Have I Slept With Too Many Guys?

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Tranquil (f)
Have I Slept With Too Many Guys?
« on: February 28, 2007, 08:17 AM »

I am just not over with this sleeping thing, and kind of feel hard to dicuss with anybody, I slept with my ex (for almost 2 years)and now another Guy(for around 7 months)(sleeping with my lover boss)

How big is my sin to sleep with two men.Any guy coming my way tommorow will ever forgive me for this?Is it too much?
j-girl (f)
Re: Have I Slept With Too Many Guys?
« #1 on: February 28, 2007, 08:18 AM »

I think that's better than sleeping with 20 guys in a month. As long as you're with them, you've not overslept. It shows that you just stick to one.
Tranquil (f)
Re: Have I Slept With Too Many Guys?
« #2 on: February 28, 2007, 08:20 AM »

I can't come over this easily, is this acceptable?
star01 (m)
Re: Have I Slept With Too Many Guys?
« #3 on: February 28, 2007, 08:24 AM »

Quote from: Tranquil on February 28, 2007, 08:17 AM
I am just not over with this sleeping thing, and kind of feel hard to dicuss with anybody, I slept with my ex (for almost 2 years)and now another Guy(for around 7 months)(sleeping with my lover boss)

How big is my sin to sleep with two men.Any guy coming my way tommorow will ever forgive me for this?Is it too much?
it aint much till u sleep with big bro in here
j-girl (f)
Re: Have I Slept With Too Many Guys?
« #4 on: February 28, 2007, 08:30 AM »

Quote from: star01 on February 28, 2007, 08:24 AM
it aint much till u sleep with big bro in here

 Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked What's that supposed to mean? That after she sleeps with you, she has overslept with guys? So what if a girl sleeps with a thousand dudes, until she has slept with you - she has not done anything?

@ Tranquil, Don't mind him - you're okay girl. Your husband will be lucky to have a girl that hasn't overslept. At least that's the second rule - have one partner not too many.
star01 (m)
Re: Have I Slept With Too Many Guys?
« #5 on: February 28, 2007, 08:32 AM »

girl u can't take home 2 mama
Echidime (m)
Re: Have I Slept With Too Many Guys?
« #6 on: February 28, 2007, 04:07 PM »



You only slept with three men and your complaining, you have not started having sex yet, infact your still a virgin,many women can't remember the number of girls they have slept with in this life. A girl was charting with her girl friend in the flight last month I was sitting near them, she told her friend that the man she slept with last night was her number 65th man she has taking to bed since her birthn her friend was shocked and ask how she know, this girl said she keep records of all the men she has slept with starting from the lucky one that disvirgined her,all their names,the date ,month, and year are all in her diary she bought in year 2000,which means she started having sex just 7 years ago, and 65th men have already eating her.

So you see what I mean when I said your still a virgin?
If I can meet you I will marry you. I think I love your personality
white`Nkem (f)
Re: Have I Slept With Too Many Guys?
« #7 on: March 01, 2007, 02:20 AM »

not at all,  don't worry girl; three men is not that much.
LoverBwoy (m)
Re: Have I Slept With Too Many Guys?
« #8 on: March 01, 2007, 02:51 AM »

Quote from: white`Nkem on March 01, 2007, 02:20 AM
not at all, don't worry girl; three men is nothing!

Yea! you heard? Nkem talk say "3 men is nothing"  Wink

Quote
now another Guy(for around 7 months)(sleeping with my lover boss)
what you mean? you didnt break up witj "another guy" before your "lover boss"?
Free (f)
Re: Have I Slept With Too Many Guys?
« #9 on: March 01, 2007, 04:11 AM »

na wa oo
star01 (m)
Re: Have I Slept With Too Many Guys?
« #10 on: March 01, 2007, 04:16 AM »

u can be a member 'gals u can't take home 2 mama'@free
Free (f)
Re: Have I Slept With Too Many Guys?
« #11 on: March 01, 2007, 04:30 AM »

god bress You, star Grin idiot
star01 (m)
Re: Have I Slept With Too Many Guys?
« #12 on: March 01, 2007, 04:31 AM »

AMen wish u da same
roli04 (m)
Re: Have I Slept With Too Many Guys?
« #13 on: March 01, 2007, 10:04 AM »

hi there, don't think uve slept with too many men, but i think u should slow it down on this 3 except u want to have to lie to your husband in the future.  decent women usually have sex with between 0-3 men before they actually get married, body no be wood, but as well body no be machine. try and stick to one person and get married soon so you can shag 1 guy for the rest of your life and not make him feel too bad. Alternatively if you continue, youre jus going to have to be a bad girl and lie to the idiot and hope no one lets your cat out of the bag. i would if i were u subscribe to the former as u wont want to be married to an idiot and have roaches in your closet, stay blessed love, i think your are still tight.
sin (m)
Re: Have I Slept With Too Many Guys?
« #14 on: March 01, 2007, 10:09 AM »

we should stop making our vice other peoples standard. if a girl feels guilty after sleeping with three men, it shows that we still have people out there who have not been overwhelmed by the moral decadence that is definitive of our morally bankrupt society today.
Agreed, society as we know it today is "morally" distorted. Do we continue and encaurage this bankruptcy because it is the norm? or do we encaurage people like her who choose to hold a beacon of morality high? i don't know about u but i know that our society needs some serious reality check. Keep it up girl. your past, no matter how gruesome u may think it is, has nothing to do with your happiness tomorrow.
Some may have had sex with a 100 or more and still counting but u don't have to emulate them to be a "real" girl. your qualities inside will shine through and anyman worth his salt will be captivated by it.
Moriki (m)
Re: Have I Slept With Too Many Guys?
« #15 on: March 01, 2007, 11:15 AM »

What a world we are into! A girl sleeping wit 3 guys and still some feel its nothing. We know that girls are to jealous and therefore she should ask herself if she could marry a guy that slept around wit 3 women (inside her is "NO" but i don't know outside). virtually no one likes eat "remains" and i suggest u put a stop to that and finally settle down in a matrimonial home. Wish u a real man.
Orikinla (m)
Re: Have I Slept With Too Many Guys?
« #16 on: March 01, 2007, 03:27 PM »

God gave only Eve to Adam and only Adam to Eve.
One to one.

Please, make up your mind to even stop sleeping with any man until marriage.
I am saying so for your own good, otherwise your past will come to haunt you.

Sex is exciting
But love is everything.
You can do without sex until marriage.
Pleeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaaaasssssssssssssseeeeeeeeeeeee.

I am posting from experience.
Tornadoz (m)
Re: Have I Slept With Too Many Guys?
« #17 on: March 02, 2007, 01:58 AM »

Che Che Chei! You slept with 3 people and you are worried. You must be a very moral person. Human beings were not created to be with one person all their life.  Most people who remain with their wife/husband for life, does so because of the kids. In African society most woman remain with their husband even though the man is an alcoholic/gambler etc, because of financial constraints. My advice is as long as you're not married, go play the field. Most Nigerian women in the UK are with their 10th boyfriend, the one's in America are with their 15th. So young girl, don't worry about sleeping with the third man. When a girl tells me she has slept with 3 men (3 x 3) I normally assume she means 9 men. Don't worry about it girl, enjoy yourself.
bluenubian (f)
Re: Have I Slept With Too Many Guys?
« #18 on: March 02, 2007, 02:57 AM »

u guys don't know how old this girl is yet  u telling her its ok, she could be 13 for Christ's sake,

traquil - am scared of u O  Undecided   . . . . . . . jus kidding, its ok girl, but for real tho, i hope u are of age!
cornel318 (m)
Re: Have I Slept With Too Many Guys?
« #19 on: March 02, 2007, 08:54 AM »

Tranquil,
please hold opn to your man tight,
in that way we tend to readicate all these obnoxious incurable diseases.
I wish all girls can emulate u!!!!!!
Tranquil (f)
Re: Have I Slept With Too Many Guys?
« #20 on: March 02, 2007, 09:20 AM »

For Gods Sake I am 26 Don't you people fight there:O
star01 (m)
Re: Have I Slept With Too Many Guys?
« #21 on: March 02, 2007, 09:24 AM »

nufin is new under de earth, knew of a fellow by de tyme she clocked 30, alreay had 456 fukky buddy, well you to could do beta u could even be famous n even earn a royalty in da GUINESS book of record @ least u going to make our nation proud



    that is my word dnt be mad just speakin da truth
jbuoy (m)
Re: Have I Slept With Too Many Guys?
« #22 on: March 05, 2007, 02:28 AM »

Well for some girls, ten men in a day means nothing, it depends on who u want to be and what u want to be knwn for. For goodness sake u are not a whore, and since u are not one, u shldnt be like oda girls that hav a long list of their sex victims, rather it shld be something that just had to happen out of circumstances and u are not really happy about it. While some girls give u a list of men they hav slept with, other girls wuld proudly tell u hw they hav sticked to only one man for sex, which one is a sweet story to u? If u hav a good relationship now then i wuld advise u to stick with the guy for sexual pleasures, but if u still dnt hav one, u can swim around a little but be very careful, there is the side effect to that later when it gets too much. How wuld u feel on your wedding day in church looking into the congregation with your new husband beside u, and the eyes of more than 8 men u had slept with are gazing at u? Sad
Omo Eko (f)
Re: Have I Slept With Too Many Guys?
« #23 on: March 05, 2007, 02:30 AM »

Quote from: jokwoche on March 05, 2007, 02:28 AM
How wuld u feel on your wedding day in church looking into the congregation with your new husband beside u, and the eyes of more than 8 men u had slept with are gazing at u? Sad
You RIGHT ABOUT THIS, GOOD POINT Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
ANYWAY WHAT SHE WILL DO IS RUN OUT OF HER WEDDING
jbuoy (m)
Re: Have I Slept With Too Many Guys?
« #24 on: March 05, 2007, 03:13 AM »

That wuld be so funny and culd be avoided frm now u knw.
Pweety (f)
Re: Have I Slept With Too Many Guys?
« #25 on: March 06, 2007, 08:59 PM »

Girl anything u feel guilty about, that means it's wrong, if u stop now, then u can save your self from all future disasters, nd hope that d people u slept with r not related to your future husband. More like before u get the ring at least.
moondust (m)
Re: Have I Slept With Too Many Guys?
« #26 on: March 09, 2007, 12:51 PM »

whether its 10 , 65 or 3000 guys , fornication is fornication,  its the same price u pay
agnesoseka
Re: Have I Slept With Too Many Guys?
« #27 on: March 12, 2007, 01:26 PM »

echidime, abeg stop prasing n decieving d poor girl, lol
jaybaby (f)
Re: Have I Slept With Too Many Guys?
« #28 on: March 12, 2007, 01:34 PM »

jUS 3----You R JUS STARTING NAW---TRY MORE Wink Cheesy
Free (f)
Re: Have I Slept With Too Many Guys?
« #29 on: March 14, 2007, 01:32 AM »

hmmmm

u alwayz giv good advice jay , i admire that Grin Grin Grin
puker (m)
Re: Have I Slept With Too Many Guys?
« #30 on: March 23, 2007, 09:56 PM »

What is this! How do you know if gals over sleep with men. Who cares. If you sexual urge is that much well mess who you wono mess. The only advice is that you use condoms.
abstarr (m)
Re: Have I Slept With Too Many Guys?
« #31 on: March 26, 2007, 02:47 PM »

It all depends on ya conscience. If u feel u've overslept with guys, your conscience'll tell u to slow down. But regardless, sleepin wit more than one person at a time is not very nice, especially if either one of them feel that they're the only one!!
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