My Boyfriend Will Rather Lose Me Than Lose His Hair!

My boyfriend has a very long hair. I love him so much but the hair thing doesn't work in Nigeria. He had a family meeting and i was invited, talking about him cutting his hair and he spat out to me "I'D RATHER LOOSE U THAN TO CUT MY HAIR".What do i do?I can't do without him.

I love guys with long hair, it looks good on some of them. Why do you want it off? Is it untidy or does it not fit him? If those are the cases - you need to find a way to improve it. If not, let the boy be and try and accept him the way he is

  what a wicked , immature thing to say! how old is this your boyfriend? if a guy can say that to you then he is not that into you!
does he have the word diplomacy in his lexicon? ish! what you should have replied to that his outbust was f#$k  you! ,F#$k your bloody, lice infested hair! 




nahhhhhh! i hope you don't ever have to say that to any girl that will match you pound for pound! 

@badman
old men with long hair, old men that are don't know wat they want after life and got no decent job.

even if u don't wanna loose your hair, there are better ways to let your gurl know that u're still a baby and would love to keep your hair but not shouting at her that u'll loose her first than your hair. . .really childish if u ask me.

anyhow we cant judge the boy yet, mayb his hair is really long and untidy, the type of long hair am talkin about is just relatively high and well kept its until she explains better that we would know.

cut it when he is sleeping- all he would do is get pissed off, i know i'll do it

i suppose that the hair is dada hair.
She met him with the hair .
And two what did she say at the family meeting that made him tell her to shut up.
She if she was not in support of him should have not said anything at all.

stand by your man .

sorry girlie your guy must be samson and you re delilah maybe he don't want to loose his powers.if that is what he really want leave him and let him be.ciao

This is why I am not going to get married.  How can a woman ask me to choose between my hair and her?  So, because she's my girlfriend, she must now tell me how to dress?  No way!  Because freedom is my religion.

Awww! I really understand how she feels. She loves him with the long hair cos she met him like that but she cares about his future(Cos she wants to marry him).Honestly, no matter how beautiful the hair is, you can never get a decent job with a hair on in naija. And i also think the family cares as well by talking to him. By the look of things, i uess this guy is BROKE thanks to his hair.Is he comfortable being broke?If yes then i guess u give him money so STOP IT NOW.The hair must go off or u move on with a guy with skin decent cut and a good job

If you love him as you say then forget about the hair.
Most guys look handsome on long hairs; maybe he loves the hair so much.
What you should be concentrated on is about how both of you will produce something meaningful in your relationship not how long or short his hair is.

It is immature to ask him o choose between you and his hair in the first place.  Sign of an immature daughter.

he's not worth keeping, NEXT!

how dare he embarass you in front of his family leave his ass alone  if he is not wlling to make small changes that will make you happy what is the point of the relationship

LOOk

your boyfriend is not a bad person, he just likes his hair.  he isnt in love with u for goodness sakes, dotn take it personally but when he loves u he will be more willing to listen to what u have to say.  so relax he still has a lot of growing up to do.  so its up to u to decide if u want to stick around and see how long it takes him to mature.