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smartsoft (m)
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Hello guys, i have problem with my Lover we've been into relationship almost a year now and we intend to take it a bit further, but there something i don't understand she is a virgin quite alright, which am not bother about that even more the parents are proud of me cos ain't talking about sex with ther daughter not until wedding day,
But sometimes we cuddle and kiss and do all sort of things, but what i don't understand is why i'm the one giving 100% satisfaction when it come to that, she's not reciprocating this is not first or second or third time. told her and she was like "emmmmmmmmm, Uche i'm trying anyway i'm sorry" i satisfy to an extent she woundn't allow me to stop. e.g Fingering (lol) but no sex oooooooooooooooooo !
If you my shoe what will you do ( Vice Versa)
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Seun (m)
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What exactly do you want from her that will "satisfy" you. A blow job?  |
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smartsoft (m)
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Don't be suprise she give blow job but not that exprience at least since no sex now she should know what to do when will start does fore-play ain't gonna be the one to teach abeg ! Can't think of teaching jareeeeeeee
Everybody needs satisfaction,a relationship wey satisfaction no dey, e no go last o !
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kitaun (m)
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Smart, na u dey talk like dis? U sabi teach people programming here meanwhile u no fit program your babe? Na wa o!
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smartsoft (m)
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Ye pa ! seee this j.u g.u.n.u
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hot-angel (f)
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Smart, na u dey talk like this? U sabi teach people programming here meanwhile u no fit program your babe? Na wa o!
That is funny.  ---- @ smartsoft, she gives you blow job but she doesn't know how to do it? Well then why not tell her this. You've got to work with her since she's a virgin and you guys are not planning on having sex. A year is enough time for you guys to ermm, well wat i mean is, you guys shouldnt be shy to 'talk' anymore. Tell her, give her tips, you need to explore. Get her a candy, ask her to tighten her lips when shes 'doing it'. What ever it is, tell her and stop complaining. yay to you, for not wanting to take her virginity till after marriage. My advice is that you talk to her. People can learn. |
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smartsoft (m)
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hummmm. thanks hotty !
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kitaun (m)
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Smartsoft, just be patient wiv her, program her like hotty said, explore and make sure u take her through the basics properly, making sure that she subscribes to your schl of sexuality only!
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bernoulli (m)
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@ Smartsoft:
I no blame the poor girl, If she begin satisfy you as you wish, maybe blowjobs, and showing you some techniques that is not expected from a virgin, na you go first begin doubt her virginity and maybe start asking her silly questions like "where did you learn that from"?
If you really love the babe give her time, she'll learn.
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smartsoft (m)
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thanks guys i will take to the advice cos i woun't hesitate to show the way to the door  |
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phoenixman
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virgin??? hahahaha she is a virgin but give head thats a new one. she also takes the finger. dont be surprised if she starts teaching you a thing or two very soon. |
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4 Play (m)
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@phoenixman
Proffesor of Love Making
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phoenixman
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@phoenixman
Proffesor of Love Making
when did i get that title?  |
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4 Play (m)
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@phoenixman
I see as u just dey explain the whole thing,so i come decide to award you the title
U no want the title?
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phoenixman
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i would prefer you set me up on a girl. the title can stay  |
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cute-ass (f)
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The reason why i'm so much in love with nairaland is that they always stand together to help out a brother in need. Thumbs up fellow Nairaland users,and more grease to ya elbows. Now to the topic of the day or should i say yesterday. Smartsoft i'm glad you decided to be patient with her, it actually shows you love her and i'm positive that the love will be a very helping factor. Communication is also very important, without it you guys are lost because even the most experienced lovers don't know it all. The reason being that we are all different and therfore get tickled differently, if you know what i mean. Talk to her, tell her what she's not doing right, tell her how you want it/love it, what you want. You said she's a virgin and if she hasn't been in a serious relationship before you don't expect her to have learnt it all from watching others or fantacies and stuff. Take a todler for ex. the todler sees people walk, wants to walk but when he gets on his feet, he falls. After being taught the way to do it the todler becomes perfect in walking. When you've communicated to your girlfriend in the way both of you understand, she will knock you off your feet, Rome wasn't built in a day remember  |
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smartsoft (m)
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thank you infact really greatull @cute-ass,  is your ass as cute as you are huh ? Don't mind me oo Well she is a virgin and infact i'm the first person she has ever dated and says she loves. her on phone that i will put her through to somethings, and i felt the joy in her ooo ! when i was chatting with her on phone, Thanks everybody thumbs up ! |
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cute-ass (f)
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Ehe smartsoft, now you're talking. I really have a strong feeling you guys will go a long way. Wishing you all the luck you can get, it shall be well As fo my ass, its another day's topic,,,,,,, hehehe |
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TerraCotta (m)
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Hmmmm. Cute-ass: don't know many women who would want to be compared to toddlers because of their lack of experience  I agree with you, Hot-Angel and Bernoulli about the koko of the matter though. If everything else is right, you'll work it out on the sex end. |
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Seun (m)
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Thi is one reason I'm not very eager to "disvirgin" myself. I can imagine my girlfriend posting a topic like this: "I satisfy my inexperienced boyfriend but he doesn't satisfy me"  |
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smartsoft (m)
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So what are you insuinating at huh ? telling us you still a virgin or something ?
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phoenixman
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Thi is one reason I'm not very eager to "disvirgin" myself. I can imagine my girlfriend posting a topic like this: "I satisfy my inexperienced boyfriend but he doesn't satisfy me" if i post a response to this , am sure i will be banned for all eternity hope someone else has the cajones to respond |
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hot-angel (f)
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So what are you insuinating at huh ? telling us you still a virgin or something ?
he is not insuinating. Our Admin Seun is a virgin. Just like me, and i commend him for that. |
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hot-angel (f)
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virgin??? hahahaha she is a virgin but give head thats a new one. she also takes the finger. don't be surprised if she starts teaching you a thing or two very soon. You are joking right?? Please tell me you are. Do you know what a virgin is? A virgin can give head, AND recieve head. |
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phoenixman
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crap crap and hypocrisy.
so a virgin is a virgin as long as the hymen is not broken?
dont make be laff.
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manntee (m)
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Our Admin Seun is a virgin. Just like me, and i commend him for that. Do you know what a virgin is? A virgin can give head, AND recieve head. so a virgin is a virgin as long as the hymen is not broken?
don't make be laff.so what do you call a virgin who has given and received head?
my lips are sealed!! |
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hot-angel (f)
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crap crap and hypocrisy.
so a virgin is a virgin as long as the hymen is not broken?
don't make be laff.
And you actually call me a hypocrite? You Boldly said that a girl who has "GIVEN" head, cannot be a virgin. Darl, am i missing something, or do you also smell ignorance mixed with hypocrisy?? *rollseyes* And No, My dear, it's not just the hymen, because hymen can break when a girl is very active, as in sports and all that can break the hymen. So, you see, even if the hymen is broken (or cherry pops), and the girl hasn't had "SEX". She is still a virgin. So if a girl hasn't had "sexual intercourse", In my own opinion, she's a Virgin. Now, please don't make ME laugh by telling some crap like any girl who has 'given' or 'recived' head, can't possibly be a virgin.
P.S, if there's a name for girls who has giving head, but havent had sexual intercourse, please tell me. Knowledge is power you know?? And there's nothing like too much knowledge. |
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Radiant (f)
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Could this topic be related to the case of the pregnant virgin on another thread? Rofl Funny people! |
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hot-angel (f)
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Could this topic be related to the case of the pregnant virgin on another thread? Rofl Funny people!Not when we are talking about sexual satisfaction. NO. But just so we are clear, a VIRGIN Could get PREGNANT. |
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Radiant (f)
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Who says a virgin can't get pregnant?
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phoenixman
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And you actually call me a hypocrite?
You Boldly said that a girl who has "GIVEN" head, cannot be a virgin. Darl, am i missing something, or do you also smell ignorance mixed with hypocrisy?? *rollseyes* NO!! i do not smell ignorance. what i do smell is a mouth that spew $hit like a diarrhea Azz. And No, My dear, it's not just the hymen, because hymen can break when a girl is very active, as in sports and all that can break the hymen. So, you see, even if the hymen is broken (or cherry pops), and the girl hasn't had "SEX". She is still a virgin. So if a girl hasn't had "sexual intercourse", In my own opinion, she's a Virgin. its a good thing you qualify that jackass statement by saying"in my own opinion" Now, please don't make ME laugh by telling some crap like any girl who has 'given' or 'recived' head, can't possibly be a virgin. i would be more concerned if people were laughing at my spelling. P.S, if there's a name for girls who has giving head, but havent had sexual intercourse, please tell me. Knowledge is power you know?? And there's nothing like too much knowledge.
your argument would suggest that a girl that sucks C*ck and gets eaten while not penetrated is a virgin. thats semantics. in its truest form the word "virgin" is synonymous with "sexually pure", "untouched", "innocent" and other such adjective depicting purity. by your standard a virgin can LICK AZZ .(people engage in that sexual practice too) and be declared a virgin. why? because penile penetration has not taken place. its easy to see the stupidity of such an argument. Virginity cannot be and should not be limited to the absence of penile penetration. for a person that hallow the greatness of knowledge you seem to be suffering from too little. |
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hot-angel (f)
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*laughs out really LOUD* Honey, PUH-LEASE!!!!!! Are you seriously kidding me?? As in for real?? Like you are actually not trying to be a comedian or something?? You Actually believe that if a girl has GIVEN head, as in Blow job, She's not a virgin?? Or if she has Received Head, she's not a virgin? Come on now, Come on now. . . You can say she's no longer Innocent in the sexual department, But NO Longer a VIRGIN??? Oh Heaven help me!!!!! |
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