Is It Good For Wives To Call Their Husbands By Their Names ?

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Veracious (f)
Re: Is It Good For Wives To Call Their Husbands By Their Names ?
« #160 on: August 17, 2007, 10:19 AM »

@ Mcdow

what do you want TOH to call you when you eventually meet her,ie if God permits and if she is willing  Grin

would you prefer her call your real name or ROMANTIZE you with your name or call you pet names?   Cool
Bolarge (m)
Re: Is It Good For Wives To Call Their Husbands By Their Names ?
« #161 on: August 17, 2007, 12:04 PM »

 @Topic
 It depends on what's mutually agreed on by both parties.
ThiefOfHearts (f)
Re: Is It Good For Wives To Call Their Husbands By Their Names ?
« #162 on: August 17, 2007, 01:56 PM »

I'm quite weary of you festac people o, Mcdoe  Tongue
Veracious (f)
Re: Is It Good For Wives To Call Their Husbands By Their Names ?
« #163 on: August 17, 2007, 03:59 PM »

@ TOH

please give the brother a chance. truth is not all festac guys are pain in the butt.

@ Topic

I will not call my husband by his name.  what has happened to my sence of romance and creativity   Kiss Wink
ThiefOfHearts (f)
Re: Is It Good For Wives To Call Their Husbands By Their Names ?
« #164 on: August 17, 2007, 04:00 PM »

I assume "baba lola!!" is romantic abi?\

My mom calls my dad by his name or she shortens it and he calls her "Chief Mrs".

I think it's cute  Smiley
babyosisi (f)
Re: Is It Good For Wives To Call Their Husbands By Their Names ?
« #165 on: August 17, 2007, 04:01 PM »

just call him husband.That's not his name
Veracious (f)
Re: Is It Good For Wives To Call Their Husbands By Their Names ?
« #166 on: August 17, 2007, 04:05 PM »

@TOH

romantize it a little bit.it just might sound nice  Grin

@babyosisi

haba,why should i call him husband again when that is already what he is.

McDoe (m)
Re: Is It Good For Wives To Call Their Husbands By Their Names ?
« #167 on: August 22, 2007, 12:41 PM »

Quote from: ThiefOfHearts on August 17, 2007, 01:56 PM
I'm quite weary of you festac people o, Mcdoe  Tongue

ThiefOfHearts, See me as very different guy! Know me and you get hooked for real.
stefykarl
Re: Is It Good For Wives To Call Their Husbands By Their Names ?
« #168 on: August 22, 2007, 01:42 PM »

it depends, i don't have to wait till we are married, it starts from when we start dating and all that, guess i will prefer to give him a cute name because i will like one too, i shouldnt be calling him what everyone calls him
Macgreat (m)
Re: Is It Good For Wives To Call Their Husbands By Their Names ?
« #169 on: August 22, 2007, 03:16 PM »

The man offends the wife then she respectively disrespect him: honey are u mad infact darlin u are stupid,sweetheart u are the most dumb husband alive.
wendymanda
Re: Is It Good For Wives To Call Their Husbands By Their Names ?
« #170 on: August 23, 2007, 02:44 AM »

Quote
The man offends the wife then she respectively disrespect him: honey are u mad infact darlin u are stupid,sweetheart u are the most dumb husband alive.

If you respectfully disrespect someone does that cancel it out and make it neutral? No respect and no disrespect
McDoe (m)
Re: Is It Good For Wives To Call Their Husbands By Their Names ?
« #171 on: August 23, 2007, 10:00 AM »

Quote from: j-girl on March 29, 2007, 07:02 PM
Designplus, you've got to understand that some MEN actually know we're right and agree with us.
There is evil in the world because of the devil not because of women. Besides not all of us are seeds of Eve because as I understand it. If Eve was evil, that means everybody but Adam is evil as welllol, abi o

waoow!
iyke001
Re: Is It Good For Wives To Call Their Husbands By Their Names ?
« #172 on: August 23, 2007, 10:03 AM »

well i feel men love 2 be treated as kids n masssage their ego even in african setting of old women called their hubby by nicknames 2 boost ego
soulpatrol (f)
Re: Is It Good For Wives To Call Their Husbands By Their Names ?
« #173 on: August 23, 2007, 07:28 PM »

hmm. might as well call him "your excellency" then. i hope that does the trick. hiss!
Babykijos (f)
Re: Is It Good For Wives To Call Their Husbands By Their Names ?
« #174 on: August 28, 2007, 08:57 AM »

It is not good. to be fair, calling the husband by his name amounts to disrespect. As africans, we have our cultural heritage which must be protected.
diyobdw (f)
Re: Is It Good For Wives To Call Their Husbands By Their Names ?
« #175 on: August 28, 2007, 10:46 AM »

 Lips sealed heritage?
anyway i feel a pet name will do
esp for the kids and people who hold African heritage  so dearly Cheesy
yewa-man (m)
Re: Is It Good For Wives To Call Their Husbands By Their Names ?
« #176 on: August 28, 2007, 02:54 PM »

I guess Undecided, it all depends on them, better still they could
find pet names for themselves.
ClimieNH89
Re: Is It Good For Wives To Call Their Husbands By Their Names ?
« #177 on: August 28, 2007, 04:47 PM »

Pet names are so over-used. Ewwwwwww!

His name is what I'll call him.

"*****, come here!" - sounds so good!
$$Rhino
Re: Is It Good For Wives To Call Their Husbands By Their Names ?
« #178 on: August 29, 2007, 02:19 AM »

If my wife call me any name than my name or gimme a pet name, basically, i mean the day my wife calls me Daddy, that will be end of her seeing me, that is scary, i think it is cute when she calls me my name or calls me something like Darling, and i will be smilling while i am darling her into the bedroom Grin
soulpatrol (f)
Re: Is It Good For Wives To Call Their Husbands By Their Names ?
« #179 on: August 29, 2007, 02:44 AM »

the only time she should be calling you "big daddy" is behind the scenes. hehe. creepy, i know, but u know now! Cheesy Tongue Wink
Babykijos (f)
Re: Is It Good For Wives To Call Their Husbands By Their Names ?
« #180 on: August 29, 2007, 06:55 AM »

Quote from: $$Rhino on August 29, 2007, 02:19 AM
If my wife call me any name than my name or gimme a pet name, basically, i mean the day my wife calls me Daddy, that will be end of her seeing me, that is scary, i think it is cute when she calls me my name or calls me something like Darling, and i will be smilling while i am darling her into the bedroom Grin

Different folks, different strokes!
ThiefOfHearts (f)
Re: Is It Good For Wives To Call Their Husbands By Their Names ?
« #181 on: August 30, 2007, 04:08 PM »

calling your dude "daddy" is so perverse. Only pedophiles get off on that nonsense. Gross.
soulpatrol (f)
Re: Is It Good For Wives To Call Their Husbands By Their Names ?
« #182 on: August 30, 2007, 05:07 PM »

@TOF. getting a little sensitive there, huh? Grin u'D be surprised at the things people say in the heat of the moment. me personally, i have only 1 daddy o, and it is the only one that brought me into this world, any other is a counterfeit.  Smiley
but some people do get off calling someone daddy when they're bumping uglies.  Grin ok, i tried to say it one time, but it made me sick and i coulda shot myself. too creepy! Grin
ThiefOfHearts (f)
Re: Is It Good For Wives To Call Their Husbands By Their Names ?
« #183 on: August 30, 2007, 05:20 PM »

see even you found it creepy.


It's pedophilish jare!  Tongue
tnaidaR (f)
Re: Is It Good For Wives To Call Their Husbands By Their Names ?
« #184 on: September 01, 2007, 11:43 AM »

lolI remember this thread  Tongue
crazykid (m)
Re: Is It Good For Wives To Call Their Husbands By Their Names ?
« #185 on: September 01, 2007, 11:52 AM »

It depends on the age difference.

If you marry a many who is twice your age, you can’t call him by his name; that would be regarded as an insult. But if it’s a situation whereby the age difference is just 2-5 years, then some saucy ladies can call their hubby by his name.
acidrop (f)
Re: Is It Good For Wives To Call Their Husbands By Their Names ?
« #186 on: September 01, 2007, 11:54 AM »

y would anyone marry a man twice their age Undecided
crazykid (m)
Re: Is It Good For Wives To Call Their Husbands By Their Names ?
« #187 on: September 01, 2007, 11:57 AM »

In Igbo land, some women marry men that old enough to be their uncles.
tnaidaR (f)
Re: Is It Good For Wives To Call Their Husbands By Their Names ?
« #188 on: September 01, 2007, 12:01 PM »

Did someone say saucy? If calling you by your name means being saucy then you might have your 'sauce' pretty hot everyday! Nonsense!

Crazykid, your mentality is very embarrassing.Seen a couple of your garbage all over NL recently. Undecided
crazykid (m)
Re: Is It Good For Wives To Call Their Husbands By Their Names ?
« #189 on: September 01, 2007, 12:30 PM »

What did I do to girls on Nairaland; they keep attacking me all the time.

I go commit suicide o!  Sad
acidrop (f)
Re: Is It Good For Wives To Call Their Husbands By Their Names ?
« #190 on: September 01, 2007, 12:32 PM »

abegoooooooooooooo, no commit suicide, lol
crazykid (m)
Re: Is It Good For Wives To Call Their Husbands By Their Names ?
« #191 on: September 01, 2007, 12:38 PM »

Ok I don hear you.

I've changed my mind  Wink
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