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lapping1
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Why Do Some Girls Think Guys Are Fools? Or Am I Wrong? Please Let Me Know
Girls like eating their cakes and having it,which is not possible,there's this girl i met in my finals,she was so nice to me,i wanted to date her,because i was tired of my relationship then because my girlfriend used to get angry easily and nag about things which was frustrating me seriously then,so i was moving towards her then,every day and night,always with her,buying things for her and her siblings.she told me sh 've one boyfriend abroad,her first and only lovei said ok,that she's not ready to leave the relationship,i just took it that i can manage it,by then,we'd been kissing and nothing more,i even bought a phone for her,because i like her.
she now started misbehaving,not giving me private time anymore,whenever i go to her house,she doesnt give me private discussing which was getting at me,went through her calls now noticed she's been befriending one gu,as in just friends but getting closer to that guy,so i was pissed.i just collected my phone back someone because she not even using the phone to call me anymore but texting and calling the new friend which she confirmed.i just told her i want to use the phone that i'll bring it next day.which i'd taking my mind off her.Just couldn't believe what i went through because of the phone i collected,she called me and started abusing me,giving me time to bring it,even i felt bad about it,and wanted to give her back,that she should come for it because my car had problem then,but she said never.i must bring it.hours later,she started abusing me,texting insultive words to me for over 2hrs.i was really pissed so i just sent her a text not to disturb me again.that atleast she's never good to me in any way. i then appreciate my girlfriend that she's not that bad.
months later she just texted me back,that she just want to apologised for her behavior that period,so i travell down to see her,she had fed her family wrong things about me,so i just talked to her sisters and they all apologised.
Now she's now more relaxed.i know probably she needs backup for her overs boyfriend.that's where i come in.
i know asked her what she really wants,that i still like her very much and am no fool.i gave her the phone back because i just threw it somewhere since then,she said a relationship but it will not involve sex,i never made love to her before.but i wil be nice to her and take care of her.
i know went back home so am a fool?i just gave her some treat and travelled back .i'd not called her since then.and she didnt call back.all the time i went to see her.i was paying her bills ,which i can do for my friend.please am i being fair to myself by leaving her,or i should just make her pay for wasting my time.wish i can get a good,pretty and house wife material and a yoruba girl that will love me for who i am.because am nobody.
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Seun (m)
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Hmmm. I can't tell you what to do, but it's good that you haven't left your girlfriend for this girl.
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FactorChic (f)
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you're a nobody Why Do Some Girls Think Guys Are Fools? Or Am I Wrong? Please Let Me Know
Girls like eating their cakes and having it,which is not possible,there's this girl i met in my finals,she was so nice to me,i wanted to date her,because i was tired of my relationship then because my girlfriend used to get angry easily and nag about things which was frustrating me seriously then,so i was moving towards her then,every day and night,always with her,buying things for her and her siblings.she told me sh 've one boyfriend abroad,her first and only lovei said ok,that she's not ready to leave the relationship,i just took it that i can manage it,by then,we'd been kissing and nothing more,i even bought a phone for her,because i like her.
she now started misbehaving,not giving me private time anymore,whenever i go to her house,she doesnt give me private discussing which was getting at me,went through her calls now noticed she's been befriending one gu,as in just friends but getting closer to that guy,so i was pissed.i just collected my phone back someone because she not even using the phone to call me anymore but texting and calling the new friend which she confirmed.i just told her i want to use the phone that i'll bring it next day.which i'd taking my mind off her.Just couldn't believe what i went through because of the phone i collected,she called me and started abusing me,giving me time to bring it,even i felt bad about it,and wanted to give her back,that she should come for it because my car had problem then,but she said never.i must bring it.hours later,she started abusing me,texting insultive words to me for over 2hrs.i was really pissed so i just sent her a text not to disturb me again.that atleast she's never good to me in any way. i then appreciate my girlfriend that she's not that bad.
months later she just texted me back,that she just want to apologised for her behavior that period,so i travell down to see her,she had fed her family wrong things about me,so i just talked to her sisters and they all apologised.
Now she's now more relaxed.i know probably she needs backup for her overs boyfriend.that's where i come in.
i know asked her what she really wants,that i still like her very much and am no fool.i gave her the phone back because i just threw it somewhere since then,she said a relationship but it will not involve sex,i never made love to her before.but i wil be nice to her and take care of her.
i know went back home so am a fool?i just gave her some treat and travelled back .i'd not called her since then.and she didnt call back.all the time i went to see her.i was paying her bills ,which i can do for my friend.please am i being fair to myself by leaving her,or i should just make her pay for wasting my time.wish i can get a good,pretty and house wife material and a yoruba girl that will love me for who i am.because am nobody.
I agree with u being a nobody. I mean look at what u typed "i was really pissed so i just sent her a text not to disturb me again.that atleast she's never good to me in any way. i then appreciate my girlfriend that she's not that bad" That was just stupid  I pity ur girlfriend because another girl gave u attention, you felt your girlfriend wasn't good enough now u're not getting the attention you want, you now think you girl friend is not bad, if I was ur girl friend ( never) and I fould out about what you did, i wont hesitate to dump you! I'm sure, if another girl comes around and gives u that attention again, u'll start finsing somthing faulty about ur girlfriend she didnt give you attention, so you collected you phone, Lord knows you don't need the phone that was juvenile na you get problem here, from the way you put the story together, u seem arrogant na which kain phone you buy wey you dey collect back, cheap one ehn SHIT! |
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crazykid (m)
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You were the one that brought yourself this unnecessary problem.
you said it that she told you she already has a boy friend so what were you still doing with her?
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davidylan (m)
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leave the phone with her. you bought it, whether she decides to cheat on you or not, that's forgotten part of history. view the phone as bad debt.
Back to real issues: you cheated on ur girlfriend eh and u are complaining that another girl is cheating on you? do you see ur own hypocrisy?
Leave the girl and stick to ur girlfriend, heaven knows you don't deserve her!
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finemocha (f)
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lolololololololololol  i just collected my phone back lololololo now gurls imagine if we were able to collect sex back from our boyfreinds or husbands, or better collect years and give back fat from child birth, wouldnt that be bliss darling darling, i know its hard but please leave her alone. look whether u have sex ornot that does nto make u a fool, don't listen to ur guy freinds ok. but she is using u, and u seem like u might deserve somethig better. reme ber love should always be fair and she is not being fair to u, maybe the same way u are nto being fair to ur girlfriend (hmm think about that) but i wish u the best |
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nkc (m)
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well leave her my guy, as for the phone, hmmm, depending on the situation, i will personally take the phone, f**k it, damn some girls need to be thought the hard way, they think they r smart, but some guys r smarter, butttttt,,,, then again (cooling down) just leave her, u just wanted to be selfish u know
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FactorChic (f)
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well leave her my guy, as for the phone, hmmm, depending on the situation, i will personally take the phone, f**k it, damn some girls need to be thought the hard way, they think they r smart, but some guys r smarter, butttttt,,,, then again (cooling down) just leave her, u just wanted to be selfish u know
lmao damn, na wa o, its obvious he bought her a cheap phone, u guys are just cheap |
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lapping1
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My dear FACTORCHIC,if you care to know,it's k750i,i never wanted to,until she started misbehaving.
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Seun (m)
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Next time, don't try to use a phone to buy a girl's affections. If you truly want to give a gift, give it and forget it!
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