|
Veracious (f)
|
@ Mcdow what do you want TOH to call you when you eventually meet her,ie if God permits and if she is willing would you prefer her call your real name or ROMANTIZE you with your name or call you pet names? 
|
|
|
|
|
|
Bolarge (m)
|
@Topic It depends on what's mutually agreed on by both parties.
|
|
|
|
|
|
ThiefOfHearts (f)
|
I'm quite weary of you festac people o, Mcdoe 
|
|
|
|
|
|
Veracious (f)
|
@ TOH please give the brother a chance. truth is not all festac guys are pain in the butt. @ Topic I will not call my husband by his name. what has happened to my sence of romance and creativity 
|
|
|
|
|
|
ThiefOfHearts (f)
|
I assume "baba lola!!" is romantic abi?\ My mom calls my dad by his name or she shortens it and he calls her "Chief Mrs". I think it's cute 
|
|
|
|
|
|
babyosisi (f)
|
just call him husband.That's not his name
|
|
|
|
|
|
Veracious (f)
|
@TOH romantize it a little bit.it just might sound nice  @babyosisi haba,why should i call him husband again when that is already what he is.
|
|
|
|
|
|
McDoe (m)
|
I'm quite weary of you festac people o, Mcdoe  ThiefOfHearts, See me as very different guy! Know me and you get hooked for real.
|
|
|
|
|
|
stefykarl
|
it depends, i don't have to wait till we are married, it starts from when we start dating and all that, guess i will prefer to give him a cute name because i will like one too, i shouldnt be calling him what everyone calls him
|
|
|
|
|
|
Macgreat (m)
|
The man offends the wife then she respectively disrespect him: honey are u mad infact darlin u are stupid,sweetheart u are the most dumb husband alive.
|
|
|
|
|
|
wendymanda
|
The man offends the wife then she respectively disrespect him: honey are u mad infact darlin u are stupid,sweetheart u are the most dumb husband alive. If you respectfully disrespect someone does that cancel it out and make it neutral? No respect and no disrespect
|
|
|
|
|
|
McDoe (m)
|
Designplus, you've got to understand that some MEN actually know we're right and agree with us. There is evil in the world because of the devil not because of women. Besides not all of us are seeds of Eve because as I understand it. If Eve was evil, that means everybody but Adam is evil as welllol, abi o
waoow!
|
|
|
|
|
|
iyke001
|
well i feel men love 2 be treated as kids n masssage their ego even in african setting of old women called their hubby by nicknames 2 boost ego
|
|
|
|
|
|
soulpatrol (f)
|
hmm. might as well call him "your excellency" then. i hope that does the trick. hiss!
|
|
|
|
|
|
Babykijos (f)
|
It is not good. to be fair, calling the husband by his name amounts to disrespect. As africans, we have our cultural heritage which must be protected.
|
|
|
|
|
|
diyobdw (f)
|
 heritage? anyway i feel a pet name will do esp for the kids and people who hold African heritage so dearly 
|
|
|
|
|
|
yewa-man (m)
|
I guess  , it all depends on them, better still they could find pet names for themselves.
|
|
|
|
|
|
ClimieNH89
|
Pet names are so over-used. Ewwwwwww!
His name is what I'll call him.
"*****, come here!" - sounds so good!
|
|
|
|
|
|
$$Rhino
|
If my wife call me any name than my name or gimme a pet name, basically, i mean the day my wife calls me Daddy, that will be end of her seeing me, that is scary, i think it is cute when she calls me my name or calls me something like Darling, and i will be smilling while i am darling her into the bedroom 
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Babykijos (f)
|
If my wife call me any name than my name or gimme a pet name, basically, i mean the day my wife calls me Daddy, that will be end of her seeing me, that is scary, i think it is cute when she calls me my name or calls me something like Darling, and i will be smilling while i am darling her into the bedroom  Different folks, different strokes!
|
|
|
|
|
|
ThiefOfHearts (f)
|
calling your dude "daddy" is so perverse. Only pedophiles get off on that nonsense. Gross.
|
|
|
|
|
|
soulpatrol (f)
|
@TOF. getting a little sensitive there, huh?  u'D be surprised at the things people say in the heat of the moment. me personally, i have only 1 daddy o, and it is the only one that brought me into this world, any other is a counterfeit.  but some people do get off calling someone daddy when they're bumping uglies.  ok, i tried to say it one time, but it made me sick and i coulda shot myself. too creepy! 
|
|
|
|
|
|
ThiefOfHearts (f)
|
see even you found it creepy. It's pedophilish jare! 
|
|
|
|
|
|
tnaidaR (f)
|
lolI remember this thread 
|
|
|
|
|
|
crazykid (m)
|
It depends on the age difference.
If you marry a many who is twice your age, you can’t call him by his name; that would be regarded as an insult. But if it’s a situation whereby the age difference is just 2-5 years, then some saucy ladies can call their hubby by his name.
|
|
|
|
|
|
acidrop (f)
|
y would anyone marry a man twice their age 
|
|
|
|
|
|
crazykid (m)
|
In Igbo land, some women marry men that old enough to be their uncles.
|
|
|
|
|
|
tnaidaR (f)
|
Did someone say saucy? If calling you by your name means being saucy then you might have your 'sauce' pretty hot everyday! Nonsense! Crazykid, your mentality is very embarrassing.Seen a couple of your garbage all over NL recently. 
|
|
|
|
|
|
crazykid (m)
|
What did I do to girls on Nairaland; they keep attacking me all the time. I go commit suicide o! 
|
|
|
|
|
|
acidrop (f)
|
abegoooooooooooooo, no commit suicide, lol
|
|
|
|
|
|
crazykid (m)
|
Ok I don hear you. I've changed my mind 
|
|
|
|
|
|