How Would You Feel If You Are Older Than Your Fiance(the Guy)

Hello Nairalanders

Please i will like to get your opinion on this matter, i have a cousin who is about getting married this june she is 3 years older than her fiance and two of them are so madly in love that you see the pairs everywhere. But sometimes i watch them the way they relate but i find out that my cousin who is older respects the fiance so much as if she is younger and with this i am not always comfortable. Please i need your advice so i can wipe this issue off my mind.

Mine advise to you is that you leave them alone and mind you own business.
It will help a lot in wiping the issue off your mind.

cute ass what i needed was a good and matured answer not an arrogant and harsh answer from you i wonder how you relate to people. Na wa for you o

@ iice & omo eko
thanks girls, for understanding me ooo

@ tobiegal
  sweetie, i love you . People will ask for advice, when you tell them the truth, they'll start hating. Guess its true what they say ; truth is bitter


now over to the queen-i-know-it-all

@ pattiano

sweetheart, i'm so sorry if you didn't get the answer you were expecting, but i don't believe in bullying because that's waht you indirectly want your cousin to do.

Darling, i wasn't out to hurt you ooo, just wanted you to understand that your point of view is wrong and unfortunately for you i don't hide the truth.

You asked how i relate to people, my dear my relationship to people is as good as it gets. My friends trust me to give the sincere answer, atimes it might be sweet to the ear, and sometimes not.

remember "my friend i'm telling you is a good friend", but "my friend i would have told you is a bad one" ; you choose honey.

between everybody on this thread is sayimg the same thing so why do'you think i'm out to get you. You asked for an opinion, you got one and you're complaining.
If you can't handle ctitics then you're on the wrong planet


you took those words out of my mouth.


Pattiano, we're just trying to help you and make you understand that their hapiness is what matters. And you should be happy the guy is not taking advantage of your cousin's submissiveness

Ok Cute ass thanks a lot and to everyone who has contributed one thing or the other is just that it amazed me that was why i had to bring it to the forum for opinions i am indeed grateful and also using this opportunity to inviting all of you to the wedding come june 9th 2007 . I appreciate you all thanks.