Is Oral Or Anal Sex Permissible In A Christian Marriage?

if one could bug the bedrooms of our fathers and mothers in the Lord and see the things they do, you cuntlickers and cocksuckers would say to yourselves that you are morally upright and straight.

I didn't see anything o. come to think of it. where do those pastors and pastoresses authoring - joy of sex in marriage, abc of sex, divine ways to satisfy daddy - get there literatures? you can only report what you've practiced or experienced.

Forgive me Lord if I blasphemed.

I'll let you know.

that would be a weird posting.. , i can see it now

 'hey guys, guess what!....' LAMO!

That would probably be in some years to come anyway..

With Hot-Angel.

I don't know about oral sex but i don't think God will approve of anal sex. God made the vagina and privates for a reason, to reproduce and for pleasure. The anus is to poo out of and is very dirty. This is how Aids started (which i believe is a punishment from God). These were the kind of sexual sins sodom and gorrmah was doing and God was furious, he destroyed the city! So no i don't think anal sex is right, the vagina is enough pleasure for one.

But how do gays have sex? Through the anus!
I mean im not entirelly sure. When i get married i will ask God for guidance on that one. But right now we should not be thinking about sex! Only in the privacy of your marital home!

Softee: the fact that gays have sex through the anus doesn't mean anything.  Afterall, lesbians participate in oral sex and manual stimulation, so does it mean that Christian couples should shy away from those acts too?

Well, oral or anal sex, it depend on the couple, as long as they have wedded, their body belongs to them, let them do it the way they like, in some cases men don't like licking and some women don't like sucking, it depends on their satifaction.

Oral sex is an important part of a healthy sexual relationship. Both cunnilingus and fellatio are enjoyable and many women can only achieve an orgasm when this is performed on them.

Anal sex is absolutely acceptable as long as both partners agree. It is nearly always the man that will bring up this topic and it is very rare that the women will ask her partner about this form of penetrative sex. The most important thing is that the woman should be a willing partner and under no circumstances should she be forced into it. Men should remember that if the woman agrees that he should take things slowly and carefully and use plenty of lubricant. The man should never place his privates back in the womans vagina after it has been in the anus as this can cause infection.

The most exciting thing about anal sex is the time leading up to performing it, it has a certain taboo and probably that is the atraction. Once you have done it once or twice it loses its apeal and it is no way a substitute for good old vaginal intercourse.

That is very charitable of you. Everybody has the right to enjoy sex whether married or not.  There is no instance in the bible that precludes a man from penetrating a woman's anal passage!

If the woman is a willing partner and enjoys the experience then why should it be a problem? The body of both males and females have many erogenous zones, the anus is one of them.

Both oral and anal is totally acceptable and pleasurable when performed by two loving partners!

You guys are wrong. Anal sex is acceptable and not a sin!

“I thought the Bible said anal sex was a sin.”

This is a common misconception. Anal sex is confusing to many Christians because of the attention paid to the Bible’s condemnation of homosexual acts. However, it’s important to realize that these often quoted scriptures refer only to sexual acts between two men. Nowhere does the Bible forbid anal sex between a male and female.

In fact, many Biblical passages allude to the act of anal sex between men and women. Lamentations 2:10 describes how “The virgins of Jerusalem have bowed their heads to the ground,” indicating how a virginal maidens should position themselves to receive anal sex. Another suggestive scripture tells of a woman’s pride in her “valley” (referring to her buttocks and the cleft between them) and entices her lover to ejaculate against her backside: "How boastful you are about the valleys! O backsliding daughter who trusts in her treasures, {saying,} ' Who will come against me?' (Jeremiah 49:4) And in the Song of Songs, the lover urges his mate to allow him to enter her from behind: “Draw me after you, let us make haste.” (Song of Solomon, 1:4)

For a young woman who has never engaged in sexual intercourse, having anal sex allows her to preserve her virginity (i.e., maintain an intact hymen) until marriage. There is no greater gift that a bride can give than to offer her pure, unsullied maidenhead to her husband on their wedding night.

Finally, anal sex allows both partners to save the most intimate and powerful sexual act, that of face-to-face vaginal intercourse, for their mates in marriage. This type of sexual relationship represents the most powerful union between a man and a woman, and so it rightfully should be reserved for one’s life partner. Fortunately, you can engage in anal sex prior to marriage and still be able to share the deeper, more meaningful act of consecrated love through vaginal intercourse with your wedded spouse.

Dear Softee ( sorry I left you out) :-)

Oral sex both cunnilingus and fellatio is a very important part of lovemaking and should be practiced by each sex. Many women can only achieve a real  orgasm when their clitoris is stimulated by the mans tongue and men very rarely refuse to have their penises sucked when asked.

A condom can also be worn when your female partner is sucking your privates, but if you are loyal with each other and do not sleep around then a condom is not an absolute requirement for fellatio.

Then comes the question as to whether the woman should swallow your sperm. This is totally a personal choice and should be discussed with your partner. A woman should never be forced into swallowing! Many men prefer to withdraw at the point of ejaculation and shoot their sperm on their partners face, breasts or between her legs. But the feeling of intimate bonding when a woman swallows your seed is highly prized and enjoyable.

There are many good and varied techniques for performing cunnilingus such as inserting one finger in her anus and another into her vagina and  massaging her G-Spot whilst you are licking her clitoris. This will give her one of the most explosive and powerful orgasm's she has ever experienced.

If you want to be safe when licking a womans clitoris, they reccommend that you use a sheet of cling-film and place this over her vagina so your tongue does not come into direct contact with her private parts.

This is not required if you are loyal partners. Both should shower before and after sexual intercourse. The use of a condom by the male during vaginal or anal penetration of the woman is a must. If you agree to try anal then you should take things slowly and is takes time for the females anal muscles to relax and allow the privates to penetrate. You must use some form of water based lubricant as the anus is not naturally wet like the vagina. You should never put your privates back in the womans vagina after it has been in her anus and this could cause infections.

Sex is a game for two consenting adults! What you may find a turn on may not necessarily be such for your partner.

Always discuss your feelings and never force yourself on each other!

Enjoy and stay safe :-)

Ohhh, how can you be sure about that??

oral sex yes, anal sex no

i would never do that with anyone let alone my wife

and i would NOT concider a woman that had indulged in anal sex but not vaginal as being a virgin, virginity is not all about putting privates in a vagina- its about intimacy , giving your body to someone else.

Reverend would you really regard a woman was a virgin if she had let someone put his hands all over her lick and kissed every bit of her?

of course it is, i mean as long as you're married, you can do whatever you want to do with your husband/wife the Bible does not forbid any particular style for sex as long as it's sex, it's sex in the long run it still gets into it!!!!