Nigerian Men & African-American Women

@ Jess
stop hating. where are u from?

Na waooo see as akada woman just the hate Nigerian men


I'm so proud to be Nigerian and would never trade it for the world

@ Jess
I think u are racist. you shld be banned from this site. get yourself educated. i am sorry for your parents for not training you properly. 

@ blue,
that was a funny comment.

point of correction. i don't hate anyone either you're AA, Chinese whatever. i love them all.

I have said enough for today. am off to bed.

@sista

Twinkle asked whether jess was racist, address this to her.  What I said was that trini hated us. If
you read what trini has written, you will see this first hand.

I don't have a problem with anyone taking issues with Nigerians - we are not perfect just as no one
else is.  Nigerians on this thread have said negative things about others just as others have about
Nigerians, but it has not reached the level of out right hatred as is the case with trini.

Trini is not spreading her dislike or opinion, she is spreading hatred and that is what I detest. I continue
to say if she hates us that much, she should get out of our midst.

@ Bluenubian

Hey Blue, long time no see, How are you?


I agree with you Blue, she is generalizing all Nigerian men, that in itself though is not racist. Do you know what racist people have done to an entire group of people they hate or do not like for whatever reason?

What she said is based on ignorance fueled by hurt. Didn't you see what she said about the experiences she has had with Nigerian men, what her firends experiences were. She is just hurt for her friends and a little disappointed. Someday she will see that all Nigerian men are not terrible but until then she will continue to be hurt and to falsely warn people but that in itself does make her a racist.




If you read the thread from the beginning a woman was talking about her relationship with a Nigerian man, the woman is not Nigerian. Trini was responding to someone else about how Nigerian men treat women. She was warning the woman she was talking to, not trying to warn Nigerian women.

na waaa ooo! i dey miss out oooo! when superman was sayin earlierun when i joined this forum there are a lot of jealousy against we nigerians people yes people think im talkin in my dream! ha oh well superman is watching with his eagle eye!

but i must say i smell ghana must go attitude right here and shuld u not beleive me trin-girl must be a ghanaian! she only claimed to be what she is so she can infiltrate the thread so easy! very clever human being.

but hey hey this superman hate the idea of some people calling for some members to be banned! shit thats not good! its unprofessional for real! it like telling a referee in a football match to give out a red card to your oponent not good at all! by allowing these people in here will provide a chance for us to study the haters mind across the globe so emm to those it may concern! dnt yall think! blue nubain ha i dig your style u know ha

There was this quote by some philosopher i saw in the papers yesterday

" There are only two things that are infinite: the universe and human stupidity and i am not sure of the former"

Reading all the hateful things you're saying about africans especially Nigerians and to think you're an american and supposedly enlightened I am amazed at the utter rubbish you're subsitituting for wisdom, it's really appalling that people like you still stalk the earth claiming education. It's opinions like this that made Hitler eliminate millions of Jews.

Now i know what that guy meant by human stupidity is infinite

@ chinani


Here is the definition of a  racist:


Entry Word: racist
Function: noun
Text: a person who believes that one race should control all others <after the passage of the 13th Amendment to the Constitution, racists still used violence and intimidation to prevent African-Americans from enjoying their new constitutional rights> -- see SUPREMACIST

Just in case you want to know what a supremacist is:


Entry Word: supremacist
Function: noun
Text: a person who believes that one race should control all others <white supremacists were arrested for painting racial slurs on a church>
Synonyms racialist, racist
Related Words segregationist; bigot


So you see, Trini is not participating in any of these things, she is just running her mouth out of dissapointment and hurt that some Nigerian men have caused.

A racist has power, the power to bring people down because he feels his people are superior. So far history has shown that only white people have participated in racist acts. If it was not for them the word Racist would not exist.



A racist statement would suggest that she feels her people should be superior to your people and rule over you.


A hateful statement to me is when someone tells you straight up they hate you or show you they hate you and even then they could be saying they hate you on impulse. How many times has someone said I hate you but wanted to take it back when they realized how strong the word hate is. The only way you would know they were not being impulsive is to judge by their acts, how they show that they hate you. If I hate something, or come close to hating, I stay away from that individual. It takes a lot for me to hate anyone so I can not imagince hating.

No one has directed me to the hateful or so called racist statements Trini has said, please show me?

@ DAFMAN~~~~~~ IF YOU DON'T KNOW WHO SAID THAT QUOTE WHY USE IT? FYI- IT WAS USED BY ALBERT EINSTEIN AND YES HE WAS A PHILOSOPHER BUT WAS MOSTLY KNOW FOR PHYSICS. ALL I HAVE TO SAY TO YOU IS READ, READ, READ,  I PROMOTE EDUCATION BUT IT'S UP TO THE READER TO WANT TO LEARN FROM ME.

@ TESHAS~~~~` LEAVE THE GUY!!!! IF YOU DON'T YOU WILL FIND YOURSELF OVERCOME WITH STRESS AND ANXIETY. TRUST ME, I KNOW. I AM A PSYCHOTHERAPIST AND I HAVE MANY PATIENTS WHOM I COUNSEL BECAUSE THERE NIGERIAN HUSBANDS ARE ABUSING THEM.  MENTAL ABUSE IS WORSE THAN PHYSICAL VITUPERATION!!!!!

@EVERYONE~~~~~~ONLY WHITES CAN BE RACIST, ALL OTHERS PREJUDICE. WHY? BECAUSE WHITES HAVE THIS CLOUDED VIEW THAT THEY ARE THE SUPERIOR ONE!!! WE ALL HAVE CERTAIN PREJUDICES ABOUT SOMETHING OR SOMEONE. WHY? BECAUSE IT'S COMMON HUMAN BEHAVIOR

Twinkledew,

You're obviously a caucasian. Not all women want to date Nigerian, what nonsense, maybe some sex starved white women who think all black men are well hung and good in bed. 

We see it all the time here.  Docile white chicks hanging on to these worthless black men that a real sister would not even give the time of day because they are not worth it.

Easy white girls, black men who love weak women will always go for a someone like you,   you will be happpy.

and I do not hate Nigerians.  I wish we could learn to separate issues from emotions.  Although that may be difficult, since we have many emotional issues. 

Witty Girl