure stupidity. Unfortunately, there are only a few intelligent comments on this thread.
@tro-ode,
How many Naija boys have u met in the UK and US that warrants the sweeping generalization? I'm not holding briefs for anyone but hanging around riff rats and wannabe "Fiddys" (which is not exclusive to only Nigerian boys based "abroad") with no ambition doesnt mean every Nigerian dude based abroad is like that. Anyone can make similar generalizing comments with regards the Nigerian ladies, but I know there are very ambitious ones (and I've met a few of them). Assuming u are right, what about the Naija boys (yeah, young chaps) based abroad I meet (and hear about) on a daily, monthly or yearly that are constantly making headway with regards their professions, the surgeons, lawyers, engineers, accountants, etc; Are they from Mali? My advice to u is change your neighbourhood or your circle of friends (or riff rats) or perhaps u are just a riff rat like them guys (last time i heard, brids of a feather flock together).
As for my Etsako lady, na Uselu get u.
Dude it's obvious you have a fish brain, I will highly advice you to check the definition of a Forum and Opinions instead of attacking other peoples view
Dudu delta oshi let me clarify something to you, the area I lives at, your parents can't not afford to buy a house there not in this lifetime, even if they sold all their properties and that little bit of change in your saving Acct you still can buy our house.
Am sorry to disappoint you oh but I don't think have got anything else to say to you, because I prefer to debate with someone mature, Who is able to share his/her view without insulting others.
Wasn’t Chacal and I debating over this issue last night, did you see him throw insult just because I disagreed with what he got to say, grow up and you are the prefect example of those asshole abroad
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[font=Garamond][size=12pt] Dude it's obvious you have a fish brain, I will highly advice you to check the definition of a Forum and Opinions instead of attacking other peoples view Yikes! You are a Tru-ode 4real. All your posts are littered with insults, insinuations and gross ignorance towards Nigerian dudes and that's not an attack? Dudu delta oshi let me clarify something to you, the area I lives at, your parents can't not afford to buy a house there not in this lifetime, even if they sold all their properties and that little bit of change in your saving Acct you still can buy our house. Haha; u have no clue who I am and u can safely conclude this? I'm not here to brag so I wont go into my financial overview with a you. However, two thingys are apparent tho; u live with your parents or guardians, which means u are still a kid or "grown up" baby, and secondly, you can't think rationally, which is obvious because your brain is still developing. My apologies for assuming u were a little bit more mature. Am sorry to disappoint you oh but I don't think have got anything else to say to you, because I prefer to debate with someone mature, Who is able to share his/her view without insulting others. Zzzzeven arseho!es have opinions and can claim to be mature your posts suggests otherwise! Wasn’t Chacal and I debating over this issue last night, did you see him throw insult just because I disagreed with what he got to say, grow up and you are the prefect example of those asshole abroad . . . You need to grow up, really! I'm out! |
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