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dollygurl (f)
Girls Asking Guys Out
« on: December 21, 2005, 12:43 PM »

what do u all think bout a girl asking a guy out..........how would u guys feel or do u think its ok......and girls would u have the courage to do that
cushman (m)
Re: Girls Asking Guys Out
« #1 on: December 21, 2005, 01:16 PM »

I don't see anything wrong in that though some guys might look down on the girl and most girls don't have the courage to make the first move. But thank God girls are wising up today... they say out their minds when it comes to such.
Z4M4eva (f)
Re: Girls Asking Guys Out
« #2 on: December 21, 2005, 01:56 PM »

I personally do not see anything wrong in a girl asking a guy out , as well, what if the guy is shy or something?, and the guy cannot go up to the girl and ask her out,and they both happen to like each other, what will happen then?Actually there are some guys out there that likes girls that would ask a guy out, because she is confident, and they like that in a girl, it doesn't have to be the guy asking the girl out all the time, a girl can do the asking as well, but some guys would see her as if, she's some cheap whore or something, but it really is not like that, I have asked a couple of guys out and I have been asked out by some guys, I know girls that would ask a guy out if they like him, not wait for him to do the asking  as if... anyway sha that's my opinion.
dollygurl (f)
Re: Girls Asking Guys Out
« #3 on: December 21, 2005, 03:21 PM »

its a good opinion...just that i never had the courage to do that...i wait for guys to come..lol
sweetnini (f)
Re: Girls Asking Guys Out
« #4 on: December 21, 2005, 05:57 PM »

i can never(for now) and i will never bring myself to ask a guy out
i'm not saying it's bad o but i think he'll not cherish u the way his supposed to
he will like she asked me out she is crazy bout me so i can do whatever i like
Z4M4eva (f)
Re: Girls Asking Guys Out
« #5 on: December 21, 2005, 06:00 PM »

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he will like she asked me out she is crazy bout me so i can do whatever i like


Not necessarily my dear Smiley
sweetnini (f)
Re: Girls Asking Guys Out
« #6 on: December 21, 2005, 06:06 PM »

thats what i think thats y i can't
or maybe i can't bring myself to  Smiley
dagaro (m)
Re: Girls Asking Guys Out
« #7 on: December 21, 2005, 06:52 PM »

Nothing bad in it, because we r in 20th centuary, very soon they will  start forcing us out.  Cool
sweetnini (f)
Re: Girls Asking Guys Out
« #8 on: December 21, 2005, 06:53 PM »

Quote from: dagaro on December 21, 2005, 06:52 PM
Nothing bad in it, because we r in 20th centuary, very soon they will start forcing us out. Cool

very funny
we'll soon start forcing u out the way u do to us abi?
Z4M4eva (f)
Re: Girls Asking Guys Out
« #9 on: December 21, 2005, 07:03 PM »

Quote from: sweetnini on December 21, 2005, 06:53 PM
very funny
we'll soon start forcing u out the way u do to us abi?

LMFAO Cheesy  Cheesy   Cheesy Abi o Roll Eyes
hot-angel (f)
Re: Girls Asking Guys Out
« #10 on: December 21, 2005, 08:30 PM »

It's perfectly okay. Naturally wonderful. There's absolutely nothing wrong with it.

Boys are stupid, they sometimes dn't get the sign that a girl likes them, they just leave the girl hanging and rubbish, i say the girl should get her ass up and talk to the arsehole.
Bilspop (m)
Re: Girls Asking Guys Out
« #11 on: December 21, 2005, 09:18 PM »

Actually, i don't see any wrong in a girl asking a guy out. Though, it is often misunderstood by some guys as they consider such girl as being cheap. As for me, i will love the girl for being herself and the confidence she had to walk up to me. I just want to advise you girls, always go for what you want. Most girls express their mind in kind, i will employ you to 'talk d talk'
Z4M4eva (f)
Re: Girls Asking Guys Out
« #12 on: December 21, 2005, 10:03 PM »

Quote from: Bilspop on December 21, 2005, 09:18 PM
Actually, i don't see any wrong in a girl asking a guy out. Though, it is often misunderstood by some guys as they consider such girl as being cheap. As for me, i will love the girl for being herself and the confidence she had to walk up to me. I just want to advise you girls, always go for what you want. Most girls express their mind in kind, i will employ you to 'talk d talk'

True Talk Smiley
ocho (f)
Re: Girls Asking Guys Out
« #13 on: December 21, 2005, 10:24 PM »

i think it's ok for a girl to ask a guy out. Go for it if that's what you really want. Personally, i don't know if/think  i'll be able to due to personal reasons.
Seun (m)
Re: Girls Asking Guys Out
« #14 on: December 21, 2005, 10:52 PM »

See also:
- When Will Nigerian Girls Start Asking Men Out?
- Why Won't a Girl Tell a Boy That She Likes Him?

If there's a girl somewhere who likes me but can't summon the courage to ask me out, here's what she should do: write me an email for God's sake; it's almost New Year's Eve and I'm waiting! Angry
Oyinhoney (m)
Re: Girls Asking Guys Out
« #15 on: December 21, 2005, 10:53 PM »

Totally uncalled 4 i will never do it either...well..not 4 now
hot-angel (f)
Re: Girls Asking Guys Out
« #16 on: December 21, 2005, 10:55 PM »

Quote from: Seun on December 21, 2005, 10:52 PM
If there's a girl somewhere who likes me but can't summon the courage to ask me out, here's what she should do: write me an email for God's sake; it's almost New Year's Eve and I'm waiting! Angry

hehehahahahahaha buhahahaha..  Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
ocho (f)
Re: Girls Asking Guys Out
« #17 on: December 21, 2005, 11:47 PM »

@ seun. lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol  oh lord!!
Oracle (m)
Re: Girls Asking Guys Out
« #18 on: December 22, 2005, 01:06 AM »

well i don't see anything wrong
but if a girl asked me out
i wont accept immediately
prettyH (f)
Re: Girls Asking Guys Out
« #19 on: December 22, 2005, 02:39 AM »

Gosh how do u ask a guy out? Never done . Wish i cud though.
hot-angel (f)
Re: Girls Asking Guys Out
« #20 on: December 22, 2005, 03:03 AM »

Quote from: prettyH on December 22, 2005, 02:39 AM
Gosh how do u ask a guy out? Never done . Wish i cud though.

It's pretty easy hun. Just forget about "ego" and think about "your feelings".

Go to him, it's as easy as... "would like to see a movie on saturday?". Or "can i sit, or is the sit occupied".

Only an arsehole of a guy wouldn't gather 2+2 to make 4.
hot-angel (f)
Re: Girls Asking Guys Out
« #21 on: December 22, 2005, 03:28 AM »

Good one!
icingbaby (f)
Re: Girls Asking Guys Out
« #22 on: December 22, 2005, 03:55 AM »

personally i don't see any thing wrong with asking a guy out if you like him, some of my friend have doen it. just make sure the guy like you before you make a fool out of your self. But as for me i don't ask guys out. Grin Cool
onyxhawk (m)
Re: Girls Asking Guys Out
« #23 on: December 22, 2005, 05:32 AM »

Quote from: hot-angel on December 22, 2005, 03:03 AM
It's pretty easy hun. Just forget about "ego" and think about "your feelings".

Go to him, it's as easy as... "would like to see a movie on saturday?". Or "can i sit, or is the sit occupied".

Only an arsehole of a guy wouldn't gather 2+2 to make 4.

Hot-angel: Seems like you were either hurt by a guy.. or you don't like guys period. Seems like you have a lot of 'angey' comments about guys.. bad experience?
hot-angel (f)
Re: Girls Asking Guys Out
« #24 on: December 22, 2005, 06:23 AM »

Quote from: onyxhawk on December 22, 2005, 05:32 AM
Hot-angel: Seems like you were either hurt by a guy.. or you don't like guys period. Seems like you have a lot of 'angey' comments about guys.. bad experience?

*sneezes*.... I love emm... as u can see from my signature. Hurt by a guy?? Nahhh. Alot of angey for guys? I don't know. Bad experience?? Hell No.

I love my men, i just call them stupid. period. And i like calling em assholes. It's just my thing. Let it rest.
CHIMUMMY (f)
Re: Girls Asking Guys Out
« #25 on: December 22, 2005, 06:45 AM »


I don't see anything wrong in that it depends on what u want. If i see a guy i like I will surely

tell him.
Greatpeter (m)
Re: Girls Asking Guys Out
« #26 on: December 22, 2005, 01:19 PM »

I strongly believe no girl will verbally approach a man for a relationship.
But they can do that non verbally may be through their kind gesture or face or body talk.
But to open their mouths wide and tell a guy, I've not seen that courage in any girl especially in Africa.
They think the guy may take advantage of them.
vinna (f)
Re: Girls Asking Guys Out
« #27 on: December 22, 2005, 02:29 PM »

I'm basically a very friendly and playful girl, you know the type that would want to make the quiet guy/babe in the room talk (not necessarily because i'm attracted). As for literarily asking a guy out ...I CAN'T, because that will be below my personal standards. I believe its the man that woos and not vice versa (civilisation or no civilisation).

If i crazily like him, all i need do is be in his orbit and let him notice me, but it is left to him to do the wooing....... i might help him by saying yes immediately  Grin

onyxhawk (m)
Re: Girls Asking Guys Out
« #28 on: December 22, 2005, 02:58 PM »

Quote from: vinna on December 22, 2005, 02:29 PM
As for literarily asking a guy out ...I CAN'T, because that will be below my personal standards.

Below your standards.. interesting..

So guys have a problem asking girls out?

So what happens if he ignores you in his 'orbit'? Or just doesn't pick up the 'hints'?
IAH (f)
Re: Girls Asking Guys Out
« #29 on: December 22, 2005, 07:24 PM »

Quote from: hot-angel on December 22, 2005, 03:03 AM
It's pretty easy hun. Just forget about "ego" and think about "your feelings".

Go to him, it's as easy as... "would like to see a movie on saturday?". Or "can i sit, or is the sit occupied".

Only an arsehole of a guy wouldn't gather 2+2 to make 4.

HA, Can you really do this?

Quote from: onyxhawk on December 22, 2005, 02:58 PM
So what happens if he ignores you in his 'orbit'? Or just doesn't pick up the 'hints'?

Move on...another guy will pick up the 'hints'. There are many fishes in the ocean! Grin Cheesy Wink
jinny542 (m)
Re: Girls Asking Guys Out
« #30 on: December 22, 2005, 07:29 PM »

A girl can't possibly ask a guy out except he's a shy bull dog. lol
jinny542 (m)
Re: Girls Asking Guys Out
« #31 on: December 22, 2005, 07:34 PM »

Anyway if u like me hot angel just tell me because i need u. bad
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