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domwas2 (m)
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I'm Sick & Tired; She Keeps Telling Me About People Who Woo Her
I'm getting sick and tired, my girlfriend keeps telling me numbers of men who woo her on the way & describing them to me everytime we meet, wats the reason, or most she tells me. Ladies is it necessary or whats in her mind?
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Man-eater (f)
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She mite be trying to show off and spite u (unconsciously) that she is so hot, and really wanted that she gets alot of toasters. that is bad and a way to intimidate u and a sort of silent warning that if u F up there are so many dying to have her.
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she just trusts u and wants to tell u about the guys bugging her. Girls do that when they like a guy alot. they tell him everything from their toasters and their best friends secrets.
this way the day she stops telling you who is after her u can know she's up to know good.
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Seun (m)
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What else do you want her to talk about when you meet? If you have a better topic than hers, just raise it!
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Bolarge (m)
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She's just tryin to give herself some self ego inflation with the aim of engendering some degree of insecurity in u, so u can step up n'do ur possible best not to lose her. An "I'm everyman's dreamgirl" impression. It's a cheap tactic many girls often adopt when their ego's losing pressure.
She be Miss World? Abeg call her to order.
Sit her down. Look her straight in d eyes n'tell her u'll have no more of dt bladderdash. Nonsense!
NB: It may also be a subtle(though crude) means of telling u there're some things u ought to be doin in the relationship dt u're not so u look inwards too and make appropriate rectifications.
Cheers.
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domwas2 (m)
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i think i loves her in some ways but i must confess she loves me more than i do. she's always against the idea of i not exposing our relationship which is true. i think she loves me that much which reminds me of a couple of days when we're having sex, she told me in the process that she'D kill me whenever she sees me having an affair  my balls almost roll off  but i pretended as if i didn't hear. she's been with me 3 days now trying to change me from that busy person i used to be anyway, i lied to her i'll be travelling today and will be back couple of weeks time, inorder to have some space to myself but she didnt take it well. . . though there's somthing i'm looking for in a lady of which i havent seen in her yet. |
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Tobiegal (f)
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 i i think she loves me that much which reminds me of a couple of days when we're having sex, she told me in the process that she'D kill me whenever she sees me having an affair my balls almost roll off but i pretended as if i didn't hear. Manchester United funnie o! n u stil wit her? doesnt sound like u like her very much n from wot u r saying u intend 2 take a break soonest, Hope u come out of this one safely! Besides, she talking all about her toaster may mean she trust u that much n wouldnt want to keep nothing from you. If u don't like it, tel her u don't like it. period!
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white`Nkem (f)
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Well it actually depends on what he puts more emphasis.
If she keeps on telling you about how the others 'operate' then she's suggesting you you should change her attitude a little. For example if she keeps on telling you how many flowers and candy she gets from the others, that means she likes that a lot; but now don't rush to get her candies but make her a surprise, because you def aren't trying too hard.
OR as a girl said before, she might just feel very close to you and she doesn't realize she's making a big mistake. In this case, she doesn't want to hurt you, just getting too much into that 'gurly' phase and talking too much. So what do you think she'll talk about? Cars? get real. ok, now we stick to men. But who? She can't talk about you, because u'r there. So she's gotta talk about the others who are around her.
OR the very least possible scenario, in case things aren't quite peachy between the two of you, or if you keep your distance being cold, she is trying to wake you up and show you that you'r not the only man on the planet. So if u don't treat her right, others def will, check out beyonce's song "irreplaceable" and u'll know what i mean.
OR she wan't you to put some fight for her! To struggle, to see that you care! To get jealous, to fight with those guys. I'm not saying it's a good attitude, but that's how she might feel. Anyway, u won't know till u ask her.
I guess the best thing you can do is tell her your mind. Just be straight and diplomatic and tell her that you'D rather talk about your future together than her admirers.
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nduleme (m)
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Hey maybe am getting something really wrong here, otherwise it appears to me that some babe is having problems defining her position in a relationship and is using the subtle threat approach to find her footing!!!!
If a girl keeps talking about guys trying to woe her then am thinking:
(i) she might be lying - pure and simply to get you on your toes and do for her what she would you do for he
(ii) she is saying the truth and wants you to appreciate her more for who she is
(iii) She is an intellectual idiot and simply can not come up with any discussion more interesting
(iv) you are worse than her intellectually and as such cannot make up a more exciting topic for discussion
so you tell me which one(s) is (are) right
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j-girl (f)
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she just trusts u and wants to tell u about the guys bugging her. Girls do that when they like a guy alot. they tell him everything from their toasters and their best friends secrets.
this way the day she stops telling you who is after her u can know she's up to know good.
I agree with this because a lot of women do that just so that you can learn to trust them. But if she's not giving you space as well and threatens to kill you if you're cheating on her, then maybe she just wants you to be more affectionate towards her and be jealous of her various toasters. If you're tired, tell her. Women may know something but they want you to use words a lot. |
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puker (m)
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Well girl ill only make my contribution when she tells you how many guys laid her. MAGA
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chistiana (f)
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I think its 50/50 here, then u tell her how many ladies u have fucked before u met her.
she's doing that to make u jealous.
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j-girl (f)
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lol - nice one chistiana
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domwas2 (m)
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christana
i remember well when she accuse me that i don't love her because i'm not a jealous type after a conversatn-must jealousy exist in a relationship?
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RuuDie (m)
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u're lucky man , don't sweat it i think she's just tryin 2 show u that she's ur & u can trust her but if u feel so irritated by it tell to cut it out - but if i was u, i'D just let her talk 'bout 'em, ask questions & u just never know what u might discover!
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bunmii (f)
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she probably want you to know that if you break up with her there are other guys for her
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jamyle (m)
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If your girl tells you about the guys that toasts her then she loves you and you should appreciate it and thank your stars for having a girlfriend that has nothing to hide ========= OR==========She might be telling you that because she wants you to feel insecure that anytime you mess up there are millions of guys waiting to have her. |
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2fine4u (f)
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well if she tells u about guys that wooed her in the past then u too tell her about girls u wooed in the past! she's not the only one that got it goin. if u keep quiet and take it all in, u will end up being hurt and she will be satisfied because she got u where she wants u. let her kno u got games too that she's not the only one u've been wit. trust me she will be busy lookin out for them b1tches instead of chattin u up about her many men.
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Busta (f)
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@topic maybe u too need to start formulating gurls that u can't get off ur back not just any gurl oh, the pretty ones. like, a friend gave ur number to genevieve and u can't seem to get her off ur back, she calls every night and day. or how u ran into rita dominic at a shopping plaza and u both exchanged numbers.  |
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LoverBwoy (m)
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o boy you are lucky o Atleast when you want to offload her, just tell her nicely ofcourse to get with one of those guys "disturbing" her Tell her she get options  |
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chistiana (f)
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u know we ladies, she was tinking u got to be jealous if u really love her, and i don't think it appears in all relationship, if u really trust her i don't think u shoul be jealous u can only be jealous when u see a man banging ur girlfriend.
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domwas2 (m)
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@topic
maybe u too need to start formulating girls that u can't get off your back
not just any girl oh, the pretty ones.
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FactorChic (f)
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I don't know why u don't like the way she's telling you, most guys like it, I feel she's just trying to be clean, she's not hiding anything from you, I thinhk you should be happy she's not hiding from you, who knows maybe one of her toasters is up to something fishy, you know she rejected him and he's trying to make her look bad in oyur presence, you wont feel bad because she told you about him already, you really don't have a good reason to complain!
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lysaa (f)
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Guy, have u sat her down to tell her how u feel about this issue? From the look of things, it seems she has the control and could do anything including telling u stuff like this to make u impasse. How could she say she'D kill u and what did u say? Talk true, u dey fear her abi? Hmmm. . u aren't married yet so put your life in order sharp sharp. . . I smell rat!  |
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domwas2 (m)
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Hi lysaa, You're the only one that ever mention an important point here, about the killing stuff during sex and i must confess, she does everything possible for me to enjoy it and lateral told me she was doing it for me to be comfortable as if she never enjoyed it as well, she loves me that much, don't ask because i don't know why but i guess there is something to her advantage which i can't really think of now. moreover, about the issue of telling me about her toasters, that i must say we've talked about many times and it always ended up "accusing me not been jealose because i didnt love her", anyway talking about jealosy i have a way of handling things because of what i've come through and seen in life. inconclusion, there're many ways we can't be together which i can't go into details now,  it breaks my heart to say that; remember life is not all about sex alone which she is good atthere's sometimes in life you do everything possible and die to meet someone and after that you discovers he/she are not the person you really thinks they are.  , i'm really sorry to say that anyway. . . thanks for your reply and many out there that posted, given me one or two tips to hang onto. Once again thanks.  |
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zigbo (f)
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i think what she's trying to say is :
"incase u don't know get to know get to understand that i am a pretty girl and don't bother messing around because if u do,u are so replaceable" nd i think this happens when she doesnt trust u.
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cute_N_hot (f)
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u know we ladies, she was tinking u got to be jealous if u really love her, and i don't think it appears in all relationship, if u really trust her i don't think u shoul be jealous u can only be jealous when u see a man banging your girlfriend.
gosh!!!! i wonder. from how high did you fall and bang your head. |
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agnesoseka
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she might be driving 2 send a message!! but if u don't like it, tell her, she wont bite i guess.
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agnesoseka
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she might be trying 2 send a message!! but if u don't like it, tell her, she wont bite i guess.
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jaybaby (f)
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Mr Admin na Waohhhh--What do u take ladies 4 self?
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