Can You Marry Someone Your Friend Once Dated?

If u love the person enough to consider a life-long commitment, then y not?!!

dont tell me the only reason u'll reconsider the marriage is because your friend dated the person?!, wahala

if am feeling him , why not, after all i didn't suck the same breast with the friend so what the heck ,

No

well i dont know i don't think i can do such a think dat is y i don't be dat close 2 my friendz boyfriendz or x's

Well I can't. It's  never a good idea. I will feel am caring a second fido in the presence of my friend. But the girls no problem is still the same thing.

I speak from experience. I have a girl I love and would want to marry. She loves me also. Thing is, my friend went out with her first during our youth service years. This friend then was also talking about things he did with the girl with the boys. I shagged her like this and like that kind of stuff. Now after service year,I ran into her at Abuja and we became good friends and lovers. She has a very good job and is drop-dead gorgeous.  She is hoping that we will get married but thing is, I can't. She is everything I want but each time I close  my eyes, I remember everything my friend said he did with her. Note, they were actually living together then. Funny enough, we don't discuss service year for obvious reasons. I'm uncomfortable with that. I'm still very much close to my friend, her former boyfriend. Most ladies might  think it is not a problem. Let me tell you it's a huge problem for 90% of the guys. Initially, we all pretend as if we can handle it but the truth is we can't. Understand, I didnt know things will get to the level they are now. She is a nice girl but I can't marry her maybe with her former boy friend being our best man.

Ofcourse I will leave her. I know I am not childish just that I cant handle it beyond boyfriend/ girlfriend stuff. I didnt plan to go out with her. It just happened remember.

Well, my friend plays around. it was just service year fun for him while it lasted