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brick (m)
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Please, I'd love to get your opinion on this. Is there any christian basis to encourage or support oral or anal sex between married couples? Will it be okay for either partner to adjust against his or her will to satisfy the other partner?
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IAH (f)
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Why not? The bible says your bodies belong to each other when you are married so you can do whatever you like with it. My opinion.
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Seun (m)
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Oh dear,  I wholeheartedly agree with and support IAH's opinion. That is a lovely opinion and I love it very much. |
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hot-angel (f)
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IAH has said it.
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brick (m)
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Why not? The bible says your bodies belong to each other when you are married so you can do whatever you like with it. My opinion.
sometime ago when i was asked, i just said a christian shouldnt sleep with his wife the way one would do to a whore. i was just thinking there was a limit to which we can go in sex so we don't go bizarre. or do u think there arent? |
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Seun (m)
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As long as the mutual respect is there and the sex is consentual and not paid for, I don't see how any sex act you perform with your wife can be equivalent to treating her like a sex worker.
In real life, a prostitute will not necessarily agree to any act you'll like to initiate (unless the price is right). While a respectable married woman may have no problem with the same act despite the fact that she's not being paid. There is no basis for comparison. The only way to treat a woman like a sex worker is to offer her money in exchange for sex, and that is not what this topic is about.
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Michaela (f)
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That is what I think as well.
In my opinion everything is allowed what both agree to. But I would not do something against my will just to please my partner.
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nicetohave (m)
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I am inclined towards seun in his remarks but i do have a little reservations about what should be the limits, in as much as i would like to condemn anal sex with the thought that God did not create the man's privates to go that way but then was it created to go in the female mouth either? so i think if it is acceptable to both parties with mutual love and respect, then its fine.i would not want to put any woman not to mention the woman i will marry through the pains of anal sex but in the same vein i wouldnt want to be deprived of oral sex  so where do we draw the line? my answer is i can't speak for everyone, it is unlikely the woman will ask me for anal sex but if she does, i don't know if id be able to refuse her---its all about love and what is acceptable, to the married couple |
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brick (m)
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In real life, a prostitute will not necessarily agree to any act you'll like to initiate (unless the price is right). While a respectable married woman may have no problem with the same act despite the fact that she's not being paid. There is no basis for comparison. The only way to treat a woman like a sex worker is to offer her money in exchange for sex, and that is not what this topic is about.
well i understand that u don't need to pay your wife to have sex with her as u would do to a whore ( though in some cases, it has been shown that some women use sex as a tool to get out things from their husbands - that's by the way), the point i was only making is the manner or way u would handle your wife during sexual intercourse. |
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sage (m)
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I am inclined towards seun in his remarks but i do have a little reservations about what should be the limits, so i think if it is acceptable to both parties with mutual love and respect, then its fine.i would not want to put any woman not to mention the woman i will marry through the pains of anal sex but in the same vein i wouldnt want to be deprived of oral sex so where do we draw the line? my answer is i can't speak for everyone, it is unlikely the woman will ask me for anal sex but if she does, i don't know if id be able to refuse her---its all about love and what is acceptable, to the married couple @ nicetohave i feel u men  . Me go like my BJ 2/4. for the anal na she go decide   |
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MatureMe (f)
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The marriage bed is not defiled, so whatever you and your spouse agree upon and comfortable during intimacy go for it without feeling guilt-ridden.
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virozuru (f)
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The marriage bed is not defiled, so whatever you and your spouse agree upon and comfortable during intimacy go for it without feeling guilt-ridden.
i agree with you, and IAH and all those who feel any sexual acts shoudnt be limited between a married christian couple. |
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goodguy (m)
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Oral sex?!... ewwwwww.
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virozuru (f)
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Oral sex?!... ewwwwww.
I KNOW your joking  |
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goodguy (m)
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My mentality about it might change as I grow older. But for now, I don't think I can engage in such. Me, lick privates?? Hell no!!
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Michaela (f)
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@ Goodguy: How old are you?? Well, you don't like licking a woman. But do you like a woman giving you a blow job?
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goodguy (m)
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Don't ask me for my age. I don't engage in such acts...at least, not for now.
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dejiolowe (m)
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@goodguy if not now, when?
do unto others what u want others to do to you....
if you're sucked, then man, suck in return (u can add licks as jara)
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nicetohave (m)
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My mentality about it might change as I grow older. But for now, I don't think I can engage in such. Me, lick privates?? Hell no!!
There really isnt any big deal to it, try it once you might get a taste for it |
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goodguy (m)
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The thought of it alone makes me want to throw up.
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goodguy (m)
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I'm a goodguy. I've never had sex before. |
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nicetohave (m)
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I'm a goodguy. I've never had sex before. that alone qualifies you to be a goodguy? and those that have, even outside marraige are badguys? and those that have had sex outside marriage deserve a pat where? your statements are nothing but self praise and aggrandizement  |
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hotspice (f)
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I am yet to find a verse or book in the Holy Bible that talks about it. so can some one help me out? I hope it is ok oh because one can't just wait for marriage(with seun my sugarboy  ) and at the end its only missionary that will be permitted!  @goodguy: are you for real? so it upsets u when you think of a girl givin u BJ? or maybe a man should do it to you |
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goodguy (m)
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your statements are nothing but self praise and aggrandizement Call it whatever you like. The fact remains we haven't fornicated ( in the name of 'getting enough experience before marriage') and we're proud of it. @goodguy: are you for real? so it upsets u when you think of a girl givin u BJ? or maybe a man should do it to you I've heard a lot of people say it's nice. For now, I don't think I can do it. I might change my mind later though. But really, I don't think the male organ was created for the females mouth, neither was the females organ created for the man's lips/tongue.  |
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hotspice (f)
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@ goodguy keep ti real bro. I hope u make it to your wedding night would be nice though if u and abbeymarie can hook up then there will be no cheating
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AbbeyMarie (f)
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Call it whatever you like. The fact remains we haven't fornicated ( in the name of 'getting enough experience before marriage') and we're proud of it. Thanks you for saying this, it is what i meant. @ goodguy keep ti real bro. I hope u make it to your wedding night would be nice though if u and abbeymarie can hook up then there will be no cheating Ha! You're funny |
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IAH (f)
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I've heard a lot of people say it's nice. For now, I don't think I can do it. I might change my mind later though. But really, I don't think the male organ was created for the females mouth, neither was the females organ created for the man's lips/tongue. This is not a matter of creation. God has created, we are now inventing. |
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goodguy (m)
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Well, I guess you're right. I still don't think I can lick one ...ewwwwwwww |
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