Nigerian Men And Oral Sex

@ omoge, lol, thanks again, I really did appreciate your words

thank you beautygyal

we sef don sabi say una no be Nigeria women. Nigeria women get respect pass to dey go around dey find man to suck toto. na toto sucking be the major problem wey dey una life? abi una dey think say na toto the guys come suck for yankee

abeg comot for road make man see road, see better omoge them

yeye

@ogogoro lol

i so didn't get what justgood said

@Kmn1980, girl you can ask omoge for a translantion, omoge is one of the cool people, I know loosely translated justgood said that Nigerian woman are respected and have more important things in their life, than to go around asking a man for oral, and some other insult about us being American,
@justgood, thanks for all your input, your intellect is overwhelming
@ogogoro, lol

@ ogogoro, lol.

I m really disappointd in all those who are not sympathetic 2wads a ladies fantasy, especialy in this case

I fell strongly that a MAN that will not give a woman he truly loves a "head" is halved, simple

hygiene is just a flimsy xcuse, that can always be dealt with

  very well spoken

heavenlee,i under stand how u feel.i think sexsual issues are meant2 be discussed my couples.it has2 do with alot of undestanding. 4 me o,each time i ''strip'' my girlsss, i ask them what they want, i feel so say that most time they feel timid, at the end of the day when giving the HEAD you feel there hand all over ur head.Talk2 him it will be better, otherwise get a head out side! cheers!

well, most men like it

I am African-American too. My husband is Nigerian. Girl, he is so orally skilled. I thought at first he would never do that because of stuff I heard about his culture (lie-lie-LOL) He is always very enthusiastic about giving oral. He want it from the back, he want me to sit on his face, any which way he can get it-LOL.

(Now that I'm thinking about it so much Let me go wake him up now, )

oral is not forbiden in naija, its just that  its not universally practised. Girls don't easily do it and boys don't  do it Nigeria. So it boils down to  re-education of your partner, because its  very frustating to ask someone to do something he has never done in his life.May be in his 20's or 30's and his mind has  been sexually conditioned in  a conservative way. He has a different sexual orientation. I know  there are some Nigerian things/cultures you  cannot really grasp. I know you  have not tried to swallow fufu or garri. Or you still have a hard time eating Nigerian food, but with time you can get used to these things. You have to be patient and firm with him. NO HEAD , NO LICK. try to work it out with him.

@bgees
 your loss! 

How I would love to give a virgin an orgasm before I de-flower her. It's my favorite classic.

@topic

Nigerians in general are not ones to talk openly and freely about sex without cringing --as in on television or even normal conversations, many times they use slangs hence avoiding the cringe-factor. The culture is not--although not necessarily-- used to advocating self expression; mostly, un-inhibited self-expression through sex is viewed as "oyibo" (white) culture, in other words still new to the culture.

Olden day ibo men weren't (and still most aren't) the most affectionate creatures. I cannot speak for other cultures however. In olden times, ibo men (maybe true for other cultures) were characterized by polygamy, sometimes involving up to 6 different wives. This kind-of gave a man the opportunity to be in control of several women at the same time, thus splitting his attention, leaving room for one ultimate goal: his orgasm. This practice creates a mentality that reduces the wives to objects of pleasure and pieces of property, there for her husband whenever.

Emerging from modes of thinking smeared with chauvinistic approaches, can sometimes prove a near-impossible task. This can shed some light as to why some men shy away from giving women "the head". It however is not a direct cause, but maybe retracing back to how it used to be, might bring some insight.

To answer your question: No, there is no tenet that abolishes cunnilingus, that I've heard of. But there might be other factors causing it, and answers might not necessarily be found in the "classical conditioning" of Nigerian men, but in heredity.

but that was then and this is now, do not suck him if he wont lick you._{I went to licking-school, just felt like adding that to my resume}

Best of luck babes.

 

you better clone him fast o. Nothing under heaven will make me do that. Oral sex on a woman? yuck!