Who is a Playa/Player?

Don't hate the playa, hate the game(My fave quote, hehe)

okkkkk a little piece of my info!!! so y'all listen or i'D say readd!!
juss so y'all know gurlz are better players so don't u guys think u'v gatt d game goin on!! i'D say gurlz are wayyy better dan d guyzz...(i'v gatt prooffff) u wann know why gurlz r better playerz?? becauseeee.... nahh i ain't sayin it!! 

How does a player act? quick n' smart!!

How does he behaves? that u really can't figure out because hez a player!! haaahaaa

How can he be identified? look at his face! hahahaha identified?? nahh datz why hez a player

Are all guys players? therez a possibility!! 

A player is who u make him to be.
can u call a little flirting here and a little patting there playing?
the way the modern woman defines this word would make our fore fathers cring from their graves. Our fore fathers had one, two and ten wives with the support and outright motivation from our mothers, yet they were not called players. our modern girls cannot claim to be better than our mothers and grandmothers, ye, they can't wait to call brothers players as if the word is going out of fashion
Listen to me and listen good, trying to attract the opposite sex is a habit indulged in by all living species. Male, female, he goats and she goats. calling it playing, cheapens this age old tradition. and limiting this act to a only male make u sound like some women liberator. Come to think of it, if a girl has everything her man wants or if a man satisfies his woman completely, why should he/she, using the word of the authour 'play'?
change the word girl, its just having a little fun on the side

i have been in love and in a relationship with someone who is now a player, but we were both very innocent when we got together though he had that player charm! but now the only guys i ever seem to fall for are players, firstly i think they should realise that all they do is go around breaking hearts which effects girls in so many different and horrible ways. Once they have got the name of a player its unlikely they will find a girlfriend if they want one! and why should guys be labelled players and studs when a girl is labelled a whore when she plays the field (not that i think this is right either!) i just think love is sooo important and guys shouldn't waste girls time and most importantly treat them like they are worth nothing! every girl is special! xxx 

i don't think i'll second that.!

A player to me is a total idiot. He is a guy of low self worth, doesn't know anything about himself and can't please a lady. He is a murderer, a thief, a fool because he goes about breaking people's heart without caring less, the sad thing is that  women or guys fall for this so called players . Most times players are the sexy guys in town, that guy with the good looks, the sideburns, everything sexy, the car, the house, he got it all, that hot hot chick in town that is so hard to get. You find yourself falling heads over heels in love with a player and you wont know why they just know how to get you so deeply like an arrow . A player would let you fall for him deeply and then just out of the deep blue ocean , tell you that it is over , no shaking,  He won't even care if you are hurt at all. He is off to the next girl. Thats sucks you know. but any one can be played thats the sad senario.. So sad you know because I once was a player. .

are u a player?

A playa is a sick-head who thinks its cool to lead the opposite sex on into thinking they are in a long-term relationship when he/she is simply using the other party.A playa can be a female just that society would rather call her a slut.Some guys do it to carve a niche for themselves.Call him tough,cool,famous,legendary,I call him a moron.

lol this is funny

@all playerhaters

playing is fun! you should try it!

True ezinne1212 what goes around comes around, but actually, the
insensitive gals get to the track of players.

But o players in the house, I hail o, wa doooooooo

to be sincere, i envy playas and alway wanted to be in the club.
WHY 
Ok, let me answer my question.



they get all the fine girl and us that didn't understand
just couldn't comprehend why, the girl we love don't love us back, so we keep trying
and trying and trying until we too became playas.
to be sincere i don't pride myself as a playa neither do i like it but for God Sake
IT WORKS and would advice all male to learn. and that's all to it.
That means I'm not one certainly.

Not all guys are players. I'm certainly not one.

Most players on here profess to be single, no girlfriend / wife etc.

I'm very, very unavailable. Getting married next July, and love my fiancee to bits.

Even when I was single, I never double dated, way too complicated for me.

The difference is, she IS my fiancee, we've been together for 6 years, and we both feel the same way about each other, and live together. You're still living in a continent called Fantasia!  Grrr. Call yourself a Nigerian? Wrong, you're a Fantasian!   Most Nigerian men I know will draw the line at trying to steal another mans wife!  Don't even consider drawing me into your murky world, or comparing your shenanigans to anything I do, else I'll rip into you way before Efuah's husband catches up with you! 

Efuah's not your fiancee, you've never seen her, she doesn't love you, you don't even live in the same country, and to top it all, she's married!  What does that make you, huh? Worse than a player - a would-be home wrecker, and a stalker to boot!  Hopefully, Efuah's husband will get his hands on you, and pound a bit of much needed reality into your half-inch thick skull! 

As for Efuah being married before me, so? I've been married before, and have a daughter, who at 22, is almost as old as you are!

At the rate you're going, you'll probably end up shot by a jealous husband, and never get married!  Who knows, he might just miss snuffing you out, but decide to turn you into an Enuch, probably a good thing too!

Damn, you've really gotten me mad this time! Grrr!