Of What Use Is My Girlfriend If I Can't Have Sex With Her?

Your girl said she can't have sex with you, atleast not yet, so you want to dump her because of that. Ok, you dump her and go get another girl who will agree to have sex with you, and she later tells you to take it slow, or she decided not to have sex with you for some time, I bet u'll dump her too. For real that was just stupid of you, dumping your girl because she wont let you hit it, can you even imagine the stupidity, check out the title of your post "OF What Use Is My Girlfriend If I Can't Have Sex With Her?", so u're just dating her because you want sex, why not rent a hoochie or something, its obvious u don't love her if you do, u will be patient!

i no get why people still dey answer this idiot

I don't feel comfortable to comment but I will anyway.
Sex is not all that important my guy. determine what direction the relationship is heading and from what position the relationship took off. And what circumstances surrounds the relationhip. why u ask me, ? I have been there in the past.
I was dating a girl when in school. for one year plus no sex and it was not in my agenda and it was known to her. my principle then was sex spoils relationship, I am a believer even back then. somehow a lady friend of mine started calling me 'shoe shiner'. to prove otherwise I asked my girl about her position on sex and found bad past experience. I went ahead and initiated sex ( ie. seduced her).
I lost my virginity and my happiness and when I tried to return threlationship back to no sex- we broke up, why! b/c she wants the sex more than I do.

so check well my guy, communication is the best in all relationship.

  It's a sad fact that people like you get easily what a million of we guys are praying to get.Do you know that beside the fact that you are childish,you also sound as the worst ingrate to me?Sorry if am harsh on you,but you should know that "Love is the principal thing", and "A girl you can trust is worth more than thousands you who'll jump into bed with you at the snap of your finger"
  If  she love you like you say she does then let me inform you that you can put your mind at rest that she can be trusted for the singular reason of saying NO to sex with you.
  If you are wise,i think the best thing you can do to yourself is to run abegging to her and see if she'll have you back.Some things in life are worth waiting for: try true love for size!

Of What Use Is My Girlfriend If I Can't Have Sex With Her?

Abi ooo--Abeg leave her o jare! Find sm1 Else

Sex should not be the basis for girlfriend but care, love (not sex) and someone who is ever ready to be there when she is needed to be there.

dude,
you got a definete utilitarian approach to this relationship thing
"What Use Is My Girlfriend If I Can't Have Sex With Her?"
this implies that for you,  a girlfriend is an object with a ONLY ONE  function-SEX.
If thats d case u need 2 get with a chick who looks at guys d same way
'ie a boyfriend is only to be used for SEX'
why bother with all the other things that come with relatinships, like companionship, commitment, and all that?especially if they are of 'no use ' to you ?

This guy need's advice not the insults being thrown his way. After 2 years she still don't want to have sex because she's not a sex object, come on, give me a break. I don't believe her. She must have sexual needs as well. Now who is fulfilling her sexual wishes? This is the question that should be answered by her. Guys don't believe all that lies about women not wanting sex as much as we do.

she is telling you that you are not man enough to see her pants period. carry go bro sand leave the girl with her diamond booty.

Sex shouldn't be the fundamental part of a romantic relationship, itz more of how long you can stay without having sex.
I think sex should be introduced only after marriage

I don talk my own finish.

Guy no spend shishi on her. Sex is not important and so is spending money b/4 marriage on a woman that is not ur wife.

The best thing you can do 4 yourself is to zip ur pockets along with ur pants. I don't think spending money should be introduced into a relationship until after marriage.

Does anybody have a take on that?

What i mean by spending money is that
if she has 'sworn' not to have sex with anybody not her husband, Good

but the guy should let her know that he has also 'sworn' to his God not to spend a kobo on a woman that is not his wife.
I don't think a guy having money should be important to a relationship



And besides i beg to differ with those who say he sees her as a sexual object.

Show me a guy who says he does not see a woman as a sex object to an extent and il show you a liar

Dude! don't like to say this but it must be said! wots life full of time if one can not stop and stare even for a while- said by little squrriel i.e an animal.
Do you spend your money and time on the gurl? If yes i will like you to stop and let her love you for who you are.
   Stop the goodies flowing from your side,deny her that she loves so much. wot the mess! i can't believe a gurl is feeding my hommy that crap and you taking the shit.
  Make her feel it, don't hurt her, but always try to put down does things that give her pleasure that come from your side.
Then watch.
--------------------------------------- The Of Don Chochori,

I will tell her, if we can't have sex, will she be ok if I start fucking other girls? of course she will say no but if she needs advice, she should ask people for help. I mean really if  she will have the nerve to tell other girls that she is denying her man of sex, Its aint gona happen, pop it open or nothing

hmmmm you watched all the while and you never understood her? she doesnt trust you in these 2 years? you never discussed it? is is not sexy or doesnt find you sexy? she caught you pants down before?,  a mllion and one questions you jst framed this and want us to keep talking? i guess you succeeding anyway? good luck in your searches , lol

Men you are the only one who knows why you got her dump her if she's fucking up.