Towards My First Relationship

  i think you just need a little bit of  self confidence and courage..... you need to over come that inferiority complex in you.....

 This same old story. walahi, guys are losing their grip on boldness. My friend you say you have leadership quality hen hen are you applying for job. Go take kian kian (hot drink) now go toast the babe with this boldness enhancer victory is guaranteed.

i like to hear more on this, and atleast learn from u all experiences.
both how u got to overcome this and how u guys do manage your situation.

Do you have good female friends?  If not, then you are definitely shy.  Check out the shyness discussion.

What does "I beg no mind this guy" mean?

Like some of the things roses has said already, you need to carry on doing what you like doing. If you have good female friends who you're close to, you never can say, it could be one of them. I ain't a relationship expert but this is what I have to say.

If you see someone you think you like, just compliment every little thing she does for instance, "I love your new hairstyle", (eventhough the hairstyle isn't wonderful) , if you see her down, ask her what the problem is and try as much as possible to listen to her. Give her advices on possible ways to ameliorate her situation. After about 2 times of such advice, she would start drawing close and from there, you'd start to learn her kind of person and see the "true" her. You could then know whether to initiate a move or not from what you've seen so far.

I wouldn't really say you're shy like some already said. That virtually everyone is doing a thing at a particular point in time and you're not doesn't mean you're not up to it. Maybe you don't want to and when it's time, it's natural to be nervous and feel that way since it's going to be your first.

If you're really serious about the real thing, I would advice that if you believe in God, just tell it to Him before you make any move.

Take care.

self confidence if you see the girl you want to be with you go get that courage from anywhere and most times they just waiting for you to make the move hardly do you see a girl so openly going for a guy thou it happens and always be your self

Sounds like you're just scared of being rejected. Send me your home address so i can beat the hell out of you and show you that there is nothing to be afraid of. Stop watching movies that place women on high ground like they are godesses and see them for what they truely are, our equals. You said some showed interest so i believe you still have hope. Women work with emotions so you just need to know how to trigger the right emotions. If you are generally boring and shy you'll never get a girlfriend. Try this, i want you to act like the guys they always complain about, i'm not asking you to look in the "what turns women on and off" thread but remember their complaints about some guy who is always obnoxious but in reallity they just don't want anyone to know they are attracted to him. You should know SHAKARA is all they have cept for the career type who still have shakara. Go out and try talking to different ladies you see on your street and go totally crazy, say all kinds of things but nothing offensive just for practice and when you get rejected just know you have nothing to lose since guys do it all the time. And stop hanging out with your geeky friends sitting all day with a PC and a PSP dangit!

He's got leadership abilities. Doesn't seem so to me considering he's scared of ladies.

Except if you're Italian. 

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