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peachie (f)
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I must say reading all your posts got me thinking. You guys do know that the most important thing is to protect yourself during sex, otherwise ure actually sleeping with not just that person but also everyone your patner has been with. That is the reason std and AIDS is spreading like wildfire. In my opinion abstinence is the safest way to go. Forget how many men uve slept with and think of your life always. Peace  |
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dejoski
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frankly speaking u haven,t commited much sin butv u ve sinned but for d coolest advice call 08051734309 he can put u ion the best position on this matter don't be scared because is not one old guy buy very young and jovial not a pastor
don't forget to deliver
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yewandeamu (f)
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I think that's enough till you get married.
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kaydee (m)
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@ topic / postersome questions are not worth asking, or else you're just after critics  Whether the people on this forum think you've had sex with too much guys or not, does that change anything?? will it turn back the hand of time?? ofcourse not, the deed is already done and cannot be reversed, so why not just move on with your life, than seeking answers from people that will curse you to your face, even though they're not a dime better than you are But its not their fault sha, that's what you get when you ask such a question. And human beings are known for their i'm-so-righteous behaviour That's a question you should ask yourself dear and you are the one that will give yourself the true answer because you're your worst critic!
always do that you are comfortable with, what others think is their personal-lifetime-headache God bless your fingers. If you want to criticize her,talk small small.Nobody holy-pass. |
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bennygee (m)
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@spoilt
aint being self righteous
people have said worse things
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adeboo (f)
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Girl its all good.
Sometimes we feel like we want to act buck wild and do our thing.
But 'mum' is the word. How will the men find out if you don't tell them?
Dont feel you have to bear all when you enter a relationship, there are things that are better left unsaid.
Whats in the past is in the past but the main thing is preparing a good future for yourself.
Girl you really need to talk to your 'gravel pit' and tell her to saty outa business for a while till you are in a meanigful relationship otherwise the sins of the past may come up and bite you in the ass if care is not taken.
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kimba (m)
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I am just not over with this sleeping thing, and kind of feel hard to dicuss with anybody, I slept with my ex (for almost 2 years)and now another Guy(for around 7 months)(sleeping with my lover boss)
How big is my sin to sleep with two men.Any guy coming my way tommorow will ever forgive me for this?Is it too much? May the Lord keep us from evil. Let me put it like this: when you lay yourself on the floor, people will trample on you. Very soon, ull get used to being trampled upon. Girl, stand up and get a grip of yourself. |
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donenick (m)
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You only slept with three men and your complaining, you have not started having sex yet infact am looking for your type  How can i get Any fast link LOL |
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MAYORIN1 (m)
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Yes many sex spoils the cook  |
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jaybaby (f)
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Spoils Which Cook? |
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browndick
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Thank God we still have someone with a conscience. Please do not kill this conscience that is constantly pricking u. Strive for chastity and it will be well
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cennific (f)
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Why are you imposing all this nonsense on yourself? The truth is, if you get married as a virgin and are not faithful to your husband, you have failed woefully in this world. Forget all of that nonsense about virgins who are more likely to be faithful. Your slate is wiped clean when you get married and then you must remain faithful, and if you don't, shit happens, try not to do it again. We all make mistakes, but learn to learn from your mistakes and put your best foot forward, i. e. stop advertising your mistakes. Believe it or not, the only way to get and keep a GOOD and LIVELY man is to respect him, feed him well and f**k his brains out. How do you accomplish that without experience?  |
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topojons (m)
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Tranquil
that isnt much problem at least it happen to most girls, VEn my girlfrind told me she is up to same thing even when our relationship is like 3 years,
it depend on concience and i think you have a good one keep it up, once you can justify your heart, then you are a free wheel, you are saying these cause you are a girl, men do the same but have no concience to judge, you are a perfect girl,
keep it up,
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MAYORIN1 (m)
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@pajames make you go obalende - you go get enough  |
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Omo Eko (f)
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u think sleeping with two guys is bad? one time i was dating a guy named brad, we had sex every night and i was 15 years old, he was amazing, one weekend we was on vaca with his family and i met tyler and james, so on sat. night tyler, james, and I had sex together, and BRAD walked in!!! I started to apoligize but all he wanted to do was have sex b/c he said I was to good at sex to give me up, so they left and we had sex for 2 hrs, a year later we broke up b/c he had to move out of state, now im 19 and single
Na wa ohhhhhhh, Nairaland no go kill me with their stories.  Another sweet fake unture story |
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davidylan (m)
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u think sleeping with two guys is bad? one time i was dating a guy named brad, we had sex every night and i was 15 years old, he was amazing, one weekend we was on vaca with his family and i met tyler and james, so on sat. night tyler, james, and I had sex together, and BRAD walked in!!! I started to apoligize but all he wanted to do was have sex b/c he said I was to good at sex to give me up, so they left and we had sex for 2 hrs, a year later we broke up b/c he had to move out of state, now im 19 and single
clap 4 yourself. you just won yourself a badge of courage. |
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cute-ass (f)
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u think sleeping with two guys is bad? one time i was dating a guy named brad, we had sex every night and i was 15 years old, he was amazing, one weekend we was on vaca with his family and i met tyler and james, so on sat. night tyler, james, and I had sex together, and BRAD walked in!!! I started to apoligize but all he wanted to do was have sex b/c he said I was to good at sex to give me up, so they left and we had sex for 2 hrs, a year later we broke up b/c he had to move out of state, now im 19 and single
chei is this a joke?? and the point of your story being?? you're the kind that give girls a bad name  he caught you having sex with two guys, but yet he kept you because you were too good i bed?? and that's good enough for you?? that's the saddest story ever. and now your fingers let you type the fact that he left because he had to travel out?? gosh, you're naive too. Haven't you heard of distant-relationships?? because if the guy thought you were worth any thing (no offence ooh, you caused it, so you have to deal with it) he would fight with his last drop of blood to keep you. i hope with all i've got that the story is a fabricated one (anyway it has to be because no girl with her no. 7 will pour out such a disgusting act with pride) because i'm not sure of where this your he-wanted-me-because-i-was-good-in-bed-story will lead you you said something about being 19 and single?? well that's nothing compared to being 55 and single girl watch your ways, because they might lead you into perpetual misery . . a word they say is enough for the wise have fun, but remember you didgnity is worth a million, for the records if you don't know it, when a guy starts wanting you for the sex alone, in my oxford cute-ass dictionary, you're CHEAP |
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spoilt (f)
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long long post.
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tEsLim (m)
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More sex equals more soulties and more spiritual setbacks. SIMPLE |
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kobe (m)
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Best Answer - Orikinla
"God gave only Eve to Adam and only Adam to Eve.
One to one.
Please, make up your mind to even stop sleeping with any man until marriage.
I am saying so for your own good, otherwise your past will come to haunt you.
Sex is exciting
But love is everything.
You can do without sex until marriage.
Pleeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaaaasssssssssssssseeeeeeeeeeeee.
I am posting from experience.
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cheekymale (m)
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Tranquil, why the hell are you shagging your boss?!
Clearly, the number of men you've slept with is the least of your problems right now.
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kobe (m)
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abi o ri nkan o tu wa n bere hahaha. I mean, umm how can you tell that it's the least of her worries, such speculation calls for back-up, ah nevermind got it. her first post provides it. premise valid.
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sasha4u (f)
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Girl, simply stop sleeping with men when u are not yet married. Just hold on. otherwise, you will end up sleeping with uncountable number of men. Be warned!
but why is it okay for a man to sleep with as many females as he wants, and my dear girl here as only had three men and you are tellin her she must stop. Please. anything a man can do, |
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alabiyemmy (m)
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when does it become too many? i guess most ladies here have taken more than she has, so stop talking y'all.
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ultrafem (f)
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but why is it okay for a man to sleep with as many females as he wants, and my dear girl here as only had three men and you are tellin her she must stop.
Please.
anything a man can do,
@sasha sadly its the way the world views things, just because some men get away with it doesnt mean we should do it because we will always be on the receiving end no matter what. Love your hair and pic by the way when does it become too many? i guess most ladies here have taken more than she has, so stop talking y'all.
true so true lol |
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j-girl (f)
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Abi o!@ sasha. This double standard will kill them. If it is a man that said he has slept with 5 girls, they will tell him he has not started. but why is it okay for a man to sleep with as many females as he wants, and my dear girl here as only had three men and you are tellin her she must stop.
Please.
anything a man can do,
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israelite (m)
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as for me i don't think is too much for u,afterall u ar mature to reason with her no 6 carry go jare  |
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KUNLEx
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you have slept with too many men. You might find it difficult to find a man that will understand. i suggest you give your life to christ Jesus and ask him to show u the man for you.
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olutomiwa (m)
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since you have not slept with me you have not slept with anybody,i,m here waiting.
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muchbabe (f)
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what about guys that have slept with more than 5 girls and are still sleeping around?
If a girl does it then she is not moral but if a guy does it then he is the man,
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