Is It Good For Wives To Call Their Husbands By Their Names ?

No way. That you know is not possible.

How can I curse my own babe.

I was referring to those who are talking rubbish about pet name. I am rather supporting u .

Ori okpe means all correct. How are you today.

My yoruba friend told me that it means all correct or ur are correct.

I am fine too. Thank you
Work?

I'll rather say: "We take the useful and do away with the useless"

Just like what you do with the bible!

After all we are in a man's world! 

For what it's worth i want to drop my own two kobo in this gist.
When i am toasting a girl friends she calls me by name.
When she gree and we start going out she still calls me by my name
When the thing becomes very sweet and we swear before the whole world that we will forever cherish and love each other she's supposed to stop calling me my name?

I'm not really sure i get the logic behind this.

For sure different strokes for different folks n all but if she no call me something when we dey do boyfriend-girlfriend then why should she start when we're on a more serious and open level in our relationship???

Oh by the way aint nuthin wrong with pet names. I happen to like em a lot. U gotta do what works for you and your wife. You're the ones facing the storms and know how u r getting through em together.
Forget all this eye-service kind of respect. If u want to marry some village girl that you're going to lord it over then by all means do so and get her to call you "His Royal highness, the owner of my life and children". If that works for your ego go ahead.

But if you're living in d 21st century, where you and your wife gotta have each others back 100% then there's gotta be mututal respect.
Doesn't mean it's wrong for her to call you what i wrote in quotes, just means you also have to refer to her as "Her Excellency, the great support of my life" or somethin like that 
Shikena

@ lawuyi. . . spot on

We are talking about mutual living here.

A real woman respects her husband but should not fear him because he is her friend.
the man is the head of the house but not the taskmaster who should be feared. It is clear that men have ego but real women know how to handle it while remaining friends.

Call me by my name. I will call you your own. After all it is my name.

If you have special one for me because I am your husband, i will not reject it.

Why soul? Why should it?

Do I actually have a rule or regulation?

What is ur own Opinion?

@awarun: We say these things without really taking into consideration our lifestyles(culture). Are u saying that a woman should look at her husband straight in the eyes and arrogantly call him by name. Why don't we allow children to also call their popsies by name just because we are rights agitators? Honestly, calling a husband by his 'raw' name without adding some sweetness to the name smacks of disrespect. We all know these things and should therefore not lie about them.

You cannot be far from the truth. mess western civilization!

Never!

You ain't scream enough! For all I care, women must respect men. It is only then that power could shift.

osisi knows 

let's just say typical Nigerians are not my forte.

did I say that they only exist IN Nigeria?

Some still travel and carry their ignorant disease along with them unfortunately.

No mind am. This thing na allover. infact, it is the trend it was taking that made some rights activists to come out
with they now call ''gender equality''.