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BADCHRIS
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hi fellow readers.i am a guy and i have a girl. we have been dating for two and half years and she always try to make me undersatand that she loves me.the annoying thing about this wholei ssue is that,she prevents me from having sex with her. i am a guy, fully charged ,i deserve to have sex when it matters.funny enough she said she is not a virgin. so why deny me. i need your advice,i don't want to hurt are by cheating on her, so i have decided to end the relationship inorder to have my way.advise me please
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abdkabir (m)
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Abeg, maybe the girl just reverted to Christainity or Islam or anyother.
Give her a chance if there's love between u. The sex shouldn't necesarily be the foundation of a relationship nonetheless it is Important.
Good Luck Dude.
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MyPeace (f)
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Go!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
She doesnt NEED someone like you, she NEEDS someone that will love her for whom she is, and not for SEX!!!
go!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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abdkabir (m)
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@ mypeace
Y dey on Rampage or What ?. No be fight, Na advice d guy want,
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MyPeace (f)
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infact i may say yes  there are some talks that annoy me. if he needs sex he should go for it, but if na love, he should know if the lady loves him, and is not doing it with another man. that should be his concern not sex !sex!! sex!! |
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nkc (m)
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my guy,check well, is she there for the money, if so flush her away
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ugodaniel (m)
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Go!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
She doesnt NEED someone like you, she NEEDS someone that will love her for whom she is, and not for SEX!!!
go!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Na waoh for you OOO |
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ima1 (f)
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you break up with a girl after 2 and half years of dating just because you want to get some, what an idiot, why the F did u decide to do it now why didn't you do it before the first year of dating, Na people like you wey go do someone else come carry some kind of disease, so ya she deserves better than you, have u even asked her why she hasn't done it with you or are you just jumping into conclusions.
think with your brain and not with your thing, if a guy cannot wait until i am ready then he doesn't dserve me.
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cheekee (f)
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you havent been fair at all if there was love you shouldnt have dumped her after wasting 2and a half years!love is much more than having sex
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j-girl (f)
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Find some other way to discharge. After 30 months, you want to break up with her because she's not ready to have sex? What if she's celibate - leave the girl alone, let her set her sights on someone else that would love her totally without bother about discharging.
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fabulous10 (m)
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i think this guy is just a player  . i believe he has another girl that he is already eyeing.or maybe he is already tired of d girl. |
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degubi (m)
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my friend is sex food?have u not being existing without sex? control your rampaging hormones.u should be thinking on how to better your life and deciding where the relationship is heading to. leaving the young lady because of sex means u did not love her in the first instance. there is more to love than sex.
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kiki (f)
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u is such a dumbass why don't u ax her y she don't want to av sex with ya instead of dumping her is that all u want from her? there must be a reason y she do not want to av sex with you because like u said she is not a Virgin and maybe she got played before and that is how she lost her virginity how d hell did u break up with her was u like sorry we cannot be together no more because i need sex. Sex ain't all that it just a 10-30 mins enjoyment dAT IS WAT You JEOPARDIZE UR RELATIONSHIP FOR You IS GOT to be kiding me with your little bitc h ass u are such a d i c k head u know what since she ain't givin u some y don't u go mess yourself OMG is guys like u that always want to hit it and run go leave her alone with your little ding a ling
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Everbright (f)
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@ badchris, don't hold the fact that she isn't a virgin against her, she may be taking caution from her past experience(s)
And look, a girl can sleep wit u n stil not love u
so be warned that love making is not a prerequisite for love
Goodluck
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Seun (m)
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Changing the title to reflect the feelings of the original poster. |
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Razorr (f)
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This would qualify as one of the most impressive threads I've seen so far! I hail all of una o! You just hit the nail on the head!  My guy, dump the chick! You don't deserve her!  |
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Ronke 2811 (f)
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Changing the title to reflect the feelings of the original poster. seun i agree with you @ badchris, don't hold the fact that she isn't a virgin against her, she may be taking caution from her past experience(s)
And look, a girl can sleep wit u n stil not love u
so be warned that love making is not a prerequisite for love
Goodluck
everbright you are just a gem
@ badchris, y are u so percular about sex, it really means you don't love her enough to respect her feelings, the fact that dshe isnt a virgin does not mean she should give in to your request, what if she was your sister will u advice her to go about ********************************************* |
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BUGSBUNNY (m)
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people, sex should be an issue when talking about relationships. if u truly love her, u will respect her wishes and stay way. laides out there, if he wants sex and u don't want it, tell ht to his face. if he insists, leave the relationship for your own good
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pearlyseed (f)
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Badchris,I think its best if you evaluated your relationship. Are u in it for sex or Love? What do u intend to get out of this relationship?Do u love her so much that u want to spend the rest of your life with her, or u just want to explore the path between her legs?
If you really love her,then u will respect her feelings and let her be. If u intend to marry her,y not just propose to her and wait till your wedding night.
I must say that you're a real man for having waited for 2yrs.
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2old4that (m)
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Guy just continue to hang on. Women are funny atimes, she could be testing your committment to her. After the testing, u can have it as u want.
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BUGSBUNNY (m)
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people please add your age to your profile 4 knowldge and other issues. girls stay strong. deny us the 'pleasure' for now
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2old4that (m)
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people please add your age to your profile 4 knowldge and other issues Your age profile is showing N/A Practice what u preach! |
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eniola1310 (f)
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@topic
i agree with u. call the relationship off. she'll find a "MAN" the really loves her and respect the way she feels about premarital sex.
i don't think u deserve her
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olagoke1 (m)
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my guy don't be a fool 4 love and don't because of love loose your girl, play wise sex is not every thing, if she did not love your money she will have a reason y she don't want to sleep with you. just call her to know the reason and check if it is genue rather than loosing her and been a looser. what i believe is that if you show her love she will open her leg for you, i think because of her experience you have not convice her enough that is y . not until youspend all your money for her. so man use your brain, if you leave her another person will take her, be a man
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getlucky
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hey, u guys should not be too hard on him. after 2 and half years of no sex he has finally come to a breaking point. she can't expect you to conform to her standard just because she doesn't feel the need for sex. here's what u should do. explain things to her and sepraate for now. u might still get 2gether with her in future when u are both ready 2 get married. i feel your pain bro  |
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BillGatesFan (m)
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Women can be funny sometimes, she may really love you without telling you the reason she don't want to have sex with you,maybe she has a disease she don't want to infect you with because she so much love and care for you: try to find her best girl friend talk to her friend and send her to inquired from her of course not telling her you send her, hope you understand,then her friend will get back to you in inform you the reason?
You will be shock at the revelation you will hear.
Women! Women!! Women!!! thats why they say every man is a foul for the woman he loves.
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onyeka_ng (f)
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hey guy r u 4 real!  common this tin no b food now! you're talking lik u ave got another girl n u jus want 2 ave a taste of d national cake before leaving. |
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tng (f)
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She doesnt NEED someone like you, she NEEDS someone that will love her for whom she is, and not for SEX!!! WORD! common this tin no b food now! I tire oh |
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Bolarge (m)
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@Topic
Y'really sound immature I'm sorry to say and I'm of the candid opinion this girl deserves someone much better than u.
Y'really believe because a girl is not a virgin she should automatically drop her undies for any idiot with a boner?
Are u aware it takes a lot more will-power for a girl that has hitherto been sexually active to change her ways and pursue the path of dignity n'self-esteem than for one who is still a virgin?
Sounds to me like u got a woman that deserves to be celebrated.
You already mentioned the most critical point in your write-up which is she loves u.
I'm of the opinion u don't suspect this girl of cheating on u someplace because u definitely would've mentioned it so as to fortify your lame excuse for wanting out of the relationship so don't even try bringin it up as an afterthought.
Matter of fact I think u shld leave her and go find yourself a good shag-mate afterall we men never appreciate a good woman until we lose her.
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