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BabyCakes (f)
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Sorry Bedone, but I don't agree with you. 6years is a long time particularly in woman years and for a man to keep you for that long and decide he is not ready is unfair! he could have said so from day one and let the woman know where she stands. Men don't have biological clocks!!!  |
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DE-KING (m)
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@babycakes, "Men don't have biological clocks!!!" What do you mean?  |
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BabyCakes (f)
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You must agree that women age faster than men! a woman of 35 and a man of 35 are not on the same level. No woman wants a man to lead her on for a long period and then tell her, he is not ready! Thats what i mean by biological clocks! Men don't get to experience menopause!!!  |
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dejiolowe (m)
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my brother was telling me that women without kids reach menopause faster because they lose more eggs. pregnant women don't ovulate so they save their eggs for longer period.
more reason why women shouldn't waste their lives
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DE-KING (m)
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Now I get your point babycakes and I think I agree with you.  |
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lunafish (f)
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He's trying to ease his way back into your life like the snake he is.
Don't let him back in; by doing so you are telling him that you tolerate this shitty, infantile behaviour and are giving him a free pass to have all the benefits of a relationship without the commitment.
I understand that you were together for a long time but if you weren't even living together then it's not worth it. Wait for the man who is a TTP (Total Package) He'll give you commitment and all the other components of a great relationships.
Girl, you don't want no scrubs.
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alabiyemmy (m)
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You all talk as if the man may not have his own reasons!
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OgaMadam (f)
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How did you manage to stay so patient!!!!!!!!!! 6 years!!!  1 - 2 years tops is enough for me. if he wont deliver then, please take a hike. And ya, don't take him back. I once heard men have so much power in them that when they want something they really go and get it. If he didnt come to get you, he just wasnt that into you. Fold up and move on properly. |
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boladonas (m)
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You all talk as if the man may not have his own reasons!
Cool talk if the man wont commit, then u ve got 2 commit him allow him to do and then tell him u re pregnant u ll know his real motive if u saddle him with an unexpectedpregnancy after 6yrs |
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