Pregnancy Before Marriage

will u like your woman to get pregnant before marriage?

No way!!! Its against my religion, it against my moral standing, its against everything i stand for.  It is also very boring because what fun is there during the first few months of your marriage.  All morning sickness.  Yack

Anyway it's against my religion and moral and i don't think the pastor will join us together if he knows am pregnant.

abeg as the spirit moves jor! 

They are, but how do we discourage unprepared teenagers from getting pregnant without the element of disgrace?

      Dont defile the marital bed. Having sexual relations with your husband or wife-to-be is a sin. Rather than be blessed, you'll end up opening the door to terrible things. God gave us that instruction because He has reserved a special blessing for us if we obey.
       Getting pregnant before marriage is like buying pieces of furniture for a house, when you've not gotten a house, and then keeping them outside pending when you get a house. By exposing them, they could be destroyed by the rain and the sun. This is exactly what happens if the man responsible absconds or denies being the father of your unborn child.
      Please, lets stop making excuses for ourselves and rather strive to do only that which is right in God's sight. It is not easy but if you think of the consequences of disobeying Him, we'll all pull through.

What if I don't really believe in religion?  Would there be a reason to care about what is "disgraceful to God"?

Hehe.  Nice attitude.  Girls should be careful about the way they grant admission into their wombs.

abi. lol
talk about reducing your chances.

There's nothing beautiful or sexy about a pregnant bride. Its bad enough your not virgin on your wedding night then u go to the altar in God's house with the product of your fornication? sacriledge!!

A girl in my uni got pregnant for her american boyfriend, he promised to marry her, but his family didnt really like her much. Now she's a single mother with a 4 year old son.

Do i have to say no man will even look at her. They don't need girls with baggage. It wont kill u to wait, and i u getting married out of love or just to procreate. Why the need to test if your plumbing is working.

I keep preaching -marry out of love. i wouldnt love my husband any less if he cud noitgive me a baby, and i don't think a man should not love his wife because she mite be barren. You could always adopt.

Marry for love and not for children. It is God that gives. and don't feel free to rub it in his face that u are fornicationg and desecrate your matrimonial bed.

who are these men that insist on pregnancy before marriage? 

that alone shows you his love is conditional. i would run for my dear life.

Marry first then make babies later

agree with you all, marriage first then babies. It's not guaranteed he's going to marry you after you've pop out kid,

Am sure you all know how guy's head work 

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         i would ve @ least 1 before marrige of max of two, because u might not know what kind of shyt your wife might ve gone through like havin series of abortion,barren so n so like that

In this day and age Pregnancy is not the worst thing that can happen to a Girl/woman.

why would anyone want to drag kids along to their honey moon? :oas for me,i will bake the cake before icing it and not the other way round. marriage first definitely.