I Beat My Girl Friends

For those crucifying the poor guy for incorrect use of English, please can you take a break !
It is a borrowed/2nd language, he doesnt have to speak or write it perfectly, as long as he is able to pass across his message, which he did without much struggle.

Back to the topic

This guy to me will benefit from therapy, which isn't readily available in Nigeria, however, the little reasonable advice here on this forum can go a long way helping him. I will like to suggest that if anyone does not have a useful advice to give, they could just do with reading other people's post.

Telling the young lad to jump in front of a moving vehicle is just way too mean, to me its worse than beating someone up !

I'm in no way supporting physical aggression/abuse, however, emotional & psychological abuse can be worse (Like what we've had on this forum).

@ Topic Poster, you are half way through your problem by acknowledging it, determine to overcome it, when you're provoked, try to walk away, take a long walk, prove to yourself and others that you can do it, think about the good sides of the person who's angered u. Think about how many times you've annoyed others and they've let go.

Last but not the least, talk about it to your creator, the one who will always take and love you for who u are. How many times we've wronged God and He loves us all the same.

Sweetie, i wish you the best. Thats a much as i can put down here.

who are u superwoman

@Alexj
You are a real man my brother! Do you know that only few people can beat their girls?  I beat up mine as many times as possible. They are all the same,  give them love and they will mess you up when you least expect it. My brother, if she messes up, WACK. if she runs her mouth, WACK.  If you catch her with another guy, WACK WACK.

There's no difference between a girl and a dog! I kick mine in the  butt whenever she misbehaves. Am not evil, only do this to correct her. Girls are like dysfunctional record players. You need to wack them atimes to get them back on track.

Dont listen to all these pretenders and sycophants. Do you thing men!

Another word synonymous to man is dog. Y'all can't control yourself. By beating the girl up, you're trying to find your manliness which is just plain pathetic. A true man doesn't need to beat his girlfriend. He listens to her and stands his ground. Only shameless men have the guts to raise their hands and beat women up. You know what? Many women can beat up their men but just because they decide to take it doesn't mean you're more masculine. Imagine if wives/gfs who were beaten decide to retaliate, many men would end up like John Bobbit (without their manhoods).

rolls off sofa, laffing

well i don't think it's wise to beat yur girl, d best thing is to first, call to attention, tell her you're sorry for raising your filthy hands on her. that yu really have anger management problems that dated back to yur childhood precisely 1yr old, and that u want to ask her for her help, if she has any recommendations for yur problem, do all these on bended knees, i assure u , she will love u more, and she will  offer a solution to your terrible plight. but if she does not love u, men yu r on yur own, and please don't hit her, its immature.

hitting yur girl to show being a man is rubbish, it ain't worth it, girls know better.

good luck and please pray to God for Help. Hope this helps

@Alexj
You are a real man my brother! Do you know that only few people can beat their girls?  I beat up mine as many times as possible. They are all the same,  give them love and they will mess you up when you least expect it. My brother, if she messes up, WACK. if she runs her mouth, WACK.  If you catch her with another guy, WACK WACK.

There's no difference between a girl and a dog! I kick mine in the  butt whenever she misbehaves. Am not evil, only do this to correct her. Girls are like dysfunctional record players. You need to wack them atimes to get them back on track.

Dont listen to all these pretenders and sycophants. Do you thing men!

Now if all lucifer said about himself was real then he must be one of the worst men living on planet earth.Seriously why shld a man beat up his girlfriend/lover/wife just because she misbehaved that is the dumbest thing a man can do in his life.Beating up a member of the opposite sex is cowardice.Y not go into d streets and find a young man like yourself to beat up.If your dad were to hit urmum would u like that?4 real men i really think u were joking about all that s**t u said.
N.B Girls are not like dogs.

@Alexj
You really need to see a psychiatrist to help u.Maybe u had a rough childhood and all that stuff.But try nd remember this,  WHEN You HV AN ARGUMENT THAT IS GETTING OUT OF CONTROL JUST LEAVE TO ANOTHER PLACE

I remain cool 

  I think i should give a round of aplause to some few female for their great contribution to this topic.Alexj i think u've taken it too far in raising your hand to beat your girlfriend.men is damn to wrong for u to do that,no matter what she has done to u.she doesn't deserve to be punished like that.just thank God that you're not in the country like America,they will have threw u in prison for this kind of offense u've committed.
"u just have to take it easy man,even if she was the one that offend u or vise-versa just take a break for a while i.e leave her for sometime,i bet u she will be looking for u so that she cud apologise to u"

Hmm

seriously i think i detect a note of regret so im in full agreement with cute-ass ba that as it may, ladies can be annoying sometimes i mean really annoying  i think they should be taught how to talk.before they live their homes but hitting a lady is completely way off please change

If i may ask how many girlfriends have you had in time past so as to know how many girls you have beaten?, I strongly believe the help you need is right there in you. Anytime you want to beat up a girl again just remember these words:-

"BEATING A GIRL IS NOT A SHOW OF STRENGTH BUT WICKNESS"

Has a guy,just call your girl and apologies to her,tell her that u will not repeat that act of beating her again.u are not a baberain?get her a good gift and try to be romantic.

Seriously girls/women can be annoying!

We have samples on this thread already,

threathenin to throw fire and brimstone on the brothers
if they throw pepples at them?

Nonetheless you don't have to hit them
they don't deserve your manly show of strength

Reserve that for rugby or soccer games
And if you like boxing, thats the place to show say u be man,

  I know of an ex-girl/woman-beater.How did he quit?, his girlfriend gave him a 15minute-blow job and the guy forgot where his hands were , my guy, get blown man and  the bad habit will be BLOWN AWAY!!!!  

She got to suit you to court