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rachiwise (f)
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@McDoe
Abeg,what is really the fuss about this name thing??? i think there is more to it than we know.
Please,spare us oo,let your wife(or future wife),call u watever u want her to,we don't give a hoot,Abeg !!!
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McDoe (m)
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That's the last thing I'll do on this earth, call by hubby baba supo or brother sule?  over my dead body, even if he is twenty years my senior . The respect will always be there for him, no matter what name I choose to call him. Actually, I have several pet names for my hubby  , bedroom own is different, telephone own is another one and also another and special one for public. By the time you start callg your man brother or baba sule, that means the cordiality that's suppose to be there will be reduced. So, call him by his name or give him nice and personal pet names not all these common ones and enjoy the bliss. I would like to hear the bedroom and telephone names. One could learn something from them
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Nwaka77 (f)
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I don't see why people are fussing about this name thing. Why does society have to dictate what a wife should call her husband? If she wants to call him by his name then so be it. If she wants to call him romantic pet names, then so be it. Is it by force? Na wa for SOME Nigerian marraiges! It seems like it is slavery, with the husband as the slave master and the wife as the slave. No wonder Nigeria is still a mess even though we have been blessed with so many resources. It is this backward mentality that is killing us all in the name of culture! I weak. 
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chika98
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I don't see why people are fussing about this name thing. Why does society have to dictate what a wife should call her husband? If she wants to call him by his name then so be it. If she wants to call him romantic pet names, then so be it. Is it by force? Na wa for SOME Nigerian marraiges! It seems like it is slavery, with the husband as the slave master and the wife as the slave. No wonder Nigeria is still a mess even though we have been blessed with so many resources. It is this backward mentality that is killing us all in the name of culture! I weak.  I swear some people on this site are suffering all in name of marriage! Na wa oh. Some of the questions you guys come up with makes me wonder what kind of marriage y'all are in??? 
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ibkaye (f)
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huh? I don't think it is direspectful at all
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jennykadry (f)
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i only call him his name when im angry,
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ayomifull (f)
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I call my husband his name because i am quite comforatble with it and his name is so sweet and special that i'm just happy calling it and of course its so unique (havent heard any other person called by it, may be somewhere sha)
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holythug (m)
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wats d BIG deal
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