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Hotstepper (f)
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Babbycakes..i love ur write up..u r so hilarious..ma ribs were hurting of laughter..diz site is one heck of a placeeeee.......
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ocho (f)
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men are like switches, either OFF or ON!
that was my favourite part  really hilarious too  |
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Sassykes (f)
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I understand how you feel, too much PDA is not attractive. You do not need to stop him cold turkey, sharing a hug, french kissing and sitting on his lap, sharing a private moment, head on his shoulders are things a couple can do without having other people gag at the excessive PDA. And do not forget to be kind when you try to wean him off, do not talk to him about it anymore, show him what you would like to be doing. Anyway ciao and i hope you find something that works and you do not lose the man of your dreams.
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jen (m)
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your boyfriend likes to touch Umaybe he's trying to show you how much he loves you. maybe he's trying to tell everyone that you're his lady and he don't wants anybody to take away from him, i hope you two work it out.
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Olorididan (m)
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Uhh.. how "nice".. so young and so in love..... obviously you two are into each other... there are two types of touches here... there's "special touch touch" which is that he's simply teasing and playing with you (you know... a little erotic gaming) and then there's "...droooooooooooooling" - NOT GOOD  !. Any which way your'e obviously young.... tell you what... drop two little ones for him (or maybe not for him...  ) and then see whether he still wants to touch you in public......... when you beg him to  ! |
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2nde (m)
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What do you want the guy to do self, i don't know when we will satisfy you people, when you have a boyfriend that doesnt care about wether you are alive, you will say it's not fair, now the guy is expresssing his feelings so that everyboody would know that he is the man and he really loves you, you are complaining.
Please tell me what to do so that we can satisfy you people.
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yummy (m)
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i wanted to say the truth about this matter but u'll prolly say am blinded by ur man's charm just as u said of ur friends so am changin ma advice. the changed advice is that u should try another man, prolly som1 that would be avoidin u. then u'll be able to tell which one is better. if the guy has all a girl needs then u should be the one doing what he's doing.
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2nde (m)
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i wanted to say the truth about this matter but u'll prolly say am blinded by your man's charm just as u said of your friends so am changin ma advice. the changed advice is that u should try another man, prolly som1 that would be avoidin u. then u'll be able to tell which one is better. if the guy has all a girl needs then u should be the one doing what he's doing. I quite agree with what yummy said |
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yummy (m)
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oh men... ma head is pounding, u're in London for God's sake. is that not how everybody in Uk romance all over the streets? please get used to it soon! u're not even happy u have a man that's proud of you. some guys avoid their girl with style, we know why they do that, dn't ask us!
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bedone (m)
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I think he is so sexually attracted to you or he finds your body irresistable if you both come close. If he only does in the public then it is what he enjoys, he is very comfortable with you and can show off with you anywhere. Question: How long have you both been together?
Have you heard of reverse phsycology? Be twice more affectionate than he is to you in the public he will understand.
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adeore (f)
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to me i think there nothing bad in that, it depend on the part u don,t like so wht u need 2 do is 2 tell him d part u don't like.
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charlisco (m)
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Hi chicky, My girlfriend is worser than u, she do not like me to touch her in the public, but when it comes to she and i alone she is very adventous in love making, Infact i got to understand that it is because of her personality in her Church that is why she is avoiding me to touch her in Public. But to me I am getting tired, i cannot continue to live a romantic life of pretendance, if you continue so i pray you might not end up killing him emotionally
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Rhodalyn (f)
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if ur b/f likes touchin u in public it's obvious he jst wnts 2 show his love ma dear allow da guy 2 function |
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okewole (m)
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You must be a cute,neat and clean babe for any man to love doing dt for u ,if u are d opposite type surely the odour dt oozed out will throw him up. Hohestly,u ve to encourage him and appreciate dt hes realing showing love doing dt for u. As for me a clean shaved public with cute and neat babe will always get dt like of treatment from ma anytime we are in mood of making love most especially with the 11 shaped type of babe because i love have fun and good at it. Anybody can give me a trail  |
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kboy2z (m)
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It's a great thing i think you should appreciate that he is showing his affection and love in public for you.
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olutomiwa (m)
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girls are just simply hard to please,if u do,them go talk sey you too do,if u no do,them go still complain,na wa for una o,wot exactly do dey want?
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chiomiski (f)
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but it doesnt mean,
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de facto
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what is that? touchin you how and where? that ratshit. he should respect you. i think u should talk about it. its really embarassin 4 d girl if u know what i mean, ish. |
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oreoluwa (f)
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that is realy annoyin >:(i reali think u should tell him u don't like it that is d best.  |
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lovestinks (f)
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hey thank GOD am not the only one that don't like that, was begining to think i ve a problem.plus all my pal think something not right with me, my boyfriend does that too, in fact i nicknamed him clingy, even when he is driving,we in a resturant or we in the shops, infact each time i complain he says its because i don't want people to know we dating.which is wrong because i love him and am so so happy 2 have him, but i just think some of us girls are not WIRED that way.i know he has serious security issues because he can't stand 4 a guy 2 even look at me twice, so girl i hope thats not the issue with ur guy
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kemu_lala (f)
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what can u do when yur boyfriend likes touching u in public,
hey yall gast 2 help me out with this ish.my boyfriend iz like practiclly evrything u want in a guy wivout the things u dnt want, but hey 1 problem it seems like its when we go out 2 some public place or sumfin iz when he knows he wants 2 strt feeling all cuddly nd stuff, hav toldhim before that i dnt like it but i dnt know if he can help it or stuff but mehn it gets soo irritating when he starts.had a big fyt with him ova this before but he still doesnt get ma drift, hey guys and babes out there yall gotta help me out here.because d friends i have r blinded bout his charm nd evrything nd r like woww yu shuld be lucky that hez all ova u nd stuff, but they dnt get it, i dnt like it when ma booo touches me in public, he enjoyz it, Well dump him, I mean u say he has everything u want except one thing, that one thing is the most important thing , abi? If u don´t like to be touched in public, and he doesn´t seem to get that, then I can´t see him repcting anything else. Is ur body girl, caring doesn´t mean u have to share. |
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twigblu (f)
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well ,i agree with some of u guys she didnt say how he likes touching her so noone shuld say the guy is all wrong for her , if it's the obscene type of touch well thats bad , if its the normal couple cuddle, now thats sad!!and people lets not insult other people this na forum every body is entitled to their own opinions,and they have the right to air it, thats why its called a forum!!!!!!!!
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sandy_gurl (f)
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I guess ur B/F wants to be secured by letting evry1 knw u ar his. You know to scare away possible admirers.
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og2711 (m)
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where can i download the software to understand your post.did you say touching you in public or pubic places.I support if its the latter. |
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naija4life (f)
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well said there frank, well said. If you don't show public affection , you're in trouble, if you show, you're still in trouble, weting this girls want sef! |
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Ayd (m)
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1st thought
i think its best for him just to put his hands round you not too much sha, may u av a kind of guy that show's off his babe there are some guys like that, who want the whole world to know about the relationship, its best if u tell him whenever u guys are walkin along the road,
2nd thought
i think he is ur guy or u tryin to avoiding someone else from seeing u guys together
lol
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frankiriri (m)
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@naija4life Thanks for concurring. Its nice to know that some ladies appreciate the stress we go through. abi u no see me see trouble. Na wa o . |
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anabell (f)
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my dear if u really really love ur man that wont be a dam problem at all u will even be happy about it, maybe u love ur man but u are not in love with him if u no what i mean.
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fatliar (m)
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oh men, ma head is pounding, u're in London for God's sake. is that not how everybody in Uk romance all over the streets? please get used to it soon! u're not even happy u have a man that's proud of you. some guys avoid their girl with style, we know why they do that, dn't ask us!
i agree with u
u never told us how nd what he looks like black or white
if hes white u should know its their stupid culture
infact ur own is still small where i leave they suck each others boobs outside nd
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omot208 (f)
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i feel u, topic. i always hated all that pda stuff. i think it's about time guys knew we're not objects for them to display and show off to the world that they're fucking us. those who didnt know some girls don't like it, now u know. holding hands is sweet, smiling or winkin at me in a room full of people is charming, a light hug or peck is endearing. but slap my ass or feel me up in public and i'll slap ur face (except it's dark ). chiksy, he's obviously a touchy-feely person. they always need to touch someone around to be affectionate, esp if they feel strongly about u. what u have to do is to help him. initiate the affection yourself in subtle ways u don't find embarrassing. if it looks like he's going to grope u hold his hands in urs or intertwine ur fingers and kiss his hands so he doesnt feel rejected. keeps his hands where u can see em. lean on his shoulder a bit or let him put his arm around u so he doesnt have to put it up ur shirt. if it looks like he's going for ur boobs, move away playfully and gently, and try to shift his attention to something happening away from u. what i'm saying is try to show a little affection to him but be subtle. try not to fight over it or scold him again. smile when u're taking his hand out of ur shirt. what u have to do is be firm but diplomatic. u have a right to feel respected and don't let anyone tell u u have to accept everything a guy does to u. goodluck. |
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frankiriri (m)
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@ Omot208 Personally I don't grope in public glare though I make out in public places sha. I don't think many girls that hate being touched in public will refuse to make out in a car or in an isolated spot somewhere on the beach in the middle of the night. The possibility of being discovered heightens the trips o |
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