My Friend's Wife Doesn't Like Sex

unlikely but the lady could be asexual ? Have read that there are people who don't feel sexual urges at all. But as a Christian she should not refuse her husband her body like that, ah ah

When you read/hear what some of our so called Christains do sometimes, why didn't she just become a catholic nun? Things like this makes you want to think twice when someone starts to talk that they are Christians when it comes to relationship. Now you would want to support the idea that people must be sexually compartible/compactible or know each other very well before going into such commitment. Once the guy starts to go out now that will be the begining of evils entering their marital life if they don't eventually break up.

I know a Naija couple going through exact same thing, the wife is a born again Christian and was a virgin at 26 b/4 they got married the guy just wants the marriage over now (after he has done all he knew how to do including their pastor counselling with them 3 or 4 times and no improvement) because he couldn't  reconcile any reason  he should be married and be living a celibate life, suffering blue balls and nagging or fighting over what righfully belongs to him. You start to wonder what some parents are teaching their young men and women. If you are not prepared to give marriage what it requires, then don't do it. Any marriage that is void of good sexual communication will eventually collapse it is that simple. I hope someone she listens to talks sense to her and I wish them well in their marriage. Some problems are just matter of principles and laws, it is not the devil or prayer.  There are maritals laws and principles keep them and have a vibrant marriage, break them and pay for the concequences.

Enough said about the sister, the fellow too needs to take care of his hygine for goodness nake. As for you guys that are always looking for virgins and the preserved you better be careful what you wish for. Some are just not worth it no offence to good ladies out there.