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RuuDie (m)
Tell Me : What Would You Do?
« on: February 09, 2007, 01:03 PM »

 Huh
you're in love with this girl ,  absolutely nuts about the dame! she knows, u know she likes you to; but u ain't sure how deep.
u've been pals 4 an awful long while; very close, good flows & all  - running into half a decade now and it doesn't seem likely that in the nearest future your relationship will move u a gear.

b'because of this girl u've not dated another girl since u met, talkless of having the thot - this she's also aware of!
she says she has a boyfriend, u offer to take a hike but she still wants u to stay her pal 'because she doesn't want to lose the "friendship"!

u've got this uneasy feelin that she's never going to date u 'because she's like "upper-classity"- born with a silver spoon in mouth & it's been there ever since;  & u're on the lower rung of the ladder, u dig!?

what d'u do?
hang on in there & hope 4 d better? bail out & look 4 another chic?
tell me ,  what would u do if u was caught up in this situation!
manntee (m)
Re: Tell Me : What Would You Do?
« #1 on: February 09, 2007, 02:43 PM »

heyaaaaaaaaaa
i emphatise with you i was involved in a similar case but we are going steady now .well i guess you will have to sit her down and have a heart to heart. one of the things that i have discovered ios that me assume that ladies know how we feel and ladies will tell you that they would rather you tell them, remember they are not mind readers, so if you have something on your mind ,say it and be sure she gets the right message.the most difficult person you can date i9s a friend, because :she knows all about you , she will ahve a hard time taking you seriously especially if she is privy to past escapades and lastly we tend to drift to safety, yo don't want to jeopardise a friendship that is sure for a  relationship that might scatter the whole things. i guess you just have to tell her that a ship is safe in the harbor but thats not what ships are built for.
good luck,  Smiley
PTBNaija (f)
Re: Tell Me : What Would You Do?
« #2 on: February 10, 2007, 07:07 AM »

I agree with manntee. As a girl, we might have suspicions that a guy might like us, but it's hard to be the one to make the first move. I think rejection just feels harder for a girl because guys are used to it (no offense) lol. And I think she's just confused. Like about where you two stand. Because you too in a way are giving her mixed signals by not going out with another girl and giving signs that you like her. But you don't ask her out or anything.
iice (f)
Re: Tell Me : What Would You Do?
« #3 on: February 11, 2007, 12:31 PM »

How will you know if you never ask her? 
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