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saintchux (m)
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No christian can quote anything from the new testament forbidding anal or oral coitus (sex). I don't remeber any part of the new testament forbidding it, No,
In either cases these laws I think are absent in the new testaments, in the old testaments it is forbidden to have anal sex, the punishment in the book of Isiah is stoning t death. We have a scripture in Leviticus (18:22) "No man is to have sexual relations with another man; God hates that." the concept is anal coitus as men have no vaginas. as for oral sex, even the old testaments are silent an it,
so here again in xtianity, nothing but it is a great sin in Judaism and Islam to have any anal sex
as for oral sex It is discourage as the prostatic fluid has the same rulings of impurity with the urine although the sperm is not Najas (impurity)
God know best
peace
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tnaidaR (f)
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Quite an old topic but had to ask, are people this clouded for real?  |
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Prince22
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What is ORAL SEX?
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Reverend (m)
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What is ORAL SEX?
When you just talk about it  |
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Prince22
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Reverened,
How do you mean?
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KnowAll (m)
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Oral sex is no no under any circumstances whether married or un-married. It is a prequisite for gayism, in the early days when gay rights were under-cover, those men that indulge in such acts where the same people that came out as Gays with the emancipation of gay right. So those of you engage in such acts in my opinion have a gay tendency, you are only suppressing it due to enviromental, societal and family pressure in a country like Nigeria. In Nigeria it is a taboo to be gay, and I am pretty sure those of you indulging in such sex acts, if u are in a more tolerant and freindly enviroment like most western countries, you will definately carry out your sexual fantasies without hindrance. Recently a US senator had to step down for soliciting for sex in a public toilet. He was a married man with a wife and kids and has been in the senate for well over 10 years, he was not a gay politician he was just trying to fulfil his sexual fantasy . Same thing happened to another politicain last year in the UK, bright young politicain was contemplating running for the libral democrats leadership, but when his secret came out following a robbery in a public park whilst soliciting for sex with other men, he for obvious reason did not want the story to come out but when the national dailies got hold of the story he had to pull out of the contest, he was also a married man with kids. My advise to women is to discourage such acts don't encourage it, its very, very un-healthy.
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KnowAll (m)
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[size=12[b][/b]pt]that peice is against Anal sex and not oral sex. There is nothing wrong with oral sex.[/size]
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KnowAll (m)
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that peice is against Anal sex and not oral sex. There is nothing wrong with oral sex.
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osereka (m)
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there is notin either good or bad
but thinking makes it so
lets be frank with our selves sucking ass, pussy, privates or shagging ass holes
makes us look like dogs, goat, pig. it makes us look like ANIMALS
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alarainey (m)
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Anal sex unecessarily widens and slackens the muscles of the Anus
It destroys the anus.
However if the man and wife consent to this destruction in the name of marital sex, then so be it.
Ihave not read anything in any religion that proscribes sex-positions in marriage or precisely prescribes body cavities that may be utilized in legal intercouse
Shikena
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fntekim (m)
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there is notin either good or bad
but thinking makes it so
lets be frank with our selves sucking ass, pussy, privates or shagging ass holes
makes us look like dogs, goat, pig. it makes us look like ANIMALS
And sex does not? |
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Mad_Max (f)
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I mentioned on another post how a friend invited me to her church. After the formal service the pastor's wife had a meeting with all the women, and fired off a series of sage advice on life and marriage. One of the things she said was it's a sin to have oral sex with your husband. My ears rang. And some of the church women were jotting down notes! Pastors tend to pass their own prejudices off as biblical doctrine. If he doesn't like make-up, then the Bible forbids it. Jezebel painted her face, didn't you know?If he dislikes certain modes of dress, it's a sin.And if he thinks oral sex is wrong, sorry for all those adventurous husbands who marrried women in their church. And if the poor husband starts agitating for head, the woman will start praying and fasting against this latest attack of the devil on her matrimonial home.
Nothing do am, a beg. If it's consensual. The Bible may codemn homosexuality but it doesn't tell a man how he may make love to his wife. It says NOTHING about what married couples may or may not do to each other.
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detruth
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@poster
why not! so far both agrees with it!
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fntekim (m)
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I mentioned on another post how a friend invited me to her church. After the formal service the pastor's wife had a meeting with all the women, and fired off a series of sage advice on life and marriage. One of the things she said was it's a sin to have oral sex with your husband. My ears rang. And some of the church women were jotting down notes! Pastors tend to pass their own prejudices off as biblical doctrine. If he doesn't like make-up, then the Bible forbids it. Jezebel painted her face, didn't you know?If he dislikes certain modes of dress, it's a sin.And if he thinks oral sex is wrong, sorry for all those adventurous husbands who marrried women in their church. And if the poor husband starts agitating for head, the woman will start praying and fasting against this latest attack of the devil on her matrimonial home.
Nothing do am, a beg. If it's consensual. The Bible may codemn homosexuality but it doesn't tell a man how he may make love to his wife. It says NOTHING about what married couples may or may not do to each other.
What if u challenged d pastor?  Would that be considered sacrilege? Just wandering. |
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Mad_Max (f)
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Challenge the pastor ke? At a church I was merely invited to attend by a friend? What would be the point? Who would those married women believe: Unmarried moi who merely wandered there out of boredom,or Mummy,who's authoritatively wearing decades of marrriage to Daddy like a badge?So she can be using me to give testimony the following Sunday, that the devil sent someone to test her? I no fit o!
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Sisikill
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Challenge the pastor ke? At a church I was merely invited to attend by a friend? What would be the point? Who would those married women believe: Unmarried moi who merely wandered there out of boredom,or Mummy,who's authoritatively wearing decades of marrriage to Daddy like a badge?So she can be using me to give testimony the following Sunday, that the devil sent someone to test her? I no fit o!
Rotflmoa! I agree! I think this is common in Nigerian Churches. I've been to American Churches where during Bible study, members openly question the Pastor's interpretation of the bible and he welcomes it, he does not take it as an affront to his person and the other members don't look at the questioner in shock or automatically condemning him/her to a life time in hell. I remember one time during these women's meeting, my sister dared to question the "mummy" of a Naija church; I believe it was on the issue of taking care of the kids. She asked where in the Bible it said men had to be emotionally distant with their kids. In my sister’s opinion, being part of the day to day taking care of the kids .i.e. bathing them, cooking for them, getting them ready for school, playing with them. . . just being normal with these kids goes beyond being a chore but creates an emotional bond with father and child. “Mommy” said since she and her husband married some gajllion years ago, her husband has never bathed for their children because it has her job as the woman and mother to do it. My sister said she knows this is what some women do and they ascribe it to being Biblical which is why she wants to know where exactly in the Bible mothers were instructed not to let fathers take care of their kids? Mommy said is about respect and then tried to disparage my sister’s relationship with her husband by saying what kind of respect does she have for her husband if she allows him to bend down or kneel down by the bathtub to bath their child? My sister said fortunately for her, her husband is very secure in his manhood not to take such things as anything. You could have heard a pin drop and it took all the power and will in me not to laugh, my mouth looked like I was attempting to swallow a fist size puff-puff. “Mommy” eyed my sister and just continued preaching to these women on how to create an emotional gap between their children and husband. My sister was going to push it but my aunt gave her the evil eye, so she simmered down. After the fellowship, the “wise women” (we call them Coven) of the church called my sister and told her to go apologize to “Mommy” for rudeness, she did and “Mommy” said in the most long-suffering tone ever (do they have a special school where they teach them that tone??) that she forgives my sister and she understands we have many factors to overcome in order to get there. The main, the main of course is our “keferi” blood which makes us “antagonistic” to the truth. LMAO! Yeah, okay. . . let’s ignore the fact that my mom who is Christian through and through does not subscribe to that stupid mentality either but hey, they gotta have an excuse. . . right?  Sorry jare, didn’t mean to go on and on and off topic too . . .  |
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madamkoko
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@ Poster, such acts are permissible as long as ure married and both partners agree to it and want to try something new and different.
I find that one of the reasons why men cheat is because wives never want to experiment and try new things. Its soo easy for one's sex life to become boring, qucikly and easily when one is married. So you have to try new and different things to keep things fresh, exciting, and spunky. (This of course does not include rape or any mental madness/perversion a partner may have)
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Mad_Max (f)
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Rotflmoa! I agree! I think this is common in Nigerian Churches. I've been to American Churches where during Bible study, members openly question the Pastor's interpretation of the bible and he welcomes it, he does not take it as an affront to his person and the other members don't look at the questioner in shock or automatically condemning him/her to a life time in hell.
I remember one time during these women's meeting, my sister dared to question the "mummy" of a Naija church; I believe it was on the issue of taking care of the kids. She asked where in the Bible it said men had to be emotionally distant with their kids. In my sister’s opinion, being part of the day to day taking care of the kids .i.e. bathing them, cooking for them, getting them ready for school, playing with them. . . just being normal with these kids goes beyond being a chore but creates an emotional bond with father and child.
“Mommy” said since she and her husband married some gajllion years ago, her husband has never bathed for their children because it has her job as the woman and mother to do it. My sister said she knows this is what some women do and they ascribe it to being Biblical which is why she wants to know where exactly in the Bible mothers were instructed not to let fathers take care of their kids? Mommy said is about respect and then tried to disparage my sister’s relationship with her husband by saying what kind of respect does she have for her husband if she allows him to bend down or kneel down by the bathtub to bath their child? My sister said fortunately for her, her husband is very secure in his manhood not to take such things as anything.
You could have heard a pin drop and it took all the power and will in me not to laugh, my mouth looked like I was attempting to swallow a fist size puff-puff. “Mommy” eyed my sister and just continued preaching to these women on how to create an emotional gap between their children and husband. My sister was going to push it but my aunt gave her the evil eye, so she simmered down. After the fellowship, the “wise women” (we call them Coven) of the church called my sister and told her to go apologize to “Mommy” for rudeness, she did and “Mommy” said in the most long-suffering tone ever (do they have a special school where they teach them that tone??) that she forgives my sister and she understands we have many factors to overcome in order to get there. The main, the main of course is our “keferi” blood which makes us “antagonistic” to the truth.
@Sisikill I almost expired of laughter! Oh my. I could see the whole thing, with saintly Mummy sighing and chalking it all up to the devil. Your sister has whatever the feminine equivalent of balls of steel are. These people can warp you for life, I tell you. And it's not as if they have some insidious agenda. It's just, and this is painful to say, most of them are terribly ignorant. They hide behind a lifetime of thinking and believing a certain way. Who can blame them if they don't want to leave that safety net? It's probably too frigging scary. If only they weren't warping others with their prejudices. |
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Pastor AIO
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@Sisikill
What is a 'keferi'?
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Sisikill
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@Sisikill
I almost expired of laughter! Oh my. I could see the whole thing, with saintly Mummy sighing and chalking it all up to the devil. Your sister has whatever the feminine equivalent of balls of steel are. These people can warp you for life, I tell you. And it's not as if they have some insidious agenda. It's just, and this is painful to say, most of them are terribly ignorant. They hide behind a lifetime of thinking and believing a certain way. Who can blame them if they don't want to leave that safety net? It's probably too frigging scary. If only they weren't warping others with their prejudices.
LMAO! Oh yeah my sister has balls of steel! She can't understand how people lose their common sense when it comes to "What Pastor and Pastor (Mrs)" say. She says any normal, right thinking person can tell the difference between Facts and Personal beliefs/opinion. She would never outightly question Biblical facts but when you try to shove your own personal opinion down her throat, the gloves come out. @Sisikill
What is a 'keferi'? No one has really defined it to me but from the context in which it is often used, I believe this is what some people call Muslims. Now I'm not sure if it's just for people who are Yoruba Muslims or if they are Hausa/Yoruba Muslims. . . alls I know is that some people have so generously offered us this as an out for any "antigonistic" behavior. Nice of them, no? |
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tope2000 (f)
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@topic
Oral i would say yes to
Anal is a definate NO NO
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euromilion
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@POSTER
everything is made 4 their purpose.mouth is to be used to talk,eat and praise god and pray.ear is to hear.nose is to smell .anus is to shit.why don't u drink water through ur nose or ear, my friend's please use things d rite way, ur post is sodomite, god forbid it, sinnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn nnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn nnn, am sure my people are getting all this bad act from western's, i did not know or heard of any thing of such until i got to the western world, it's not our culture
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savanaha
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@POSTER
everything is made 4 their purpose.mouth is to be used to talk,eat and praise god and pray.ear is to hear.nose is to smell .anus is to shit.why don't u drink water through your nose or ear, my friend's please use things d rite way, your post is sodomite, god forbid it, sinnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn nnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn nnn, am sure my people are getting all this bad act from western's, i did not know or heard of any thing of such until i got to the western world, it's not our culture
They probably already tried it. A comedian once said even if you wash your but for three hours by the time you walk up a flight of stairs and smell your anus it smells. So why would you mix your pee hole with the dodo hole. |
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KarmaMod (f)
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Sisi, your sister is at fault for apologizing in the first place
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justcool (m)
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What I state here in intended for Adults only! Minors(people less than 18) should please excuse themselves from this thread.
It's pity seeing how far the so called Christians have degenerated and separated from the True teachings of the Lord Jesus.
All sorts of sexual perversion is wrong. All, including sodomy(anal sex), oral sex, role playing, sexual torture and etc. All these acts are born out of lust. Lust is wrong even in marriage. Even a child can tell that all those things are impure. No body ever had to learn that the male sex organ is made for the female sex organ and not the mouth or anus. This is one of the strongest and natural instinct in man, since even without training and practice a man knows the right place to insert his sex organ during intercourse. Just as everybody knows that food should be inserted into the mouth and not the nose. Anal and oral sex is like inserting food into the nose rather than the mouth. Sodomy and oral sex are always learnt from bad adults or watching pornography, such practices are never a natural urge that people are born with. Such practices are very unnatural, and thereofore wrong.
But this is one of the sins that it's reciprocal action is easily seen. Any society or contry that encourages such acts faces extinction. Since such sexual acts does not result in procreation. Such acts are banned in sane and prosperous countries. I know for sure that in parts of America any practice of sodomy(even with your wife) is banned.
For those who seek evidence from the bible and those who think that anal sex with women is not wrong, let me remind you of the story of Sodom and Gomorrah.
In Sodom and Gomorrah what they practiced was anal sex. In fact the word sodomy(another word for anal sex) comes from the word Sodom, which is a city that practiced such evil and consequently was destroyed. Sodomy does not only imply anal sex with men, it simply implies anal sex. Anal sex is anal sex irrespective of whether it is done to a woman or a man, both are Sodomy.
I will tell you another thing. I personally believe that any man or woman who practices anal sex is not very far from homosexuality, bestiality(sex with animals), and etc
We must strive to be pure and natural. We must strive to use our body the way God intended that it should be used, and also for what God intended that it should be used. Our sex organs, apart from urination, is given to us for procreation and mutual exchange of vibration within a harmonious union.
Accept it or not. The Truth is sometimes bitter. May God have mercy on us!!
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mazaje (m)
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It's pity seeing how far the so called Christians have degenerated and separated from the True teachings of the Lord Jesus.
All sorts of sexual perversion is wrong. All, including sodomy(anal sex), oral sex, role playing, sexual torture and etc. All these acts are born out of lust. Lust is wrong even in marriage. Even a child can tell that all those things are impure. No body ever had to learn that the male sex organ is made for the female sex organ and not the mouth or anus. This is one of the strongest and natural instinct in man, since even without training and practice a man knows the right place to insert his sex organ during intercourse. Just as everybody knows that food should be inserted into the mouth and not the nose. Anal and oral sex is like inserting food into the nose rather than the mouth. Sodomy and oral sex are always learnt from bad adults or watching pornography, such practices are never a natural urge that people are born with. Such practices are very unnatural, and thereofore wrong.
But this is one of the sins that it's reciprocal action is easily seen. Any society or contry that encourages such acts faces extinction. Since such sexual acts does not result in procreation. Such acts are banned in sane and prosperous countries. I know for sure that in parts of America sodomy is banned.
For those who seek evidence from the bible and those who think that anal sex with women is not wrong, let me remind you of the story of Sodom and Gomorrah.
In Sodom and Gomorrah what they practiced was anal sex. In fact the word sodomy(another word for anal sex) comes from the word Sodom, which is a city that practiced such evil and consequently was destroyed. Sodomy does not only imply anal sex with men, it simply implies anal sex. Anal sex is anal sex irrespective of whether it is done to a woman or a man, both are Sodomy.
I will tell you another thing. I personally believe that any man or woman who practices anal sex is not very far from homosexuality, bestiality(sex with animals), and etc
Accept it or not. The Truth is sometimes bitter. May God have mercy on us!!
What is all these you are saying here? some of your assertions are ridicilous and completely false, hey man go and get a mind blowing blowjob it will help you rid yourself of all the personal guilt and turmoil you are going through. A little anal sex will also be good too, just make sure you lubricate the anus well enough, you will definately like it because it is very wet and tight. all the tension will fly away and you will be born anew. Mahaukachi |
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justcool (m)
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This thread should be made only accessible to mature adults only. So many things that people say on this thread is very inappropriate for minors(people less than 18 years of age).
I advice every reader who is below 18 to excuse his or herself from reading posts on this thread.
I also wish to use this opportunity to advice the moderators to make certain threads only accessible to mature audience.
At least a note warning people of the adult nature of the contents of some threads should be placed next to the topic or at the beginning of such threads.
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mazaje (m)
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This thread should be made only accessible to mature adults only. So many things that people say on this thread is very inappropriate for minors(people less than 18 years of age).
I advice every reader who is below 18 to excuse his or herself from reading posts on this thread.
I also wish to use this opportunity to advice the moderators to make certain threads only accessible to mature audience.
At least a note warning people of the adult nature of the contents of some threads should be placed next to the topic or at the beginning of such threads.
Go and get laid, you need a mind blowing blow job Mr man. |
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