Battling With Sin And The World As A Christian

ummm, you're welcome i guess.   why do i feel that "thank you" wasn't genuine? maybe i'm just being paranoid.

Hi chic , whats been happening? The thread's no longer as active as before.

@prettyh.wadup.dnt mind me o,ive just been there o.things v just been there,I'm still trying2 move on with my life,putting God first,trusting God and minding my own business.let me give u a break down of my lifes recent haps, i broke up wit my ex but still loved him bits afta all d shit he put me tru,met smone else but jeopordized my chances of being happy because i couldnt just make up my mind on what i wanted,or rather who i wanted.  My ex came bak wit all d stories of how he missed me and wanted 2spend d rest of his life wit me.while still confused about d whle tng but watching2 c what next would happen and nt doing anything my ex calls2say he was getting married. Meanwhile things wit d new guy seem damaged beyond repairs,guess he just couldnt get why i was 2attached,i cldnt undastand myself. Now d reality of things hit me,my ex was merely out (aldo unconsciously)2stop me from moving on wit smeone else esp knwn i broke up wit him when he didnt want me2. Its just like "if i can't have u noone can"and i guess he kind of

You'll be fine babycute but at the same time your emotional state is not an excuse to continue to treat you with kid gloves.

If a man decieves me once, shame on him
If a man decieves me twice, shame on me.

However, if your new boy loves you then he'll be back with you and IF he does decide if you want him or not and stop all these obssession for someone who does not value you as much as you make him out to be.

If he doesnt come back to you then you'll get another shot at love definitely youre young smart pretty but a little gullible, so put your foot down and decide what youre worth, its not a matter of someone being there in your life presently but who you want in your life, if you still want him (your ex as you fondly call him) then wait for him even after he is married and hope he'll divorce his wife (as they do in the soaps, ref: passions) or you can put your foot down and say come what may even if he doesnt marry again you don't want him in your life anymore.

God wont do that for you even with all the prayers of Nairalanders combined with yours, but he can strengthen you to do what you make up your mind to do.

so what ya want to do? and let the Lord step in with his help.

My words cut you deep? oh sorry but i only intended to bring home my point.

Now thats the way babycute should be talking, i mean the way you highlighted above, thats a good piece and may the Lord help you in your resolve as you go about setting your priorites aright, as you said that truly is what you need now.

Yes o, i have truly loved someone before but i guess the difference is boys and girlz attach different premium on these issue but still i know it hurts when breaking up, breaking up is never easy i know.

keep your head high, there is only one babycute and only one life to live, love hurts or no you can't afford to make a mess of that one stage play God has afforded you for nobody, and I'm sure you can do it (i mean make a success of it)

take kia 

Where are y'all, babycute, ocho, nicetohave, prettyH and all? I'll like this thread to be revived again. Its been worthwhile reading it, interesting and inspiring.