How To Make Any Girl Like You Instantly

We've all had that special woman in our lives. You know,  the one with the sweet personality, the really nice hair and a perfect face. She dates the more "adept" guys,  but how can you get her to like you?

While men are primarily attracted to women based on their looks, a woman finds a man attractive because of his personality. A ideal man is an alpha male who's confident in himself and not afraid to take the lead and get what he wants out of life.

Ironically, what this means then is that the best way for a girl to like you is when she feels like she has EARNED you.

That's because to get a girl to like you, you should come from a mindset of high value. Never come from a position of neediness.

So here are 3 tips on how to make any girl like you starting from today
  Go to www.hot-dating-tips.blogspot.com to view the secrets.

1st step says never be friends with a woman.  Supposing she's not your type (no attraction) so you still don't become friends with her just so you can be in the boyfriend material category?

Step four says contact her after a period of not talking. . .LOL while some women pine and waste time thinking of the one who hasn't called, I get annoyed if someone does that to me, like da hell. . .move on with ya life! Like damn!

The bottom line is that a woman should never be a challenge for you. Instead you should be a challenge for her.

If a woman poses no challenge to you, are you not gonna be bored out of your skull? Is the challenge not the attraction?

The kind of "falling in love" that makes for a steady, lasting relationship takes time and depends a great deal more than initial attraction or early interactions. Still, many times a perfectly nice and attractive single person will meet someone they'd like to get to know better, someone that could be "the one," and yet the relationship doesn't bloom. Why?

When a relationship is new, both parties are in a "hover" stance. Each person is in a "deciding" mode. "Am I attracted enough to this person to risk the downside of starting a new relationship? Do we have enough in common? Can I imagine hours and years with this person? Will my friends and family like him or her?" Many times a relationship falls by the wayside during this "hover" period because the people involved are anxious and allow that anxiety to interfere with how they come across.

You have to make it through the hover phase, if a relationship is to take root. Strategies matter. Forget struggling with methods for improving abstract concepts like "self-esteem" or "confidence." To get a relationship past the hover stage you have to "fake it until you make it," because the new person you've met doesn't have the time for you to resolved all your personal issues.

The following set of articles, "Giving Love a Chance to Grow" is designed to help you during that "hover" time, to provide you with strategies to better manage anxiety so that you are attractive to the other. People are predictable in a general sense. Certain behaviors push us away, others keep us tuned in. The idea is to keep your new person attracted long enough for him or her to get to know what a wonderful and interesting person you are.

Strategies include, facial expressions, styles of conversation, dealing with fear of silence, appearance, anxiety about commitment, taking chances, leaving room for the other person to pursue you, personal resiliency, and even what you should and shouldn't reveal about your family in those early "hover" hours. Jump on in. Since there are behaviors that improve your chances, why not use them?

For other tips on love and dating visit: 7thlove.blogspot.com

all this tins wey una dey yarn,na 4 yankee e dey work. but 4 naija girls,it's a diff ball game.

 

tips ! tips! tips!
it only works for few girls, the best way to winning a girls heart is getting to know her.
even getting toknow her too well, might just be, let's be friends. so be careful.
i don't believe in tips, am just natural, yet, girls trip.
but the only one am crazy about is just too study minded that she doesn't wanna give me.
i have tried all tips, but she made me understand that non can work, until she's ready.