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tonia4luv (f)
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When unknown girls mail or call your boyfriend, and your boyfriend doesnt let them know he has a girlfriend (so they can keep off him).
And when you complain about that, he tells you that he is doing it on the ground that he doesn't want to know anything about them,or give them room to know him.
Please is that a candid answer, or does he enjoy been sough after by girls?
Please let me know your opinion on this
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nikynike (f)
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Babe, men are like that l don't think it should amaze u by now.
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boladonas (m)
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Babe, men are like that l don't think it should amaze u by now.
Guys will always be guys and babes will be babes Men like to be toasted also I enjoy when babe calls me it tells my girlfriend that i am still in d market she is not a monopoly I ve got alternatives - someimes better ones |
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jaybaby (f)
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U can say that again  |
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montgomery (f)
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yeah, men are men, it's but expected outa them, there's no reason fer u to get bugged, they enjoy all the attention, chill
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boladonas (m)
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@ montgomery thanks 4 appreciating us @jay sweetie u know now! nothing like d "koko"  |
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1one (m)
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you know atimes you girls can be very naive, your guy is receiving calls and mails from different girls and he comes up with one over substandard excuse like that and you eat it full flesh as if it's a hot plate of indomie, probably the next time you hear him talking to them , he'll tell you he's recieving relationship counselling from an online therapist, or posssibly he's keeping tabs on the stock exchange market, wake up girl, this act might actually a cheating act in it's bud, if you still love him like i think you do, seat him down and pour your mind out, tell him you feel threatened by the calls and mails and see what happens next, a guy should make his girl feel she's the only one in the world, i'm a guy and that's how i see it,
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Busta (f)
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you know atimes you girls can be very naive, your guy is receiving calls and mails from different girls and he comes up with one over substandard excuse like that and you eat it full flesh as if it's a hot plate of indomie, probably the next time you hear him talking to them , he'll tell you he's recieving relationship counselling from an online therapist, or posssibly he's keeping tabs on the stock exchange market, wake up girl, this act might actually a cheating act in it's bud, if you still love him like i think you do, seat him down and pour your mind out, tell him you feel threatened by the calls and mails and see what happens next, a guy should make his girl feel she's the only one in the world, i'm a guy and that's how i see it,
lol, real funny well u are a guy, would u do the same and yet be able to make your girl feel like she is the only for u? @topic, girl u need to kick his ass to the curb because guys like that want to eat their cake and stil have it. If he thinks he has found some girl better than u through those calls and mails. . then he's going to dump u. why would u want to deal with that kind of situation or pretend like its kool? |
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Radiant (f)
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you know atimes you girls can be very naive, your guy is receiving calls and mails from different girls and he comes up with one over substandard excuse like that and you eat it full flesh as if it's a hot plate of indomie, probably the next time you hear him talking to them , he'll tell you he's recieving relationship counselling from an online therapist, or posssibly he's keeping tabs on the stock exchange market, wake up girl, this act might actually a cheating act in it's bud, if you still love him like i think you do, seat him down and pour your mind out, tell him you feel threatened by the calls and mails and see what happens next, a guy should make his girl feel she's the only one in the world, i'm a guy and that's how i see it,
Didn't know guys like you still exist  she is not a monopoly
I ve got alternatives - someimes better ones
lol. . same shit goes to girls as well |
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wifeypenth (f)
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sumtyms i get really mad when it happens to me, but at the end of the day gurl frend ders nuttin u cann do
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boladonas (m)
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sumtyms i get really mad when it happens to me, but at the end of the day girl frend ders nuttin u cann do
its nice babes are recognising that they arent got no options guys lets respect them more and more and keep our activities secret |
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la! (m)
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i think its fine for ur boyfrend2 get attention from other girls it a supreme ego booster which is what us guys are about,bt that don't mean he shld be all up in ur face wit that, a woman needs to feel secure around her man and baby if u aint gettin that den i think u should be d one recieving calls and mails from other guys to see watelse is out there.its 2007 don't get treated like last years news.  |
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Rogo (m)
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it remind her that you are wonder and worth a man
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domwas2 (m)
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infact, i enjoys calls from ladies, i guess all men do. that make my girl think i'm in control i notice how she talks to me whenever i receives call from a lady. . . |
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Ferlie (m)
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so? wetin be that - me unknown girls call me and my girl answers - so wetin, maybe its time for three, four, five, six, seven, eight some,
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nivea1806 (f)
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well i don't think there is any problem there if u trust ur guy well, if not then u can halla. the mail jist is that don't put ur eggs in one basket if ur not engaged to him then he is still in the market. |
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kassim2 (m)
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well,u will thank God that the girls are unknown and u ve to be, at alert, because if the girls become known than that will be another story.
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lola baloo (f)
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u'v said it all they are unknown. moreover my boyfriend not my husband
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diyobdw (f)
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*walking by and whistling*
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Boom-e (f)
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Well, i don't think its a big deal until he becomes very very overprotective of his phone and would never allow u to touch his phone. When that happens, u have every right to be worried,
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oge4real (f)
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I don't really mind.afterall you do not expect a man not to have other female friends as well.why date him in the first place if you do not trust him?
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diddy4 (m)
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my baby understands this and she aint even bothered one bit. she knows what the other girls can do is call and talk sweet but i will always be back in her bosom for my comfort. aint no one takin the place of my princess and she knows this. she even picks some of their calls and tells them to call back that i aint around. lol
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domwas2 (m)
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for my girl, i'll go for an interview when i received such call talkless of her seeing the lady in question picture on my phone. which really freaks me out - but now i'm trying calling her in order  |
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smartsoft (m)
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i expecially don't really have much female friends but my girlfriend has alotta guy who are friends, she told me something that struck my mind she said "YOU START TRUSTING ME WHEN YOU START TRUSTING YOURSELF" i'm always proud of her when they call her sometimes she tell me to pick the phone for her or she picks bodly she told someone meet my BOYFRIEND, what else do i need ? when a female friend calls or send me a text saying miss you, those word doesn't affect her.
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venice (f)
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To me it hurts, everytime he's answering the phone, and not really talking, only those short words like yes and no, i hate it, but i never really told him, even though i'm burning up insight. You see now, men like to do their things, what if i'm called by other guys, the way they go on, baby are you cheating on me, they really do go on, but if its the lady, she going to get a slab in da face. Unfair ha |
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emeka83
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what happened to real men, so the fact that your girlfriend agreed to go out with u, putting up with all your shit and imperfections are not enough self-esteem booster? Now u have to get calls from other girls to validate your manhood right, while not letting them know u have a girlfriend? I love my girl,, she validates me. i don't need any other to validate me. I mean this girl stuck around for me throughout undergraduate and working full time, and now am in medical school i need another to validate me?. girl just walk men, that guy is not a keeper. If u are all that he wants, then u should be all that he needs to validate himself. can the real guys please stand up? |
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funweez (f)
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Hey La! saw your post, eh eh, i reserve my comment oh.
Anyways i don't see why either partner in a relationship should make either feel insecured.
Communication is key, your partner should know who your friends are and vice versa, and i don't think its wise entertaining come-ons from the opposite sex when you've already got someone.
Why start what you're not planning to finish ??
You can't be having your cake and eating it at the same time lol.
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white`Nkem (f)
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girl, wake up! it's obvious you got reason to alarm!!
if it was like he said, that he doesn't want to know anything about them, then the 1st thing he should say is that he HAS a girlfriend! and is he replying the mails? why don't YOU answer his phone? tell him that this way girls will def go away. Or, if you want to know on ur own, try to get those girls' phone numbers and talk to them!
either way, he's playing around dear!
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lola baloo (f)
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some guys and babes are just so stubborn they don't mind if u already have a partner. they will tell you ''you'r not yet married to him or her'' so they will hang on. but this is when you really need each other,trust and love each other the more unless  |
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oyinboaja
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man wey no talk say him get girlfriend get hidden agenda
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prog-wiz (m)
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lol ; very funny post
ve u tried it d other way round ?
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